Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:34 am
so there`s this guy, lets call him jake. anyways. jake is a real sweetie. he`s a real gentleman, straight edge, unlike his friends, and just, basically, a nice guy all around. and pretty shy when it comes to girls. i think so, anyways. so i started hanging out with him months ago. at first, we just didn`t talk much, but whenever i ditched, i went to him. and i may have known some of the other guys i hang out with longer, but i only have his number. and this one other guy, but that`s a different story. anyways. for a while, i guess i sort of led him on, but not really. i just told him he would be mad at me. so he thought i was going to do something to him, but i wasn`t. and i guess he just took some stuff the wrong way? so for that while we would hug and stuff. [i hang out with like, all guys, so i don`t hug them really, they`re like my brothers so we just do that handshake thing.] so anyways, then he found out why i would make him mad, i was gonna smoke for the first time. [please don`t try to tell me to quit, i`m not hooked.] so anyways. that night was the night we got out for winter break and we slept over at a friends house. the next day, he didn`t really talk to me or anything. then i invited him to the movies with me and me friend, but he couldn`t make it. then that night, when i got home, after the movie, on his aim profile he put "she likes me!" and then we stopped talking for a while, especially because of break. when got back into school, we talked a bit, but not as much as for that little while before break. today, i told him that this one guy was taking me to speedzone. and he was like. "wtf.. wtf!" because like, the guy that was taking me is like a crazy motherfucker that no one really expected me to be hanging out with. then when we went to get gas, we were talking, and he was like "so what, you guys are going out or something?" like in a fake joking kind of way, like he really cared, but he didn`t want me to know he cared. i said no and then he kinda dropped the subject. then we talked about food. [because we`re fatasses, it`s our little thing we do.] and then we went back to school and it was kinda quiet for a while. and then he was like "so.. you`re going with ghost.." [that`s my friend`s a.k.a.] and i was like yea. and he was all "oh..." and i was just like yea, you should come. but he said he was going to the gym. and he was kinda like "when did you start talking to ghost?" and i told him i`ve been talking to him for a few weeks now. what else.. well, he always jokes around with me like to flirt with me. like one time he was drinking water, and when he finished it, he lightly threw it at me, and i gave him this look n he was automatically like "just kidding just kidding just kidding!" and like he was making sure i wasn`t mad and stuff. but we really don`t talk that much anymore.. so yea, i don`t really know..
Additional info, added Saturday February 17 2007, 12:55 pm: oh and it`s not that he doesn`t like me smoking, becuase i hang out with a group of them and all of them either smoke, or recently quit. and he said he wasn`t mad at me for smoking, just disappointed. because i asked him about it.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? looneytune1561 answered Saturday February 17 2007, 9:12 am: wow this can be a really confusing situation. mabye he stopped talking to you because since hes straight edge he didnt like you smokeing,that could be a reason.hmm another may be that he does like you and since he is shy he doesnt want to make the first move or anything. mabye he thinks he doesnt have a chance with you anymore because your hanging out with ghost. why dont you go up to him one day and be like i miss hangin with you. see what he says. hope i helped [ looneytune1561's advice column | Ask looneytune1561 A Question ]
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