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is it soo wrong?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 3:28 pm

15/f
there's this guy that i really like, but he has a girlfriend... but we're still pretty good friends. so this weekend i want to hang out with him and some of my other friends... everyone says that if i invite him over i have to invite over his girlfriend as well, but the thing is that she's a total b**** to me. and i don't know, i just wanna hang out with him... so is it so wrong to want to hang out with your guy friends if they have a girlfriend?

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confused about him.


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 3:05 pm

okay so this guy that i really really really liked moved away (he liked me too) a couple months ago and we still talked since he had family up here he came around nov.the weekend of my birthday and promised wed hang out and we never did he said he "lost his phone on a train" and i kept calling his phone being worried and then on myspace hes like happy birthday never even said im sorry and it hurt.Then after that he never said sorry for like how he just treated me and for like some reason if we dont talk for like a month he gets a new gf even though i try to talk to him and while he was with this other girl he texted me and stuff saying that he missed me and that he coudlnt wait to see me again.(now the gf he has now he says that h...

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birthday present


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 2:50 pm

16/f

my boyfriend of 2 year's birthday is coming up soon and i want to get him somethng nice. he's going off to college this coming up year anf i was thinking about getting him something for there but his parents are doing that. i want to get him something nice. any suggestions? the price should be between $100-$300.

thanks.
<3

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too awkward, forward, or stupid?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:03 pm

I go with this guy who is totally sexual (lol) and of course i dont mind because, hey, I am too. And so me and him joke about stuff ALL the time, but nothing has actually happened, you know? I figured he'd be the guy who would kiss me faster than anyone, but nothing yet, because I know that he's alot of "all-talk" as people say, and really values togetherness and getting to know one another. I LOVE that about him, I love everything, but I think it's about time we had our first kiss, and I'm not sure how to go about it. It's not like either of us are shy, but I don't know what to do really.

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hanging out vs a date


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:41 pm

i like a guy, and i know he likes me back.

he said he wants to hang out..but since we both like each other, how is that any different from a date? is it a date?

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Homewrecker .. ;)


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 11:22 am

Last night my best guy friend stopped by around 11 ish or so. Well, I ended up kissing him, dispite the fact he has a girlfriend. I've liked him for so long, and I just had to take a chance because I didn't want to keep wondering what would happen if I hadn't done it.

Well, now I'm not sure what to do. He seemed to like it, I mean he kept asking to stay for a couple more hours, and he invited me to hang out later today. But I'm kind of curious as to what I might expect. He told me he liked it, even though I totally caught him off gaurd.

But where should I go from here?
Should I wait and see what happens?
Or should I try to make another move?

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If i cry its all his fault


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 10:31 am

alrite so i like this boy name jeremy and we was sitting on the bus and the bus driver told him 2 sit two seats up from me and i was like jerem come sit back here and when he was about 2 get up brooklyn sat next 2 him so he quit trying 2 leave so the boy next to me wanted his phone number so he told me 2 give jeremy my phone so he could put his number in so i gave it 2 him i was like timothy wants your nmber and he was like this is your phone i then my friend charisse was like no ravin wants your phone number and i was like timothy does 2 so she said stop lying so jeremy put his phone numberin there so i took it.

i called jeremy at 8:20 and i was going through a huge anxiety attack he answered the phone he was like hello who ...

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What does this mean ?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 10:09 am

I like this guy and he likes me and we both know this but he wants to stay single because he just got dumped.He is an awesome guy and people always say who do you like better me or Steph(thats me) and he always says Steph,anyways he broke one of my jelly braclets the other day and it means make out and I was at his house and we sat on the couch and he put his arm around me and held my hand and we almost madeout and we will for SURE make out...It is confussing me because we aren't going out...If it helps we are both 13 and Hes a really nice guy and cute and funny.

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Is it love ?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 9:47 am

The is this guy and we are good friends and wehang out and tell each other a lot and we both like eachother a lot and I was at his house the other day and his parents were out...no one knew I was there,and we were in his living room watching tv.Suddenly we were holding hands,then he put his arm around me and I leaned into him and he kept moving until we were laying down and we kept looking at each other,we almost kissed but then we didn't .He broke my jelly braclet and it means make out so I don't know HELP...What are his thoughts?

