*Always honest but I'm not harsh either and if I am I have to be.
*I'm not here to judge
*You can talk to me like you would a friend
*Sometimes there's just those days where I cannot help the individual. Sometimes I haven't been in the situation you are in, and (depending on the circumstances) I won't feel comfortable giving you advice, etc. If I can't help you, I'll tell you.
*If there is anything you wish to ask, just let me know.
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Okay, my friend doesnt like me like i like her but she always doing things for me like she bought me a guitar, gave me some money, and stuff. and like to hangout with me, we use to sit together at lunch and stuff, but when i ask her out she told me she doesnt like me like that...why do she do the thing she does and give me false signals, why is she so caring, but doesnt want to give me a chance. (link)
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She either really likes you, but is scared to admit it to you - or she does like you just not in that way.
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My friend Hannah smokes ALOT of pot and it is so concerning. Im 18 and she is 20. Yes, she is old enough to make her own decisions, but at the same time, I don't want to hang out with someone thats on the benefit (gets money from the government), sits at home with her boyfriend in bed all day, every day and just smokes pot. Me and my friend had to literally go and get her from her house just to get her out of the house. I have tried talking to her 10000000 times about it and it just turns into an argument. Im just at the point like 'this is useless' and give up. What do I do!!!! (link)
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You really shouldn't judge another's life.
Personally, if you don't see them every day, or even hang around that much, you can say all you want but it doesn't make it truth.
See, I'm in a similar position, that's why I can say this. It's nothing at all as you describe it, I'm not lazy, I'm not mooching off the government, etc.
But from the outside looking in, someone could and have described my lifestyle exactly as you're describing it about your friend.
When you look at me, there doensn't seem to be anything wrong, but there is a lot wrong.
I have social anxiety (I can't even answer a phone - that's how bad it is.)
And I do smoke BUT it is legal where I live so no worries.
Also, please do not judge people who smoke weed, because I used to be the same as you. I used to HATE IT until my boyfriend had to get it medically for his back (because of his size no pain medications work for him and it is the only thing that helps him with his pain.)
I have seen it work, in both myself and my boyfriend.
I'm not lazy at all.
Part of my stress and my depression come from lack of a job which no one will hire me for.
Everyone is going to tell you that weed/pot/marijuana is bad, but if that's the case how come no one has ever died from it?
The only time it is bad, is when you get addicted to it (which it isn't addictive, but anything can be addictive to the right person).
How did you bring it up? Were you strict? Curious? Mad?
Sometimes that in itself plays a major role.
For the best results, be polite and respectful.
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Okay so last year i was forming a relationship w/ a guy then ended a friendship she turned bitter then her and a group of friends made up stuff to make him mad so he got upset cut me out of his life and never talked to me again and now ive been receiving hate messages about the situation.what do i do?! (link)
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I know it's hard, but you have to move forward and keep your head high.
Don't stoop to their level, just pick up the pieces and just ignore them.
They are the children, so just remind yourself that, and you'll be just fine.
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I am 13 and have a problem with asking this guy out because i really like him.But he already has a
girlfriend! I don't know how to solve this problem
P.S THANKS FOR YOUR HELP
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Think of being in this girl's shoes....
What if instead - this guy was your boyfriend and someone wanted to come up from behind you and ask him out anyway knowing he was already with someone?
Always have respect for BOTH people in a relationship.
I've been in these situations many many times, and I have to say that out of all the guys I've every liked, only two have ever liked me back.
So I would choose your battles (or your enemies).
Take your time, there is plenty of time
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I'd like to be alone most of the time because I find hard dealing with people at first. I always feel awkwardness and feel bad for being not "into" people. But whenever I am alone, I feel I am a loner and a pity to everyone. Wth teh thoughts of they might think that I have no friends or whatsoever.. What to doooo :( Ive been reading my astrology reading and believes that those are real because I relate to them. It is the only thing I can rely on that I am still doing fine with this attitude. I am an aquarian/february/female/20yo. (link)
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I believe you are just an introvert (which is normal). From the way it sounds, that's what I believe - that and the fact that I'm an introvert as well.
Don't feel bad, because it's not like you hate people, you just prefer to be alone more often than with other people and that's fine. Sometimes that's very healthy.
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frinds i just wanna share something with you all hope may some one help me out.
im n love since two years, but unfortunatly she never try to understand me :/
thats true she love me and i trust her as well
but she dont :/ honestly i love her since im with her i never even think about someone
she always need a time i give her as i can bec i work and some time cant pull time for her but every night i talk with her on cell
she need 3 to 4 hours but i cant as im so far :( she alawys give me hard time like u did not msg bhal bhal bhal i explian her many time after all my try she dont understand me she always give me alot of tens what i doooooooooooooooooo ? please some one help me out thx regards (link)
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While I don't think your girlfriend doesn't love you, I do think that she does need to loosen her grip.
It sounds like you told her everything from what you say, and if that's the case, I'd try to either ignore it or break it off.
She may get the clue later on in life, or if it's just too much to handle and nothing is working - break it off.
Just remember, the only thing you can do is try your best. No one can blame you if you always give 100%.
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