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Confused about Sexuality
I want to kiss my friend. We are both females. I've never kissed anyone before. I'm sixteen. I've only begun to question my sexuality this summer. What should I do? Kiss her, even though I'm almost certain she's straight? I don't want to ruin our friendship. Another friend we hang out with knows I may have feelings for this girl. I don't want to ruin this dynamic, but sometimes I look at this girl and want to kiss her more than I've wanted to kiss anyone.
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Razhie is right you should not kiss someone who may not want to be kissed by you, especially someone of the same sex.
As far as wanting to kiss her and being confused about your sexuality; don't be. It is not uncommon for teenagers at some point during puberty to have feelings for someone of the same sex. It is all part of becoming sexually aware.
It does not mean you are gay. Being gay is how you are born and something you would have had feelings of and even known long before puberty hit. As for being bi scientist are of mixed opinion on that. Some feel like being gay this is how one is born. Others feel it is a learned lifestyle. Regardless of which just wanting to kiss someone does not mean you are either. as I said at some point during puberty as many as 95% of teenagers will engage in some type of same sex sexual activity.
My advice is to relax your normal, just do not go kissing this girl unless she wants to be kissed by you.
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You shouldn't kiss anyone who doesn't want to be kissed, you should always do your due diligence. In a case like this, where there is confusion and a friendship, that means asking.
A kiss should be both people's choice, so if you really want to pursue this, you'll need to speak to her, not grab at her.
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