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fallingfor him
i met this guy like 4 months ago and no we are not going out but we have gone and dates and i also lost my virginity to him. The last two months i have found myself so caught up in him and im falling so hard for him. We dont talk on a daily basis maybe 4 times a week.
A month after i met him i really liked him and i told him that and he called me clingy and we got in this argument and stopped talking for three weeks. I dont want to repeat that but i really need him right now in my life.
Im the type of girl that only tells a guy i love you if i truely honestly mean it. And i really just want to tell him but how do i tell him with out him leaving?
thanks guys.
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Guys need space.
They really do. they hate if anyone tries to chage them, or if maybe the hold on too tight, because they are afraid of losing the freedom being single has.
you need to let him have his space before you tell him.
You need him to see that you love him and trust him enough to be a little looser in terms of clingy-ness
When he sees that you trust him, you can tell him.
I'm glad you've found someone who you have such strong feelings for.
Best of luck in your future
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hey, well if you really truly felt that strongly for him and he just pushed you away like that without even thinking of your feelings first then im sorry, but he is a total jerk. my best advice to you would be to move on. find other guys and date around. i know right now that this seems like he is the only guy for you and that you are madly in love with him, but you deserve way better. i don`t even know you and i can clearly tell you that. this is for your own good. im not on an evil crusade to crush your feelings and make you forget about the boy that you love, im just trying to help you in the long run. believe me, if he crushed your feelings and hurt your heart before, he will do it again. you need to find someone that loves you for you and appreciates having you around. there are lots of ways to meet other guys. myspace, facebook, friend`s friends, school, and clubs. shop around. use what the other boy did to you as qualities NOT to look for in the next boy that you fall for. i wish you the best of luck :].
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