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Every time I get close to him I start feeling all weird and I don't know what is wrong with me!


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 11:50 pm

Ok, so there's this guy at my school, we usually always sit on the same lunch table. I haven't ever noticed it before but recently he's been staring at me, like ALOT. Like, whenever I'm not looking, he stares at me, but whenever I turn back, he turns away. What do I do?! I don't know if he just finds me weird or something. But, I don't want to talk to him, because whenever I get to close to him, I start feeling all weird, like I get all hot and start sweating, and my face turns red its embarrassing. Someone help me! I don't no what to do and I have no idea what's wrong with me!

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How do I get rid of all this acne that came out of nowhere?


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 10:53 pm

I seem to have the most acne for my age. The thing is I eat healthy compared to other kids ( not too many processed foods) and I exercise and wash my face and use organic facial scrubs with nytric ( idk how to spell it) acid. I guess I am sorta stressed but not put under the pressure that other kids are. WHAT IS GOING ON I had a clear zit free face last year and now, well now there's acne on my forehead and both cheekbones. I have tried using salt it doesn't work and the the acid stuff just prevents . My parents won't let me get prescription because my moms against drugs( she thinks everything can be solved by eating vegies) WHY ARE ZITS POPPIN UP AND HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM thx 😘

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I don't know what school to go to


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 10:36 pm

Ok I won't say the names of these school, but one will be School A, and I went to school a for 6 years and it was ok, then I left and went to School B for a year and loved it. I made so many friends, but I had to annually do a public speaking project, and it scared me so much I decided to go back to School A. Now I need to decide where to go next year. I have friends at both schools and I like School B better but I'm soooo scared of Public speaking there. What do I do? If anyone can help I would be sooo grateful and give advice in return!!

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My mental illnesses are getting in the way of me getting a job


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 9:52 pm

I'm a 19 year old girl. I have Bipolar 1, depression, severe anxiety, severe panic attacks, and insomnia. I also have some learning disabilities and agoraphobia (fear of people). Not only is all of this very difficult to deal with as it is, but I can't get a job or complete my GED because of it. I'm absolutely terrified to do most anything; make phone calls, go to the store, go out with friends, even just sitting at home alone triggers panic attacks. I've tried to get jobs but I've failed in all attempts. The farthest I've gotten, was past the interview which was very very difficult and started my first day but I had a severe panic attack and a mental breakdown, to which they sent me home, and I wasn't able to continue working there. It was...

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Unexplained joint pain


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 9:14 pm

21/f About 3 weeks ago, I noticed my left wrist kind of hurt whenever I'd try to use it to turn something. The area that hurts is the joint between my thumb and index finger. This is slightly confusing because I'm right handed. I turn a lot of things at work with both hands so I figured I'd leave it alone for a while and it would go away. Now, it's 3 weeks later and my left elbow is swollen and hurts. I don't recall sleeping on it differently or injuring it at all. But the area between the two bones on it is normal color but a little swelled. I could barely use my arm today. The entire arm also feels stiff and keeps popping when I move it. Is it possible to get arthritis at my age? Will the pain go away or should I see a doctor?

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I think I'm pregnant


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 9:10 pm

I have been talking to a friend of my brothers for a few months now. We have been hanging out for the past couple weeks. The first time we had sex was almost four weeks ago. I haven't gotten my period since, and I have been feeling a little nauseous. I told him over the weekend that I might be pregnant and he told me he's not ready for a baby and it's bad timing because we are not really dating, but he would be there for me if it's definitely his kid. My brother found out about us hanging out and he told me to be careful because he said he's really shady and he doesn't want him to hurt me. I don't know whether to believe my brother or not because he really seems like a great guy. I don't know what to do. If I am pregnant, I'm horrified that...

