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Should I wait?
Ok me and my boyfriend broke up. I love him a lot, and he says he loves me. Without going into it too much, we sometimes argued about things we shouldn't, because they didn't really matter. I doubted the relationship and it upset him, and he broke up with me. A week earlier he was telling everyone how happy he was with me.
I asked if we could try again with the relationship and he said he wanted to think about it. We spoke on and off during the week, but by the end of it he stuck with the decision to end it. After speaking to him about it, he said he wasn't sure now. He said he loves me and wants me, but he doesn't want me to doubt again.
I have given him more time to think on it as he requested, but am I wasting my time? I'm cautious because a guy I dated over a year ago said to me he wasn't sure how he felt, and that his head was messed up so he didn't know what to feel and that resulted in a break up, so i'm worried this will too. He keeps putting lyrics to our favourite song on his facebook status, it's our song. Is he doing it because he misses me?
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You've asked a lot of questions about this situation hun, and you aren't going to like what I have to say, but it's the truth of what I see:
You need to let this go now.
Both of you aren't able to commit to a relationship right now: You didn't coomunicate your doubts very well and now he is saying he can't cope with any doubts, which is a lunatic statement. There are always doubts and disagreements in relationships.
All the song means, is that he thinking about you. It doesn't means those thought are going to lead you two back togeather.
At the moment, you'd both be best served by a clean break up. Dragging this out when it's clear that you can't quite overcome togeather over the rough emotions that have been stirred up is only going to hurt you both.
Get off the roller coaster and stop waiting for him. You are broken up right now. Treat it like a break up, grieve and start to work on letting it go.
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