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Ex-boyfriend Problems
My ex and I dated for over a year. We broke up 8 months ago. He treated me poorly. Made me feel bad about myself, often. We fought, leaving me crying all the time. However, for some reason, I STILL MISS HIM SO BAD! We've tried getting back together more than once. It never works out. It's always good at first, but ends up crappy again. Just recently, he started texting me again. It's only every few days or so. He came over the other night. The night was PERFECT. The next morning, however, he made it clear that he didn't want to try a relationship again. (We've tried that 3 times now..)He just wants to be friends and keep in touch. KEEP IN TOUCH? With someone I love more than anything, despite all of the flaws of our relationship? It sounds silly. He treated me bad, I deserve better. I know. I don't want a relationship with him again. It just hurt to hear that he didn't want me back. Has he really moved on? Would he text me and drive an hour to see me for a night if he didn't still care a little? My feelings are so mixed up. I feel so lonely. I feel as if I opened all of the closed wounds that were beginning to heal slowly. I feel as if I should have moved on after 8 months, despite the 3 times we tried again. I just want to know if he really does still love me.. just too prideful to show it? Why else would he keep contact?
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hunny, he wants to probly stay in contact because he knows your weak for him in that way so whenever he decides come around, he thinks he'll be able to use you sexually just to get some booty, only to leave again when he tires of you. Youve now become his "side bitch" which is the worst place to be, and theres no way to get out of that spot in his mind because he already told you he didnt want to try again, and usually when i guy has made up his mind about WHERE and what role youll play in his life, then its pretty much set alot of times.
maybe you need to take a break from him and re-evaluate your own life and focus on you, your friends, and bettering relationships with people around you instead. then come back to the situation with him once some time has passes and you can think with a clear, logical, focused, organized mind. Then youll probably see how bad he was for you, and how his relationship with you probly caused the issued you had with him to spill over into other peoples lives around you. people who care about you suffer when your in relationships like this too, not just you. so break off communication, make sure people know it, and over time youll start to see what that toxic person was doing to you. ; ) good luck sweetie.
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