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how can i know if im a good kisser


Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 4:09 am

im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 18 years old (im thinking should i have sex with him its cause i feel hes to big for me and shit im steel virgin) what should i do should i have sex with him?

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girls can you tell me how to tell if a girl is attracted to you?


Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 1:49 am

Would like to know how tell if a girl is attracted to you or interested in you.

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Im in love with my guy friend


Posted Friday January 4 2013, 11:14 pm

I used to talk to a guy about 3 years ago and we met through a mutual friend who is also my best friend. We never did more than hug and we ended it not long after we met but we have stayed in touch on and off for the past 3 years. Over the past 6 months we have started to become closer and hangout all the time. It's clear that he likes me...he invited me to his parents house for Christmas dinner, he flirts with me a lot when we hangout, he has asked me more than once to transfer colleges back to my hometown where he lives, and recently he put his hand on my leg in the car it felt so good to feel him touch me this way but I knew it was wrong so I pushed his hand away. I want to be with him so bad but he has a girlfriend and they've been toge...

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I simply don't understand my boyfriend's mom. Why is she acting like this?


Posted Friday January 4 2013, 5:04 am

18,female
I've been dating this guy for nearly a year and a half. We have a great relationship. But what really bugs me is his mother. Now,I'm not stuck up or arrogant or whatever,but almost every adult I met says I'm a genius. I'm a graduate of Medical school and aiming to be a doctor someday. I'm one of the best students in my school. So yeah,I've got brains. And I've been recognized for that. But she,his mother,is the only one who thinks otherwise. Not just that,she never misses any opportunity to indirectly insult me. In a way that I can't exactly call an insult,but it's still pretty obvious. I'm really good at pretty much anything I set my mind to. And if I don't know something,it's because it doesn't interest me. Yet she always...

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Are these symptoms of love? Are they normal?


Posted Friday January 4 2013, 3:05 am

I don't know what's happening to me... It takes me forever to go to sleep nowadays. I'll just lie in bed at night for hours, thinking about him, his smile, thinking back on great memories we've shared, picturing him and I napping in the shade with my head on his chest, imagine us slow dancing, imagining him kissing me, etc. I keep listening to love songs, daydreaming, grinning. There's this constant swelling feeling in my chest, it's kinda weird, but I don't really mind it. When I daydream about him, the swelling feeling is almost overwhelming. He's the first thing that pops into my head when I wake up in the morning, and the thing depriving me of sleep at night. It's driving me insane! Are these things common? More importantly, am I crazy?...

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I'm confused. Is this it between us?


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 10:56 pm

F/17
I was with my boyfriend for 6 months when our relationship went down hill, I started to feel as though he was drifting away from me. He would never put the effort in to seeing me as much as he used to, he would hardly text me and I'd open up about it and say, look I don't like how you're behaving, he would tell me to stop moaning and being a bitch, he would never understand where I'm coming from and he made it out to be my fault that he was drifting and acting not interested, he would say that "you're pushing me away with your constant moaning" but I had to tell him how I was feeling, we got back on track for about a month, all I did was make effort, I texted him as soon as I got up in the morning, he never would text ...

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Infidelity: does he have feelings for her? why stay married?


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 10:49 pm

If a man cheats on his wife wiht the same woman for 4 years, hangs or with her occasionally, calls her, texts her, etc.(and tries to hide it), does that mean he has feelings for her? If so why does he stay married?

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i have a crush on a girl


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 9:36 pm

I am 13.I have a crush on a girl named Mira. How can i get her to like me? I need to know by Janruary 7, 2013.

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i like my friend..who has a girlfriend..


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 9:12 pm

Female, 19 yrs

Okay so freshman year of high school I met this guy Ryan through my good friends Hayley & John. The 4 of us (me, Ryan, Hayley & John) hung out a lot the summer before sophomore year and Ryan and I clicked & became good friends instantly. I was always sort of attracted to Ryan but I never told him how I felt since I thought it was just a little crush. So sophomore year, I found out that he was moving 13 hours away to California. We went to different high schools so I asked him to go to my spring fling with me. We both had an awesome time & then a couple weeks later he moved away. We texted a little after he moved & kept in touch over Facebook, but inevitably we drifted apart a little. He woul...

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i have this feeling hmm


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 1:52 pm

well it's been like 7months since my ex and i broke up, its hit me well hard at first but like i wouldnt really show how i feel.
I have this feeling that he's going to come back to me sooner or later, do u think he can? he told me before like 1month ago how he was seeing some girl just to forget me, i asked him did it work and he said he didnt know , hes not seeing her anymore we are 'friends' but we don't really communicate, reason being is i don't understand why he came back to be friends if he never ever starts the conversation. Last time we spoke was on new years eve.
I know males have a lot of pride, and he is someone that will never show how he feels even if he feels super low. But you know when you have that instant fe...

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I am 4'11 and the guy I like is 5'11. Pleaase anser my question!


