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we love each other but don't know how to tell each other.
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 10:42 am
hello I am an almost 13 year old girl and in 4th grade I was not popular and he (I will call him blue) was the second most popular guy, everyone liked him, he was athletic, cute, smart and nice. so one day my friend comes up to me and says "yesterday after school blue told me to tell you that HE LIKES YOU!" so i just go no no no your wrong why would anyone like me?! i'm not pretty, i'm super shy and not very smart. but i guess he still likes me! so then in the summer we hung out a few times then in 5th grade end of the year he asked me out. the summer we hung out once. just once. I miss him so much and i'm going into 7th grade. in MN where i live middle school is going into 6th grade and i haven't seen him in 2 years! i don't know...
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My boyfriend was caught masturbating in public...
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 3:50 am
So I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, I live in the U.S. and he lives in Australia. We have yet to meet up, because of money issues.
Today he tells me he has to tell me something and then proceeds to tell me he was caught masturbating in someones backyard. He was questioned by the police and has to go to a hearing in a few weeks.
I honestly thought he was joking, but he assured me that he isn't. I'm in shock, I don't understand why he'd do something like that. I asked him why and he said he's not really sure. I can't wrap my head around this, I'm in disbelief. I feel sick to my stomach, but I'm also worried he could potentially go to jail or something.
What brings a guy to do something like that??
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Am I really that ugly...?
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 3:26 am
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I was at a waterpark today with my friend -one girl, one guy-and I jokingly pointed out a cute boy that was standing by two other guys.. so my -guy- friend went over and said, 'Dude, she likes you.' ... and his friends laughed and said, 'THAT girl??!' and they did that dumb 'gag' hand gesture where they point down thier throat and pretent to throw up. The worst part was, I think, was the fact that I later found out one of the guys was the son of my dad's co-worker/best-friend... it just lowered my self esteem even more later on, when I was getting out of a pool and they started splashing me with a lot of water and yelling at me.. so I kinda lost it and flipped them off and hid in the restroom--more info-- im a middle schooler, ...
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My ex started liking me again
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 2:32 am
My ex admitted that he liked me, and I kind of figured that he did. Honestly, I don't wanna get back together with him. I kind of did a bitch move the other day where I guess I sorta led him on. So our group of friends decided to go to his house to play but they were all guys (I'm the type who has mainly guy friends) and they all wanted to game. It was pretty late in the night and I was gonna game with them later, so to boost my energy, I said I would take a nap first. My ex decided to slip into bed with me 5 minutes later and I was half asleep and was like WTF. He put his arm around me and being the stupid drunk girl I am, I let him cuddle me. It sort of turned into a makeout session when he leaned in and kissed me. The next day, h...
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i want your help
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 1:10 am
hello,sir/madam/
i am from india , my age is 22,
i have one gf in my life and our relastion is going good but my gf always fight with me at my final exam time,and i don,t have to consntrate on my reading,,finally this time my exam result is come and i am fail in my exam i have lost my 1 year and i m detain,,,and after my result come my gf say i don,t carrry thid relastionship more ,she ask me my parents will find guys for my marrige and this time you are not able for marrige ,and she leave me at my bad time. i have lost my all confidence so please help me ,,,i don,t have any one support
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i dont get my ex boyfriend....
Posted Monday July 29 2013, 5:46 pm
well it's been a year since me and my ex boyfriend broke up, and its pretty weird lately i keep getting these next feelings, basically yesterday on twitter i posted a picture and he Favorited it, a while later he un done it, i don't understand whats wrong with him? Something in me tells me he doesn't want to admit to himself deep down he still has feelings, he hasn't had a girlfriend since we broke up, it actually shocks me.
I think he isn't brave enough to admit to himself nor to me that he still likes me, (i am his first love anyway), and i know some guys are too stubborn to admit to anything.
But from my point of view if your over your ex you would't still have them as a contact or like their pictures right?
I can't...
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How would a girl react if I ask her to role play as a teacher?
Posted Monday July 29 2013, 12:36 am
There is this teacher that I have an intense attraction to, I pine for her all the time. I asked my friend how I can get over her and he said when you get a girlfriend in the future ask her to role play as the teacher. Do you think if I ask a girl to do this she wouldn't mind or she would get mad?
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How do I get noticed by an older guy?
Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 10:26 pm
This is a question for men, preferably, around 30. I am 21 years old (F) - I'll be 22 in December.
I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age beyond something just purely sexual. I feel like maybe most men would just write me off when they find out how old I am.
I know a lot of girls say they're mature when they're really not, but if you knew me you'd agree that I'm mature beyond my years. I've never fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I feel like I fit in SO much better. I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man; I want someone "on my level", if you know what I mean.
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How do I get an older guy to notice me?
Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 5:11 pm
This is a question for men, preferably, around 30.
I am a 21 year-old female, I'll be 22 in December.
I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age other than for just sex. I feel like most men would just look at me like I'm a stupid child they wouldn't want to waste their time on.
I've never really fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I felt like I fit in much better; I relate to people older than I am. I've had some horrible experiences with relationships, and I've come to the realization that it's probably because I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man since I've always bee...
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Boyfriend pressurising me to go away with him
Posted Saturday July 27 2013, 10:00 pm
We've been together for over a year, he's my first boyfriend, I'm his first girlfriend and it started out brilliantly. He's going to uni in a month or two and I'm not and I wanted to make the most of the time we have left because I think a LDR is unlikely to happen. He's been so good to me, I have a few medical conditions that make life hard for me and he's been amazing, I really don't want to lose him. However, he recently has been trying to get me to go away with him for a weekend or so with his relatives (about 10-11 of them). I keep saying no because I've never been away from home, I'm not the sort of person to go away, I'm not great with people, I've had panic attacks in cities before and my parents aren't keen on the idea (we're both ...
