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how 2 mek frenz


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 2:57 am

How to mek frenz

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Scared to live alone


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 1:22 am

Tonight's my first night staying in a house by myself ever. I've seriously never done this before and I wouldn't admit it if this wasn't anonymous, but I'm scared. I live in a nice neighborhood and don't know of a single break in that's ever happened here, but I still can't help feeling a little nervous about it. I'm a woman by the way and I'm paranoid about what would happen if the wrong person found out that I live alone. I have three small dogs who bark at noises. Part of me thinks that will make thing better, but the other part thinks it will make things worse. I feel like they'll let me know if someone's outside or anything. However, I also think they'll scare !e when they bark at nothing and then I'll get used to it and ignore them i...

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Is It Childish to Miss Your Mom?


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 1:08 am

Is it childish to be in college and to miss your parents, especially your mom? How do you handle that? Especially when you haven't been away from your mom for more than three days in YEARS. Like 16 or 17 years. My mom's not far away and I'm lucky because I'll never go more than a week without seeing her, but this still sucks. I'm excited about the good times I'm gonna have in the future, but still. I miss my dad too, but I'm used to being away from him (he travels a lot). Does anyone have any advice. Am I completely childish for missing my mom and dad at my age?

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I can't gain or lose weight


Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 12:33 am

No matter what I do, I can't seem to gain of lose any weight other than a few pounds. I'm a 13 year old female, and currently 147 pounds. Even if I'm using the threadmil, or just sitting one the couch, nothing really changes. Is this bad, or is it normal?


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Feel too confused with his ahhh :////


Posted Saturday September 12 2015, 8:46 pm

Well it's kind of a long story short, around the beginning of July I met this guy randomly on the street he's from the same country as me and everything we hit off straight away, that day we spoke as if we had known each other for a lifetime, well we swapped numbers etc and we've been seeing each other since. We did speak about each others past relationships because we're still on that stage of getting to know each other, he's told me he's attracted to me and he started to like me and he really wants to continue getting to know me how he would like a relationship with me eventually, we get a long great. He told me he had been with someone for 5 years etc... And I asked him whether he still had feelings for her or not and he said that there ...

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my family is mad at me


Posted Saturday September 12 2015, 6:14 am

I don't really know where to begin but i am going to start off by saying i am a 26 year old femaleand awhile back I moved in with my cousin and i think it might have been the biggest mistake I ever made in my life becaus a sonreally who has autisim who is 24black but has the mind of a 2 year old and he is really attached to me ge follows me everywhere. I can't even go to the bathroom without him wanting to know where i am going. I talked to my cousin and explained to jer that I get nervous easily and have panick attacks and just need time to myself amd she wont speak to me .She said that I was mistreating him because I kept avoiding him because I needed a break and I don't want her to be mad at me but I can't even watch a movie in my room w...

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Please someone talk to me? My heart broke and I started cutting again... :-(


Posted Saturday September 12 2015, 1:25 am

I haven't cut myself in about 2-3 years, but today something happened and my heart is broken and I didn't know what to turn to so I cut again.. And it felt so good, ik ow it's gonna be hard to try to stop now. Please someone talk to me. Idk what to do.

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HAIR DYE MISHAP


Posted Friday September 11 2015, 11:52 pm

okay so I was so excited to dye my hair deep purple with special effects. it's gotten amazing reviews everywhere i go and my sister tried it and it turned out beautifully.

but for some reason, mine not only turned my hair purple, but my entire bathroom and my whole body!! I don't know what happened! I followed the directions; cleaned my hair, let it dry, then I added the hair dye to my hair, and it was super messy. so glad i had gloves. i let it sit in my hair for about 30-45 minutes. then I washed it out in the shower and I noticed right away something was wrong when I opened my eyes and saw that my hands were purple! I closed my eyes and washed as much as I could, used shampoo, wiped down with some dove soap, then got out a...

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Academic Withdrawal


Posted Friday September 11 2015, 5:41 pm

I had previously been placed on academic dismissal from a graduate program, but had gotten permission to withdraw from the university, and now I have a grade of "W" on my transcript (where i had hoped I could just drop the class and not have it appear on my record).

How would this look to other universities, in case I decide to apply to different programs at a future date?

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Am I able to play football?


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 6:02 pm

I am in seventh grade and I was wondering if I could play football in eighth grade. I weigh 133 pounds and I am 5'5. Not that much in shape and have more of a smaller body type. I was planning on working out this summer if I have to because I really want to play but I don't know if it will be too much for me. What position could I play also, I asked some people but that didn't really help. I don't think I can play like on of the bigger guys who is supposed to tackle anybody but I thought maybe running back or something would be okay. This will also be my first time playing on a team since I never did sports as a kid but a lot of my friends are doing football so I wanna do it too. A lot of the other kids are way more experienced too. Please help!

