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fights between me n my bf!!!!
im 17 n im from india now n im in realtion with a boy of 19..it has been 8mnths of our relation evrything was going good..but from the last 1 mnth we have been arguing and fighting for some or the other reason frequently..he shouts at me,gets frustated simply...
he doesnt share anything with me..or doesnt talk much..please advice me to improve my relationship..!!!!
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Hard to say.
Generally, a boyfriend is not a girlfriend. If you want someone to giggle with and talk and talk for hours, well - most guys won't do that. So maybe the best thing to do is adjust to that.
On the other hand, if neither of you are getting anything from this relationship anymore, you are still young, and having an amicable break-up might be best. Maybe you are fighting with one another because it's time for both of you to move on, and neither one of you knows how to break up.
I don't know. How could I? Or anyone else here?
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Sometimes we will cling to a relationship that is not healthydoes he need or we are not a good match because our mind believes we won't be able to find anyone else, or be able to find someone better.
If things truly were great as you say and there were no warning signs that something was slowly getting worse, then an abrupt change in his behavior could be due to something new in his life, was there a death in the family, loss of job, stress with school, start of drinking or taking drugs? There are many things that can cause it.
Only you can truly know if it is due to both of you not having much experience with how to relate maturely in a relationship. Guys think differently than females and that can cause many misunderstandings and frustrations if both feel like they are not being understood. It takes two people to argue. You say he doesn't talk much or share things. Maybe he is the silent type and that is normal for him. In a new relationship, it is easier at first to put up with something that you don't like but it becomes a frustration you can't bear all too quickly.
You can not change behaviour that is part of who he is. If he is a quiet man who doesnt like to talk much and you are a very open person who shares information freely and is a good talker, then perhaps the best thing is to look for a guy more like you in that aspect. It will be hard to part if you choose to do so because our heart can have feelings for a person even if we fight and are not perfect for each other. But dont let that stop you if you should choose to leave him and start looking elsewhere.
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