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Guy not talking to me.


Posted Thursday August 15 2013, 12:49 pm

There is this guy I like, we have history together. But never went out. We haven't talked in a while and we started to. Ive been scared to attempt any relationships, so I seem to have pushed him away. But I have always cared for him, and he is special to me. I relized that I dont want to lose him. But he doesn’t speak to me at all. And I have apologized. What should I do?

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Love


Posted Thursday August 15 2013, 10:33 am

This is an opinionated question; how do YOU know when you're in love?

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Phone sex


Posted Thursday August 15 2013, 6:18 am

Hi there. So there's this guy I've recently hooked up with and since then he's crazy about flirting through texting and having phone sex, but won't come over and ya know have sex. I've given him the option once and he said he wasn't feeling well but insists on sending dirty msgs. He's kinky and all I want is casual sex but he just hasn't come over for sex but will text constant dirty msgs. It's frustrating what's up with that? I do work with him and it has only been a couple days since we first hooked up which we were both drunk but my god all I want is soba sex and that's it! Is he playing games or do u think he really will put his dirty words into action? Laugh out loud! It's been a while for me and its the first time in a year since my ex..

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stay or leave?


Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 3:33 pm

I've been friends with this guy for 3 years and recently, we started escalating our friendship into something a bit more. We kissed and cuddled, and we have reached the 3rd base so far.
He finally admitted to liking me, and I said I liked him back. The unfortunate problem is that as much as he wants to be in a relationship with me, he's going to college in September (he's not moving anywhere, it's a local university) and he doesn't want to go to college and be in a relationship. However, he still wishes to continue what we've been doing and see what will happen from there, as in we may possibly go into a relationship. I don't know if I should continue this route or just leave. Help?

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He lied about dating profiles after I forgave him


Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 12:33 pm

We were in a LDR for 3 years. A few months ago my friend was on a stupid escort/dating site and saw him on it. Pics and everything. He denied it for a week until admitting that he made it when he was high (didnt know he was smoking). He proved he didn't use them as the site doesn't let you delete anything. He swore up and down there werent any more. I told him to tell me now or I cant move forward. Still said no only one. I forgave him because he was depressed and told me he was going to get help and stop the drugs.
We were doing fine. I was planning on moving in soon. He asked why I was a bit hesitant and I brought up the profile and how I felt hurt still. He got angry and said I forgave him and I need to drop it. I felt like he was...

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Should I forget about him?


Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 1:03 am

I'm fourteen and I haven't started dating yet. I'm socially awkward and kind of shy (especially around boys, regardless of their attractiveness). I don't go to a traditional public school, so I rarely meet boys my age who would ask a girl out. But being a hopeless romantic, I dream of being in a relationship.

I recently went to a summer music festival for orchestral and chamber music where I met a guy who I really, really like. I can't stop thinking about him, even though we said goodbye a week ago. He doesn't like me back, not that way. He's eighteen and going to college next year. Since the world of professional orchestral musicians is so small, I thought I had a chance of playing with him again, but it turns out tha...

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Self Termination After Wife Deserts Family


Posted Tuesday August 13 2013, 2:53 pm

I am a retired member of law enforcement in my late 50s. My wife of 35 yrs left me suddenly last month. No discussion, she just was gone. A few days layer she called saying she needed a break. She suffers from major depressive disorder. My kids, late and early teens live with me. My son has shut her out of his life as this is the 2nd such departure she has made in the last yr. My son is angry and hurt by her actions. My young daughter is confused. I know i must care 4 my kids and do so but i am so down. These were to be my retirement yrs,instead it is hell. I am not interested in starting over. But i refuse to get old and eventually be alone. There are no 3rd parties involved here unless u count depression. On the job ive seen how these th...

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nervous for our "date"..


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 11:16 pm

Hey everyone!:) so I'm reletively young and I like this guy naed Jacob. Hes a total sweetheart, goofy, funny, nice, old fashioned, and so polite!:) hes my definition of perfect! He and I have been talking for a while and we've hungout a few times before at a festival that our city has yearly. He has asked me out to a movie on Wednesday and I said yes. I'm super super nervous because it will kinda be our first "date".. he hasn't really made a big move on me before but he has given me a few hugs. We've been talking and we both know that we want to kiss but I'm so nervous! never been this nervous to kiss someone before! How do I keep calm and act natural ? Help??

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Older men.


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 8:26 pm

I am an 18 year old female and I find myself to be way more attracted to older men that guys my age. Not old as in anything higher than 30, I wouldn't even go above 24. I just think that 22, 23, 24 are so much more mature, they know what they want in life, they are probably living on their own. By that age as well, they are probably done with the whole pimp thing and thinking they're hot shit, going around and getting all the ladies they can. I also think that older men are more respectful. I was just wondering if anyone found this to be weird. Now, don't preach to me that not all older men are more mature and know what they want type of people. I am talking about the older men that I have personally met and found to be attractive are such ...

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Best Friends or More?