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Liking a guy i've never actually met


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 4:47 pm

There's this guy that I think is really cool and cute. I first saw him working at this restaurant I go to often and was going to let it go but I recently found his Facebook because we have A LOT of mutual friends and he was tagged in one of the pictures. So I added him and just so I could talk to him I was like "hey you look so familiar and I've been trying to figure out where I know you from did you go to ____High school? and he was like yeah and gave me the year he graduated. so I was like oh okay that's probably where I know you from. Sorry if I came off as a creep or anything lol. and he said its okay :) and that was the end of the convo. now Idk how I could begin talking to him again or if I should even try to talk to again. SO I...

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A guy liked me but he stopped talking to me because of his friend


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 4:28 pm

Okay so. (Im using fake names here) Im a girl and really like this guy named Bob. Bob likes me back or I thought he did anyways. Bob's best friend is named John. John also likes me. I dont like John, I like Bob. But John was mad that I didnt like him and doesnt talk to me anymore. Understandable. BUT he forbids Bob to talk to me. Bob and I havent spoken in a couple weeks and he didnt reply to the one time i called him and left a message saying something like um i would like to hear whats going on from you and not anyone else because im really in the dark here and this is pissing me off. Bob likes all my pictures on instagram which is also very annoying because if hes on his phone he clearly got my voice mail and text. I dont know what to d...

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I'm depressed and I want help!


Posted Monday April 14 2014, 3:51 am

I'm a 14 year old girl, I haven't been diagnosed with depression but it's kinda obvious....
Before Christmas 2013 I started cutting because I was upset about my life at home, my dad was a control freak and wouldn't let me go anywhere or even be with one of my best friends just because she said something he didn't like a while ago. I got so frustrated and sad that I didn't know wheat else to do, after about 2months my parents found out.. They did try to help me by asking what I wanted to change but I know it really hurt them that they knew what I was doing to myself and that I was so upset. I stopped for about a month and then it got worse, all because I fell in love with this boy and we didn't work out the way I wanted it to.. Still ...

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absolutely can't get over my fear


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 9:24 pm

It's a silly fear I'm embarrassed to admit… I'm afraid of demons and evil spirits. It's really embarising,I practice white magic and am an altar server! But they haunt my worst nightmares and cause me panic attacks. I'd say what I'm afraid of is being hurt by them. I know God is much more powerful, but for some reason I'm still scared. I really feel I need to get rid of this, or it'll rule my life, it's the fear that makes me bite my nails, and I have a crucifix over my bed, pray the rosary when I get demon dreams. They all lead to nothing. I must eliminate this. How can I overcome this fear without telling anyone? Please, I'm ashamed of it. I once tried to hint it to my mom, and she laughed telling me it was silly.

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One or two kittens?


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 8:34 pm

I'm adopting a black domestic short-hair kitten from a nearby rescue, and I was wondering if I should get one or two of them. We have two kids who should be mature enough to care for a pet, and a medium-sized house. I'm a stay-at-home parent, so the kitten(s) wouldn't be alone too much. We already have a kitten picked out (short black fur with a white patch on her neck), and are planning to name her Kia. So, now we just need to decide if we should get a second kitten. There are five other kittens in the litter (two black boy kittens, two black girl kittens, and a white girl), who all seem to have pretty good bonds with each other. So, should we get another kitten? (We are well aware of the costs of having a cat) If yes, which one should we ...

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Ex-boyfriend Problems


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 7:24 pm

My ex and I dated for over a year. We broke up 8 months ago. He treated me poorly. Made me feel bad about myself, often. We fought, leaving me crying all the time. However, for some reason, I STILL MISS HIM SO BAD! We've tried getting back together more than once. It never works out. It's always good at first, but ends up crappy again. Just recently, he started texting me again. It's only every few days or so. He came over the other night. The night was PERFECT. The next morning, however, he made it clear that he didn't want to try a relationship again. (We've tried that 3 times now..)He just wants to be friends and keep in touch. KEEP IN TOUCH? With someone I love more than anything, despite all of the flaws of our relationship? It sounds...

