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need a help: my girlfriend won't understand how little time I have after working MANY hours
frinds i just wanna share something with you all hope may some one help me out.
im n love since two years, but unfortunatly she never try to understand me :/
thats true she love me and i trust her as well
but she dont :/ honestly i love her since im with her i never even think about someone
she always need a time i give her as i can bec i work and some time cant pull time for her but every night i talk with her on cell
she need 3 to 4 hours but i cant as im so far :( she alawys give me hard time like u did not msg bhal bhal bhal i explian her many time after all my try she dont understand me she always give me alot of tens what i doooooooooooooooooo ? please some one help me out thx regards
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Maybe it's just not working out for you guys then. Relationships do consume a lot of time and when a guy doesn't spend enough time with a girl, the girl may get ticked off sometimes. You could try working something out with her, like find a time when both of you can have alone bonding time. Relationships are a lot of work and it requires sacrifice. During work hours, you could try sparing at least 3-5 minutes talking to her and then get back to work so it's more efficient. I'm sure you have some break time in between, yeah? It's best not to be a workaholic because it's bad for your health. But if she continues to push you around like that (which you don't deserve), I think you should put it to an end.
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While I don't think your girlfriend doesn't love you, I do think that she does need to loosen her grip.
It sounds like you told her everything from what you say, and if that's the case, I'd try to either ignore it or break it off.
She may get the clue later on in life, or if it's just too much to handle and nothing is working - break it off.
Just remember, the only thing you can do is try your best. No one can blame you if you always give 100%.
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Ok,this is going to sound harsh. Love IS understanding. Which means that she doesn't really love you if she's acting like that. My ex boyfriend was like that when I was really busy with school. We live in the same town and all,but I was just too busy and had a bunch of things to work out,not only school related. We were together for nearly a year. I loved him with all my heart. But he kept accusing me of not having time for him. He'd never listen to me. I'd try to explain every single day but no. Called him every night. Do you know what he did? He said that I'm obsessed with school and other things and that I will never find someone because of that.
I have certain goals I want to achieve and that's my priority. I can tell your job is important to you and that you are working hard. Basically,the point of my little story here is that she just isn't the one if she can't understand you. I know you love her and I know long relationships hurt as hell when they end. But are you really going to put up with emotional abuse? Because that's what this is. Don't go all hate on me,I'm just being honest. I'm not gonna tell you to break up with her. I can't make decisions for you. But think about it-is that kind of girl really what you need? When you figure that out,you will know whether you should stay or leave.
Good luck no matter what you do.
StarPrincess
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