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he and his best friend


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 8:26 am

well i like this guy letz call him A , but he left 2 high school last year. he had a best friend letz call him M and he goes in my class. they r still friends and stuff..l o l
anyway last year A liked me 2. he even told me. but M seemed like he hated me. now since A left he always lookes at me a lot and a friend of mine told me that when i don't look at him he stares at me like he's madly in love with me or something. i belive her cause she's ma best friend. i just don't get it. last year when we were in 7th grade he acted like he totally hates me , always hung out with A (the guy i like) and looked at me in a weirdish way when i was passing them. now in 8th grade everytime i see M he stares at me like he really likes me. he always ...

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Phone Conversation with Boyfriend


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 2:21 am

Hi! OK. Its really simple, my boyfriend and I can text all day on the phone, but when we actually get on the phone, its hard to keep the conversation going. PLEASE HELP!! Give me some topics or something. I've never been at a lost for words but with him, I can never get my words right, PLEASE HELP

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friend=abused.


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:55 am

Ok, i have this friend thats a girl, lets call her jan. and my friend that is her boyfriend's name can be bob.

Okay, Jan and bob have been together around 3 months, and suposibly they are in "love." Well theres just one thing. Bob is verbally abusing jan. Every time jan tries to talk to her friends or hang with them bob gets mad. every time jan talks to other guys, bob gets mad. Bob is trying to get all of jans friends turned against her so that he can have her all to himself.

example:
one night bob and jan were at a school dance. jan started talking to her friends, and not just to bob. Bob gets really mad, goes and gets his stuff and says im leaving. Jan tries to stop him, and says well im not...

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does he like me or what?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:34 am

so there`s this guy, lets call him jake. anyways. jake is a real sweetie. he`s a real gentleman, straight edge, unlike his friends, and just, basically, a nice guy all around. and pretty shy when it comes to girls. i think so, anyways. so i started hanging out with him months ago. at first, we just didn`t talk much, but whenever i ditched, i went to him. and i may have known some of the other guys i hang out with longer, but i only have his number. and this one other guy, but that`s a different story. anyways. for a while, i guess i sort of led him on, but not really. i just told him he would be mad at me. so he thought i was going to do something to him, but i wasn`t. and i guess he just took some stuff the wrong way? so for that while we ...

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How Does It Happen?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:30 am

When you would get a boyfriend what are the steps? I'm confused, do you go straight to boyfriend? Do you tell him you like him?
Can someone give me just the general steps starting from the first time you see him. (the guy I like is not friends with me)

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Why Not?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:28 am

I don't have a boyfriend. I think it's because I have a hard time being myself and staying relaxed around guys.
What should I do to be myself and keep confident?
13.

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should i tell her?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:33 am

ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i h...

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the last chance


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:10 am

ok there is this girl at my school who i used to date, but it did not really go all that well, i was too shy. first of all i do not know how to overcome that, and second, ever since we broke up i have realized more and more how much i love her and want her, even though we rarely talk. she is also leaving at the end of this school year, i want to tell her that i love her, but it sounds so stupid.

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fallingfor him


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:10 am

i met this guy like 4 months ago and no we are not going out but we have gone and dates and i also lost my virginity to him. The last two months i have found myself so caught up in him and im falling so hard for him. We dont talk on a daily basis maybe 4 times a week.

A month after i met him i really liked him and i told him that and he called me clingy and we got in this argument and stopped talking for three weeks. I dont want to repeat that but i really need him right now in my life.

Im the type of girl that only tells a guy i love you if i truely honestly mean it. And i really just want to tell him but how do i tell him with out him leaving?

thanks guys.


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my sister's story


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:07 am

My sister is a sophomore at college. Well, she got a huge box of flowers on Friday from a guy that she doesn't like much. I think that she should let him down really gently because he spent a lot of money on the flowers.

Anyways, we can't figure out a way to tell him..any suggestions?

She doesn't want to do it over the internet..

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tired of feeling like i don't measure up


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:04 am

14/F
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!

hi!!, okay, so i'm a freshman in highschool, and VERY VERY VERY shy. I don't quite know how to talk to guys, flirting, or just general conversation because im so worried that i'll say something stupid, or just ramble on and on and on, or not be understood...etc.

Adults in my life (from temple, or just adult friends) always tell me how poised, comfortable in my skin, and beautiful/pretty i am. They also say, "all of the boys must be all over you-(then they say this to my father) keep an eye on her, dont let her go out on too many dates." Well, i don't think im poised AT ALL, im really not that comfortable with my self-image, i don't think im pretty, or good looking...

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