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Confused about Sexuality


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 5:05 pm

I want to kiss my friend. We are both females. I've never kissed anyone before. I'm sixteen. I've only begun to question my sexuality this summer. What should I do? Kiss her, even though I'm almost certain she's straight? I don't want to ruin our friendship. Another friend we hang out with knows I may have feelings for this girl. I don't want to ruin this dynamic, but sometimes I look at this girl and want to kiss her more than I've wanted to kiss anyone.

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How to write a screamo song?


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 5:00 pm

Ok before every metal head runs in to correct me, I'm talking about bands like Peirce the Veil, Alesana, and Asking Alexandria as screamo. And screamo is the most understood term so deal with it. Anyway I'm wondering how to write a screamo song, and what makes a band screamo?

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I had sex with him. I feel very awful and don't know what to do


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 1:18 pm

So i'm 14 years old and have never been in a relationship. 3 years ago boys started paying attention to me because I guess "I look mature (big butt) for my age". Anyway I attended my neighborhood school for a month and most of the guys in 8th- 10th grade paid attention to me. I am very shy So they would try and grab my butt or rub my waist. I would get them to stop. But one of the boys he would treat me differently.He's 16 and When i transferred i told him about how boys in that school were and he said he would protect me. Well for some reason I fell for him.Me and him would kiss and do innocent stuff, but we said we would start a serious relationship. My best friend who lived near me told me he was a manwhore and not go for him. ...

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I found out yesterday I have Herpes.


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 10:03 am

23/F

So basically I'll start off with I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and when we broke up in June I felt so sad i have always had depression and self harmed myself but no one knew Fourth of July weekend I felt the saddest I have ever felt and looked at my medicine cabinet and said what am I going to take to kill myself I thought about death every day and thought it was normal. I talked to my doctor and she put me on zoloft. I have never felt better until yesterday. I met this new guy and I finally moved on to my ex we had sex twice both with condoms. The only skin on skin action was us in the shower but we never physically did it until after with a condom. The next day I had an outrageous yeast infection and I found out...

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Daughter has become emo?


Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 6:28 am

My daughter who is 12 has recently gotten into the emo music, and it led to her dresssing in black, and being more introverted, and she seems sadder. And now she wears her hair to the side covering an eye and she asked the hair styler to layer her hair and "thin out the ends 3-4 inches" which I found was the emo haircut. Her friends are also starting to pick to pick up on it and dressing in black and acting darker. I looked it up and found out it was a cult and the such....what do I do to stop it?

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Should I transfer to a different college and dorm?


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 11:34 pm

When I first started at the college I'm currently enrolled at they told me the total cost of my tuition for 2 years would be around 22k. I took out a loan to cover the first year of $10,500 and then I also had two stafford loans that were around $5k together, so all together I had 15.5k out in loans.

Fast forward to now, I'm 4 months in and they've somehow used up ALL OF MY LOANS and they're saying that I'm only financially covered through the end of the next three weeks (or this quarter of classes). To make things even crazier I've only taken three classes at the campus and the rest were online. So they've charged me $15,500 for only 4 months of schooling and of course they don't accept scholarships.

Now I'm...

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how to tell your parents you are pregnant at 13


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 10:18 pm

i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby?

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My friend is doing inappropriate stuff


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 10:00 pm

I'm 14 and my friend is a year older than I. We've been friends since we were little kids and our parents are close friends. Awhile ago my dad was on Twitter and he saw her page and it said stuff like "I like sex". I told my dad it wasn't hers because I didn't believe she would do something like that plus when we hang uo she doesn't seem like that. So today my friend from church was on Instagram and she showed me a picture of her in only her bra (it was a top of the body picture) and I was like wth. I need to know if I should tell my dad he was right and tell him to talk to her parent or if I should try to talk to her myself or if I should just leave it alone. If I tell my dad I'm scared she might be mad at me. And if I talk to her what should I say? Please help!

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I don't know what to do anymore


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 9:48 pm

My mom tells at me constantly, then pretends like nothing ever happened. She calls me names, one time she kept screaming that I'm pathetic, over and over again, I just can't take these insults anymore. I started cutting every time she breaks me down. I don't make them very deep, but just enough so they bleed. I just hate her so much, if I could, I would try to get some space for a while, but I can't, usually when she does this is at night, and I can't get out because of my curfew. I did try to talk to her about it, but she said it was my fault. I have really bad grades, I just don't care about them anymore. Sorry if there are so many questions in here, but I just really need to vent, and get some advice. BTW I'm a 13 year old female, if that helps.

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Fitbit says I burned calories when I wasn't even wearing it?


Posted Wednesday September 9 2015, 1:35 pm

I recently purchased the Fitbit charge. I just got it in the mail yesterday. I set it up and linked it to my Fitbit app on my phone. I then plugged it in to charge and kept it on my nightstand. I woke up and it said that I already burned 637 calories and I wasn't even wearing the Fitbit overnight. I know that it calculates your BMR in there. But I was not even wearing it. Can anyone explain this to me?

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