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Open relationship


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 6:41 pm

Hi,my wife is 40 and I am 49. Our love life is so so. If and when we do, we both fantasize. Hers is mature light skin men, big guy, hairy chest who can overwhelm her with his strength ( I am only 5'7")or her ex boss who tried to seduce her, she was in her 20s n he around 50. She also asks me if I was also fantasizing and I would also fantasize. After few years I asked her if she wants to try out her fantasy and also it would make me happy too but she says no. I told her atleast try it once and if U dont like then we dont do that again and for I know I may not like it. She says no. So, how do I convince her? Ofcourse men will be screened and safety will be priority. Any advise? I really want her to try it ONCE and then we go from there. Kindly advise please. Thank you.Thank you.

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Hair Stuck In Comb


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 5:20 pm

Help!! My hair is wrapped around a round comb and it's literally near the scalp! It hurts everytime I try to get a piece of hair out. I tried using conditioner and water, which helped, but when my hair dried, it became all hard and now I can't get it out. Please, is there still a way without chopping my hair off????

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Met a guy at my school that goes to another school


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 5:15 pm

I met a new guy at my college who happens to go to another college in another state. It's not far from me but we met and clicked really well. We did hook up, minus the sex, and got each other's numbers. He even slept in my bed the night we met. Quick, I know, but it happened and I don't regret it. However, before anything happened and we were just laying in my bed, cuddling, I asked him how many girls he hooked up with at my school and he told me it was only one. I ask because the friend he was visiting, his roommate had made me think he hooked up with many more in just the way he was saying things to him and I knew something was going to happen and I didn't just want to be another number for him, so I asked. I guess after he told me it was...

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Effective ways to die!


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 3:18 pm

If you can tell me few ways to die which fulfill following conditions:

1. Pain free death

2. Quick death

Also please suggest me a way that no one comes to know about my death.

I do not want to cause any pain to anyone else.

Important:
I am not seeking motivational answers, quotes from bible or Quran or looking any kind of self approval. I again request you to not give me such answers. Thanks.

Just for readers sake: i am not doing this in sadness or despair. And trust me I'm not in denial.

Not going to tell much about myself. Thanks.

Keep answers short and to the point.

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How to get over a best friend


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 2:56 pm

Aright, so a few weeks ago I snapped and told my best friend that I really really bloody liked her. Her response was that she knew that I liked her and had done for a while but still wanted the friendship. This hit me hard and so i asked for some space for a few days and she agreed. Its a few weeks from that and things are back to normal really, we talk like we did ect but im not sure if im over her if not what do i do? I dont want to end the friendship as you dont come across good friends often....

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Can't Decide Which Bachelor


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 11:51 am

Well, I'm just finishing high school and next year I'll be going to university. See, my head has always been divided by arts and sciences, I can't live without one of them. Since I was little I was a little geek that asked for a microscope and a telescope when little and memorized a little book about the planets. I also loved to scavenge the grounds for "minerals" and "diamonds". Silly, I know, but I didn't know how silly it was when I was six! Anyways, I also loved to draw a lot. As I got into high school I also developed myself as a writer - I just LOVE writing, just about anything. My friends would always come to me when we had to do essays so I could peer review before the teacher saw them. I even write fanfic novels...

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How to prevent large thigh muscles?


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 6:00 am

15f, So i cycle about 10 miles every day, and recently i have noticed my thigh muscle is a bit bigger and is sort of rectangular in shape (sort of). I really hate the way this looks and was wondering if there was any way to slim down this muscle?

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Loyal to the end. an outsiders need to answers


Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 4:31 am

Can a friendship be saved in anyway if the person has made their whole life about their boyfriend/husband and dumped all their friends and some family to put ALL their energy into that person and no one else in life?

Its a long and complicated story that i dont want to type all out on here, but their now bringing a baby into the world, while living with a controlling mother who hates all her childrens friends. Its been increasingly harder to contact her as everytime i call someone ELSE picks up her cell phone and says shes "busy", doesnt live there anymore, or the phone no longer belongs to her. She is easily influenced by her mother and her overly controlling ways. it is engrained in her to give up a fight easily...

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