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Every time I get close to him I start feeling all weird and I don't know what is wrong with me!
Ok, so there's this guy at my school, we usually always sit on the same lunch table. I haven't ever noticed it before but recently he's been staring at me, like ALOT. Like, whenever I'm not looking, he stares at me, but whenever I turn back, he turns away. What do I do?! I don't know if he just finds me weird or something. But, I don't want to talk to him, because whenever I get to close to him, I start feeling all weird, like I get all hot and start sweating, and my face turns red its embarrassing. Someone help me! I don't no what to do and I have no idea what's wrong with me!
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Here's a question to ask yourself. Do I feel weird when I get near all guys? Or do I feel that way only when I get near him.
If you feel that way with all guys, it may be a social anxiety connected with guys, not knowing how to understand them or how to talk to them cus its something you haven't done much before.
Or if its only with him, you may feel an attraction to him. You don't know enough to "Like" him yet but if You're of an age where you're going through puberty, having these strange feelings are quite normal when near a guy you find cute and attractive, especially when he stares at you lots, smiles at you or finds reasons to be near you.
Those are things a guy does when he has some initial interest in a girl. He may not know if he will really like you yet and is just as scared and embarrassed as you to make any move to try to talk and have conversation because this is all new to him too. Next time you have a chance, just smile at him, keep that up, smiling anytime he's caught looking your way. Smiling is a way people who don't know each other yet, let the other person know that they are friendly and approachable, that you won't be mean if he comes over to talk to you. If the smiling goes well, add a greeting, using his name Hi Kevin. Good morning Kevin. You have to start learning sometime how to talk to the opposite sex. May as well practice with someone who seems to have an interest in you to begin with.
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