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too awkward, forward, or stupid?
I go with this guy who is totally sexual (lol) and of course i dont mind because, hey, I am too. And so me and him joke about stuff ALL the time, but nothing has actually happened, you know? I figured he'd be the guy who would kiss me faster than anyone, but nothing yet, because I know that he's alot of "all-talk" as people say, and really values togetherness and getting to know one another. I LOVE that about him, I love everything, but I think it's about time we had our first kiss, and I'm not sure how to go about it. It's not like either of us are shy, but I don't know what to do really.
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I can actually relate to this. I'm also a very sexual person & I will make comments about things, but I don't necessarily act on them because I have a sense of respect (as he does). But like you said, he does seem to appreciate the other things that come along with the relationship, which is why he's not jumping onto anything right away. & it's okay if he's "all talk" because you want a guy who isn't after one thing. Since neither of you are shy, why not go ahead & make the first move since he hasn't already? If you really want to kiss this guy & he feels the same way about you, then just go for it! Guys like girls who are confident & are willing to make the first move. :)
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kiss him on the cheek... if that doesn't give him the idea that you wanna kiss then go in and kiss him on the lips the next time you see him. and if he still doesn't reply just grope him or something! lol! he'll come around.
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Don't push it- the longer you let it grow, the more special it will become.
Perhaps because this openly sexual guy is displaying such a self-controlled, respectful attitude to you it is his way of signalling his intentions of a meaningful relationship..?
When the time is right things will happen- let it fall into place on its own.
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When you guys are together, just hint towards it. Lean in towards him or something like that. Otherwise if that doesn't work, kiss him on the cheek if you haven't already done that. That'll open up the possiblilty of kissing and you could always mention it casually since you both aren't shy and it shouldn't be awkward since it directly has to do with your relationship. I hope this helps!
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