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 1:40 pm

Okay, so I'd asked this question earlier as well but I guess I wasnt clear in it.
Basically there is this guy I really like. The problem is that I am too short for him. I am 4'11 (151 cm) and that guy is 5'11-ish. And I feel REALLY consious about that. He lives in a another city so its not like we can meet everyday and eventually get used to eachother's difference.

So my questions are, where does a 4'11 person reach a 5'11 or 6 feet guy?
What do guys think of girls as short as 4'10-4 11
Those in relationships, coulld you please temme your height difference

X


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need a help: my girlfriend won't understand how little time I have after working MANY hours


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 11:53 am

frinds i just wanna share something with you all hope may some one help me out.
im n love since two years, but unfortunatly she never try to understand me :/
thats true she love me and i trust her as well
but she dont :/ honestly i love her since im with her i never even think about someone
she always need a time i give her as i can bec i work and some time cant pull time for her but every night i talk with her on cell
she need 3 to 4 hours but i cant as im so far :( she alawys give me hard time like u did not msg bhal bhal bhal i explian her many time after all my try she dont understand me she always give me alot of tens what i doooooooooooooooooo ? please some one help me out thx regards

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how to handle breakup.


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 9:42 am

My boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me yesterday. Two days ago I called him on my break during work and he was at home. I was asking about his day. Talking about the basketball game playing since they have TVs at the restaurant. And just random kind of stuff and he said "can you talk about something else? I don't want to hear about what you're eating or watching".I then ended up telling him that since I bore him so much he can bring something better to talk about. Or find someone else who won't bore him with their conversation. The thing that ifs even more weird about the whole situation is thathat the whole time before I was the one trying to talk while he was saying nothing. He ends up coming to my work to fix thi...

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Am I with him because i love him.. or?


Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 1:08 am

hello,
i have been dating my bf for 10 months now and when we were first together i fell for him very fast. without really getting to know each other we kind of jumped in a relationship. However, now i feel that everything he does kind of makes me mad, i dont think i made him work hard enough for me. he doesnt bring me flowers or take me out. things seem like theyve faded, im not as attracted to him and he gets on my nerves very easily. when i go out with the girls i love the fact that i can just forget about him and go have harmless flirtation with guys. i love my bfs family and friends, they mean so much to me and i really dont want to lose them. I still love him but the spark isnt there i feel and he has a full time job so in the...

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Ftm transexual dating straightman/bestfriend; Should we break up?


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 6:49 pm

Right. Okay here goes, I am 26 and a female to male transexual. I have been with my loved one (biological male and pressumed to be straight) for a year and 2months(relationship wise, we've been best friends for 7 years.)

From the start of our 2nd year of knowing each other I started telling him about certain thoughts and feelings I've had since childhood. (He's not really prejudice towards any of the lgbt comunity but he is slightly homophobic.) He gets defensive/mad/insecure if someone of male gender comes on to him, or if he's called "f*g" by rude people. To not make this too long about 2 years ago before we got together I started identifying as male in everyday life. I came out to my family, friends and coworker...

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Relationship infidelity


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 6:27 pm

I found out my live in boyfriend has been having an affair. When I confronted him about it he admitted to it and said his mistress is married. I have since found out that she is not married (and never was).Why would he lie to me about her being married? What difference would it make if she was or wasn't married?

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Kissing: Instinct and Expectations.


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 5:59 pm


I have no problem giving advice to others who want to kiss a partner to do it spontaneously and totally believe that's what to do so I don't feel bad about asking about kissing as we can all learn and refine technique.

My situation is a little different. I'm not a teen anymore. As a kid and later a teen I had no experimentation or experience with kissing at all.

I was bullied all my life and spent the last ten years of my adult life dealing with a serious illness.

I'm now an adult and haven't ever kissed a woman be it a peck on the lips or an open-mouth kiss and have the opportunity of potentially doing so soon and am excited but TERRIFIED.

My partner knows of all this bu...

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my boyfriend is not being supportive of me.


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 1:43 pm

I'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been dating more than 8 months but less than a year. I'm a naturally shy girl and he is very outgoing, he's the talkative one in this relationship. He gets mad at me for being so shy around him, I'm starting to feel pressured. I tried talking to him about this but he said " you wouldn't feel pressured if you'd just loosen up."If he really cared about me he would be helping me be less shy around him, right?

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Its complicated with us!!!!


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 1:06 pm

So ive been meeting this lad for nearly a year nw. I really like him and ive asked him to go out with me but he says no because he isnt a happy person and doesnt want to hurt me. Ive tried to stop meeting him but I cant. What should I do?

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Love, anticipation, and the sting


Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 6:43 am

All right so my story starts like this.
So I have been liking (and now, close enough to loving) a guy right from 2010 when I first met him. We ended up in two different places. He started becoming close to me, but he had a girlfriend in 2010. I liked him, anyway. We becaame close friends. And it only grew stronger. To be true, he was attracted to me even while he was in a relationship. I told him I like him. We used to text almost everyday. We even sexted and flirted, sometimes. And his relationship started faltering. (because his girl was also in a different place, long distance problems) It ended, finally this year, and he was heartbroken. He started getting over her. I went to his place to meet him, by this time, because he was si...

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