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i like my friend..who has a girlfriend..
Female, 19 yrs
Okay so freshman year of high school I met this guy Ryan through my good friends Hayley & John. The 4 of us (me, Ryan, Hayley & John) hung out a lot the summer before sophomore year and Ryan and I clicked & became good friends instantly. I was always sort of attracted to Ryan but I never told him how I felt since I thought it was just a little crush. So sophomore year, I found out that he was moving 13 hours away to California. We went to different high schools so I asked him to go to my spring fling with me. We both had an awesome time & then a couple weeks later he moved away. We texted a little after he moved & kept in touch over Facebook, but inevitably we drifted apart a little. He would come back & visit once a year and things would be as if he never left. Well now we are on winter break of our freshman year of college. He goes to school like 12 hours away from me in California but came back here over break because his family moved back (which means he will be here when he is home for summer breaks/christmas breaks). We hung out like twice & it made me realize that i really like this guy. We have been apart for so long but I still have these feelings for him. There is one big issue though... he met someone in California and has been dating the same girl for about 2 1/2 years (off and on). Yet when we were hanging out, he was being a little flirty & hugged me multiple times whenever we would say goodbye and mentioned that we would definitely need to hang out over summer. When we were hanging out it was as if he never left & our friendship was just as strong as it used to be. I'm just confused about this... is it completely unrealistic for me to think that this could go somewhere when he is home? Should I just get over it and stop thinking it is possible? Am I completely pathetic for thinking this? :(
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If it's meant to be then it will be in due time , Relationships don't last forever they aren't married. Keep in touch with him this will keep your bond strong. Don't wait around on something that isn't yours tho, Go out date people it doesn't have to be anything serious and if it does become serious then you and your friend just weren't meant to be but don't sit around and let someone who may be for you pass you by because of someone you think may be the one but like i said if in fact he is the one for you then you guys will be together eventually just gotta be patient. I would';t suggest asking him straight off because one he has a girlfriend and two if he doesn't feel the same as you then it might weird him out but i do understand how you feel.
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