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How to get out of the friend zone?
Posted Saturday July 27 2013, 7:00 pm
So i like this guy and he might like me back. We have held hands etc. But i think that i might have been friend zoned. How to i get him to date me. What makes it worse is that i use to date his friend.
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Trust Issues
Posted Saturday July 27 2013, 3:14 pm
Hey there. I need some answers. For some odd reason I can't date guys. Like I'm straight and everything, but I don't really know what to do. When I'm in a relationship with a guy its like my mind is telling me no you can't date him you can't be with him. I honestly don't know what's wrong. I have extreme anxiety when it comes to relationships. I am always worried about what they will think of me, or what type of background I'm from. Well, I had one relationship once where my boyfriend was everything to me until he called me names and it took forever for me to get over him. I have friends that are very close that are also guys and I like them. One of them asked me out, but I said no because I knew my anxiety would get the best of me. Please Help. I would really really appreciate it.
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Love or friendship
Posted Saturday July 27 2013, 1:49 am
So I had a friend, he was 3 years older than me. We ended up getting close and started liking each other but never officially were in a relationship. But I ended up ending all communication with because I felt betrayed. He was talking to other girls, to a point that I think he was engaged. I thought that we were just seeing one another, but he always wanted a open relationship, I didnt, but things happened, we stopped talking for 2 years now we are talking, he says he loved me, I have feelings for him. But I am hurt from a past relationship. Should I talk to him or move on.
Should I clear everything out? We never really talked about everything that happen. he says that he has changed. Any advice on how I should handle this?
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baby mama drama!!!!!!!!
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 11:55 pm
Help!!!! I am a 23 year old female currently in a relationship with a male who has a baby girl from a past/current relationship. me and him have been dating for 3 years now and one bad summer evening him and i got into an argument which lead to a brake up. He went back to his ex and got her pregnant. after 5 months of not speaking to each other i forgave him and decided it would all be okay. It has been over a year and things have gone from bad to worse. Every time we argue, no matter how small the argument is he decides it okay to seek "meaningless attention" from his ex who is in a different state. I have found multiple texts, pictures, and even videos, on his phone from her (and other women, also different states) which he clai...
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Classic 2 Guy Scenario
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 11:04 pm
I am 21 and I've been dating a guy for 7 months. We've definitely had our downs and ups, but we always find a way to make our relationship work. In the past, this guy has hooked up with a lot of girls and also had a few long term relationships being 1-3 years long. At first, I thought he had a commitment phobia, but then he asked me out and I was happily surprised. Since then I have caught him flirting with other girls on fb, accused him of cheating once and had my upset moments where I've ended up leaving his house. When I mentioned that I thought he was cheating, he told me that is absurd because he would never do that to me since he's had numerous girls cheat on him in the past. But because of the messages I seen on fb, I get this feelin...
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Camp crush question
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 8:48 pm
So this past week i was at a camp and there's this girl i like she's a year younger than me and i had a crush on her but she might do the camp next year or she might not but we live in different towns and i'm too old to do the camp next year but even if my sister does it my crush may not do it but we barley know each other and we don't have an e-mail, phone #, address, etc. for each other so i don't know how to keep in touch with her and her dad is a state trooper so i don't want to do anything that might upset him cause my crush isn't allowed to date till high school and i don't know how to spell there last name.
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My ex wants to get back together with me
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 8:43 pm
So, I dated this guy 2 years ago and he recently broke up with his other ex like 2 months ago. He decided to come back to me to reclaim a friendship with me and he ranted and confessed to me.
And now, ever since summer started, he would always offer to give me a ride back home from my summer class. I've been observing his actions and he's been trying to hit on me and spoil me with food and gifts and all that. A few days ago, he told his friends that he still likes me and wants to get back together with me, and one of his friends came and told me. I kind of saw this coming, but I didn't actually think it would legitly happen.
Anyways, I kind of find it weird to date an ex, so I honestly don't know what to do now. Today he ...
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will he change
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 4:30 pm
hi so my bf and i were together 3 months and he was so protective to the point he wouldnt let me go to the bar with my friends or talk to my guy friends, he also got really mad when i told my closest friends about the problems we were having so i broke up with him but about two weeks later we got back together and he promised things would be different and i believed him... now its been about a month and the things aren't changing. He's still really jealous and he always gets really mad at me when he's drunk . a couple days ago he went through my phone... if a person goes through your phone that means to me there is no trust any more and he says it isnt that but what else could it be. thats a big thing for me so i told him i need time to thi...
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flirting boyfriend on facebook
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 6:14 am
i had a relationship with 8yrs..we are happy but then things changed..this last may 2013 he became active in his facebook he is messaging his old highschool friends..i know because i know the password of his account.one time they had a reunion knowing that this was not planned even i know that they msg on facebook he still insist that its not expected..i let it pass.but this thing last month he msg on facebook another highschool buddies.he ask about her life and what makes me shocked is that he told to girl that he misses her and if she already ate bfast and so on..and last week she message the girl again that he wants to go abroad with her and that he will cook dishes for her and that his parents really liked her...i feel ashamed,stressed,...
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Should I leave my husband?
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 5:28 am
My husband and I just celebrated our one year anniversary. Come to find out just a few weeks before this he's been sleeping with another girl for over half of our marriage. We've had threesomes with this girl and they justified it that way but turns out he got her pregnant!!! I love my husband very much and I want to give him another chance but how can I accept this? I told him our marriage was over if he ever talked to her again and at first he was fine with that and willing to do whateve it took to make our marraige work but she keeps popping up and she wants him to be involved with the baby and I think its confusing him. We are only 20 years old well almost 21 and I'm just not sure what I should do. The real advice I want is say we stay ...
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