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stay or leave?
I've been friends with this guy for 3 years and recently, we started escalating our friendship into something a bit more. We kissed and cuddled, and we have reached the 3rd base so far.
He finally admitted to liking me, and I said I liked him back. The unfortunate problem is that as much as he wants to be in a relationship with me, he's going to college in September (he's not moving anywhere, it's a local university) and he doesn't want to go to college and be in a relationship. However, he still wishes to continue what we've been doing and see what will happen from there, as in we may possibly go into a relationship. I don't know if I should continue this route or just leave. Help?
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This is a tough situation. If I was in your shoes, I would stop messing around with him.
It's understandable that he doesn't want to get into a relationship while getting into college.
Although he does want to continue messing around.
When most guys get that before they are in a relationship with a girl, they want to leave it at that. Not of all of them, but most.
So I'd continue talking to him. If he wants to keep talking then that's fine. If he starts asking you for more, then you'll have to make that decision.
I'd probably just tell him that you don't feel comfortable messing around with someone you're not dating anymore.
But in the end, it's up to you. If you're ok with just a friends with benefits relationship, then put your feelings aside. If you want more, then you should step back.
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College is entering a whole different world, Whether it's his intention or not he will naturally meet people in school. He will be caught up in school work and will even make friends. Not many people in College tend to have a whole lot of time on their hands.
If he wants to be in a serious relationship with you then go for it, but don't allow yourself to just be someone he can play with just because or that may be just what I may turn out to be.
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