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i have this feeling hmm


Question Posted Thursday January 3 2013, 1:52 pm

well it's been like 7months since my ex and i broke up, its hit me well hard at first but like i wouldnt really show how i feel.
I have this feeling that he's going to come back to me sooner or later, do u think he can? he told me before like 1month ago how he was seeing some girl just to forget me, i asked him did it work and he said he didnt know , hes not seeing her anymore we are 'friends' but we don't really communicate, reason being is i don't understand why he came back to be friends if he never ever starts the conversation. Last time we spoke was on new years eve.
I know males have a lot of pride, and he is someone that will never show how he feels even if he feels super low. But you know when you have that instant feeling that you know he still feels the same, when he came back to be friends with me he said he missed our friendship cause even before we started dating we were good friends and during our realtionship we had such an amazing friendship we would be so close with eachother, i know he won't find someone like me and neither would i... i actually fell in love with him i don't know if he meant it when he said it, even though he did say i was his first love... he never treated me bad. I just can't learn to move on from my past, if he came back to be friends was it like meant to be? i think of him everyday of my life, never been this way over a guy before, my life just changed so much after we ended...
would we ever get back?


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Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 6:42 pm:
If he comes back to be friends, then it was meant to be that you are friends. Sounds like you should really just sever ties with the guy and start moving on with your life. Its not healthy to be hanging on like this for 7 months.

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SabrinaNaddie answered Saturday January 5 2013, 11:55 am:
Maybe yes , maybe no but i do think it will but hey , Who knows ? No one knows what life's going to offer you but you need to hope for the best no matter what . If you're being friends with him , then appreciate him but know the boundaries . Don't worry , if he still loves you , you'll see it and if a guy loves a girl , nothing can make him leave :) Go with the flow and see what happens next . If it's meant to be , then he'll come back to you sooner or later but for sure , he will .

For now , treat him nicely and avoid prejudices . It's never wrong to love someone as long as it doesn't drive you away from who you are . And , love yourself too !

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