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I am 4'11 and the guy I like is 5'11. Pleaase anser my question!
Okay, so I'd asked this question earlier as well but I guess I wasnt clear in it.
Basically there is this guy I really like. The problem is that I am too short for him. I am 4'11 (151 cm) and that guy is 5'11-ish. And I feel REALLY consious about that. He lives in a another city so its not like we can meet everyday and eventually get used to eachother's difference.
So my questions are, where does a 4'11 person reach a 5'11 or 6 feet guy?
What do guys think of girls as short as 4'10-4 11
Those in relationships, coulld you please temme your height difference
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Really!!! You have problems with height? Come on. Relationships look beyond those things. If you really like each other or even love each other those things don't matter. I'm 5'11 and have dated someone that was 5' even. We used to always make jokes about how I was her personal jungle gym and she climb on me. LOL. Dang. You seriously need to get over these self-esteem issues. You are going to ruin relationships that way and push people who really care about you away.
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i really dont see a problem here, size and hieght doesnt matter. my parents are like 2 ft from eachother. my girlfriend and i are a foot apart from eachother and we're great, we dont care if i have to lean down to kiss her, haha. as a guy, i can tell you, height doesnt matter in my preferences, and it shouldnt in any guys.
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I really do not see a problem her though you must or you would not be writing us. Not knowing your age does hinder me somewhat in my answering of your question.
What is your concern here? Are you afraid of what others may think of your height difference? To hell with what others may think. The only people whose opinion is important here are the two of you. Your difference in height should not make any difference in choosing him for a life partner if that is what you see him for.
Sure people will tell you many things. Such as your children will be short as you. Not so; your children could turn out to taller then him. Are you shorter than your parents, grandparents? Genes are tricky things. Your children may turn out to follow a long lost family gene. They could be blond and blue eyed where the rest of the family are brown and dark hair. You just never know.
I'm just as sure that someone your height married to someone his height will find that certain parts of their married life will require some adjustments. Adjustments are just that, adjustments not stumbling blocks. You find away to comfortably adjust and then you move forward in comfort and enjoyment of each other.
In this problem, if this is a problem that you see; there are only two people whose opinions mean anything. Yours and his, that truly all that matters.
Frankly you may be seeing a problem I don't. People will always find away to try and derail another persons happiness. Why I have never figured out. Do not let this be one of them.
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Your head will be just below his shoulder. I'm 6ft. I've always liked 'petite' girls. (Tall and slender looks great too, very elegant.) I think 5'2" was the tiniest lady I dated, which is not that great a difference to your height. She was quite a success in her job and at least normally assertive if not a little more so, her height certainly didn't give her a childish character. Guys have to be careful not to 'baby' a shorter girl accidentally. They can make us feel a bit over-protective, but we mean well I reckon! Reversed, a girl towering over her partner can make the guy, and the girl feel rather self-concious at social events, or even walking arm-in-arm around town. Bit narrow-minded, but there you go. Courtship and choice of partner issues are a bit fundamental and refuse to be pc sometimes. Girls taller than me are quite scarce, so I can't give you a personal take on how it feels. The way you've got it round I wouldn't worry. And I shouldn't think he will either if you 'click' as a couple.
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I am 5'3" and my husband, who I have been with since high school, is 6'5", so there is an even greater difference than you are facing. It doesn't matter. We love each other and the height just isn't an issue. If he likes you, he won't mind that you are short. Your head will be at his chest, where you can lean on him and hear his heart beat. He will probably rest his head on yours sometimes. My husband does that. Don't worry about the height. Tell him how you feel. If he cares about the height difference, he is not right for you anyway because that is shallow and meaningless.
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lol how old r u? if he likes you im pretty sure he won't mind if your shorter than him and beside from what i've notice tall guys like short girls.
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