im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 18 years old (im thinking should i have sex with him its cause i feel hes to big for me and shit im steel virgin) what should i do should i have sex with him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nikkimoore1 answered Tuesday January 8 2013, 6:34 am: He can go to jail for having sex with an underage person. Also, you 13!!!! I was playing in playgrounds and never thought of boys when I was 13. Im not 18. Imagion if it was the other way around? If you were 18, you wouldn't date a 13 year old boy would you? DONT have sex. Go back to being a normal 13 year old, because honestly girl, when your older, your gonna regret having sex with this boy and if you told people, there going to think your silly. What would your mother think?? WHATS HAPPENING TO THIS WORLD! [ nikkimoore1's advice column | Ask nikkimoore1 A Question ]
ieatjello answered Sunday January 6 2013, 4:00 am: Okay, honestly, you are only 13, therefore you are only a minor. With him at this age having sex with a minor like you will label him as a sex offender under the laws of rape.
I find it wrong for you to have sex now, even if he convinces you that he will use protection or something. Stay abstinent please! [ ieatjello's advice column | Ask ieatjello A Question ]
Hornets2018 answered Saturday January 5 2013, 5:28 pm: I'm sorry to say but first off you should be going out. You're 13 and he's 18, he's an adult and you're a minor. It's illegal first and if you both had sex, he would go to jail and you might go to a Juvy. You are way too young to be have sex. Wait to you're older. [ Hornets2018's advice column | Ask Hornets2018 A Question ]
Pol0 answered Saturday January 5 2013, 11:02 am: thats just wrong 18 and 13, sorry you guys arent meant to be, or just wait till you're 18 too [ Pol0's advice column | Ask Pol0 A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday January 5 2013, 10:08 am: First do not think of having sex with him you are way to young and he is way to old for you. Do not think of kissing him in any way other than on the cheek either.
By law you and he should not be dating or be seeing each other in an type of relationship. He can go to jail and have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life just by being with you in a relationship way.
Any teenage boy who is 18 or older should know this law. Does he know you are 13, 5 years younger than him, putting him in jeopardy of being charged with statutory Rape? This Law has nothing to do with whether or not you have had sex. Do your parents know you are seeing him and how old he is?
There is something wrong when an 18 year old boy seeks to date a 13 year old girl. He should be dating someone way closer to his age. Some one at least 16 or 17 years old. I would say he is counting on your immaturity to get from you what he is unable to get from someone his own age.
If I were your father I would forbid him from seeing you under threat of reporting him to the police. This is how strongly I feel that he is or will be trying to take advantage of your young age and immaturity.
You need to stop seeing him. IF he objects or continues to try and see you let you parents handle him.
You may not like what I have written and you can rate me poorly if you like. I have given you the best advice you will ever get and I may be just saving your life. There is no reason for him to be dating you at your age. If he knows how young you are there is something wrong with him and you could be in danger. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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