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Is it okay to be alone?
I'd like to be alone most of the time because I find hard dealing with people at first. I always feel awkwardness and feel bad for being not "into" people. But whenever I am alone, I feel I am a loner and a pity to everyone. Wth teh thoughts of they might think that I have no friends or whatsoever.. What to doooo :( Ive been reading my astrology reading and believes that those are real because I relate to them. It is the only thing I can rely on that I am still doing fine with this attitude. I am an aquarian/february/female/20yo.
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I believe you are just an introvert (which is normal). From the way it sounds, that's what I believe - that and the fact that I'm an introvert as well.
Don't feel bad, because it's not like you hate people, you just prefer to be alone more often than with other people and that's fine. Sometimes that's very healthy.
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It is ok to be alone and to be loner in general if you are happy that way.
However, if the reason for being alone is just because you have difficulty relating to people, then that's just a shame. If that is the case, I think the best thing you can do is practice. I would recommend joining a team activity or sport. They are great at helping you get to know people.
But again, if you are simply happy being alone then that is ok.
And please, leave the astrology alone. It has been shown time and again to be total nonsense. I cannot stress enough how much one should stay away from that kind of stuff.
Instead look inside yourself. Ask yourself what it is that you want out of life and what makes you happy. You dont need some con artist who is earning money by fooling people to influence your life.
Good luck.
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You need to answer for yourself this question:
Are you an introvert or are you an extravert?
If you answer introvert, then you need to remember that we live in a society where it's not ok to be introverted, so many people pretend to be extraverted just to fit in.
What I'm saying is, some people are content being alone, and thats just their predisposition-it can not be changed.
If you want to change and get help 'dealing with people', there are plenty of websites out their to help you.
But you need to be true to who you are. I've met many people who are not people people! And the crucial thing is, they're happy. Also, don't pre-cognate what people may be thinking.
Untill you have hard facts you can't act on their thoughts, so it's a waste of time.
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