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 4:01 am

(Im a 22 year old girl.)This one feels complicated. I met my now best guy friend, who is a 21 year old guy, at work at the beginning of the year and we bonded through his breakup with his long time girlfriend. We're a lot alike in a lot of ways and talk easily about pretty much everything, including our dating lives, family/personal/work problems and secret future dreams. Over the past like three months our friendship has gotten deeper and deeper, I guess you could say. Out of the blue one night he told me I was his best friend and he felt closer to me than to his best guy friend that he grew up with. Then he told me he loved me as a best friend. Then he started relying on my fashion and relationship advice to get back into dating. He kisse...

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is he ready for a serious relationship or am i just wasting my time


Posted Sunday August 11 2013, 12:56 am

we've been dating for about a year things have been good but sometimes i question why he hasn't officially said we're in a relationship? mind you he's one of my good friends younger brother my guy always chased me through the years until i finally decided to give him a chance. well we really clicked and now i feel like we could have a future together. he's a bit younger i'm 34 and ready to settle down he's 31 and still drinks and apparently smokes weed and likes to flirt with girls when he's out with the boys something i found out last night from my other best friend (male) who i think secretly has a crush on me who also happens to be friends with my guy ( we all grew up together). now i'm sad hurt confused and angry. I don't want to lose h...

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Can my girl get pregnent when i fingerng her vegina over her cloths


Posted Friday August 9 2013, 1:07 pm

i m from india..my age is 24 and my girl's age is 20....Can my girl get pregnent when i fingered(with semen on my finger ) her over her clothes.. actualy i fingerd her vegina over her cloths and my finger is wet with semen..

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fights between me n my bf!!!!


Posted Friday August 9 2013, 4:07 am

im 17 n im from india now n im in realtion with a boy of 19..it has been 8mnths of our relation evrything was going good..but from the last 1 mnth we have been arguing and fighting for some or the other reason frequently..he shouts at me,gets frustated simply...
he doesnt share anything with me..or doesnt talk much..please advice me to improve my relationship..!!!!

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I've never felt like this before and I don't know what to do!!!!


Posted Friday August 9 2013, 1:13 am

OK! I am a 14 year old girl and a Freshman. There is this guy I am close friends with that I finally admitted to myself that i like him he is a 17 year old M/Junior(I have known him for a year and I like him for his personality/ he just happens tp be cute ;D) In your answers please DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT AGE! I am VERY mature for my age, and we both have A LOT in common. But so i ran into him at a music store we both know about and HE broke the touch barrier TWICE by hugging me for the first time. I haven't seen him since then (that was middle july) but we text everyday which is very nice. I will see him soon however (We have a Band fundraiser and Band Camp coming up. BTW both of us have never been in a relationship before) and here's...

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sexual orientation


Posted Thursday August 8 2013, 7:03 pm

Is there a specific name for someone who is attractive to every type of human being?

My co-worker says that she is attracted to all types of people and that she has been with women, men, ftm trans, mtf trans, drag queens, etc. And she's practically attracted to all of them and even gay men/women and straight men/basically...Basically anyone!

Is there a name for that?

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I'm stuck in the hookup zone


Posted Thursday August 8 2013, 5:56 pm

So there's this guy I like, I actually don't know if he likes me back BUT I believe that we are in the hookup zone. We've been cuddling in bed while watching movies, and later on, we start making out and hitting it up to 3rd base (cuz I dont wanna lose my vcard yet). I'm starting to really like him but I don't think I'm in the "will date" category, and more of the "hook up" category. How can I get myself out of the hookup zone and possibly escalate to the relationship zone?

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My boyfriend called me a bitch


Posted Thursday August 8 2013, 5:00 am

I'm a 24 yr old female, my boyfriend and I just got into a fight. I'm having female issues and don't want to have sex like I used to. He threw a tantrum bc I didn't want to be tickled. He really hurt my feelings by what he said so naturally I started crying. I went to get situated to sleep on the couch. I had to turn on lights to get blankets n pillows. I was moving stuff n he got mad bc the light was on. He slammed the door n called me a bitch. I broke down, I am completely heart broken. We r working on yr 5 of our relationship, not married, this has never happened before. I don't know what to do. Please help.

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I Can't Stop Talking About My Crushes, and Everyone Hates It!


Posted Thursday August 8 2013, 1:04 am

I'm a girl who is thirteen years old. I have always been somewhat annoying, but the most annoying thing I do is talk about my crushes nonstop. Everyone really hates it, especially my sister and my dad. I try to stop, but I just can't!

Right now, I have a crush on a girl I met at camp and a teacher. (I don't care that they are girls . . . I'm not the type of person who cares about gender.) The thing they have in common is that I might not see them again -- at least I won't see them any time soon. I'm going to a new school next year, so I won't be at the same school as my teacher. The girl I met at camp said she'll be there next year, but that is a long time away. I think the main reason why I talk about them is because I miss ...

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I'm lusting for a man twice my age


Posted Wednesday August 7 2013, 10:50 pm

I work with a man who is 41, and I'm turning 21 in november. We've made plans to go out before but it always fell through. I really like him and something might happen with this but is he too old? He has one kid who is younger than I, and my parents are older than him, so I keep telling myself he's not.

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Is this weird?

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Men


Posted Wednesday August 7 2013, 12:54 pm

Do men come back to you faster if you ignore them?

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