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im too shy.
i can never keep a good conversation going, unless someone else starts something i can go on about. its really weird. its because i think so much, i think. whenever im out with friends, i dont talk very much unless someone talks to me first, and i usually suck at keeping a conversation going, and i feel like all my friendships are failing. i feel so self-councious all the time. i hate it. im always worrying that im boring someone or something like that. what should i do?
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i have this problem alot too. i find that talking about movies, or other friends helps... and if you do something to gaether talk to whoever you did it with afterwords... sorry i couldn't help more....
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well first of, friends are friends because they have things in common and they like each others company. your friends wouldnt even be your friends if they thought you were boring. just relax when your around them.say " hey did you see that one movie" and if they say yes ask them how they liked it. or if they said no suggest you all go see it together one night. hope i helped!
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hey, well before talking to people in person you should take to them on AIM. i find that that helps me to get to know a person better before talking to them in real life. also that avoids any akward silences cause you can always say be right back, if you really cant think of anything to say.
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