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How Does It Happen?
When you would get a boyfriend what are the steps? I'm confused, do you go straight to boyfriend? Do you tell him you like him?
Can someone give me just the general steps starting from the first time you see him. (the guy I like is not friends with me)
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you needent be confused :)
all relationships are different, and they come together differently.
There are no "steps" as such...guidelines, sure : eg 1st base, 2nd base, and so on, but its really up to you to decide the way it goes, and how quickly.
talking is good :)
take each step at a time and i hope it all goes well :)
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Hey.
Well..first you have to become friends. You're not going to go out with someone that you hardly know, right? You can find out all their interests this way, and see what you two have in common. Start off being friends by talking over AIM, Myspace, and generally working to school. Just be like "Hey, I see you around school a lot (Or your in some of my classes), & I just wanted to get to know you..."
Then, once you see him talking to you more and more, start flirting. Make sure it's not too intense, though-don't say "OMG, YOU'RE FLIPPING HOT I THINK ID BANG YOU" Haha. OBVIOUSLY. But..really. I've seen it happen, and there was no friendly relationship. (For flirting tips, try ) Eventually, tell him you like him.
Finally, if you flirt really well, and he catches on and starts to flirt with you too, you'll probably get him. :)
PLEASE NOTE: This doesn't take a week or two. It takes a while, actually. So, you probably won't like him, oh, say two years from now--but it's always good to build up a relationship with someone, whether it be boyfriend/girlfriend or just friendly.
Best of luck & hope this helps!!
-Jam
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hey, well you would obviously have to start talking to him before even thinking about him being boyfriend material. you have to make sure that you guys bost have a general interest in each other. start talking to him on AIM first. its easier to get to know someone on there, rather than in real life. that way if there is any akward silences, you can say be right back, that is until you find soemthng to say. yes, you should admit to him that you like him when you guys become GOOD FRIENDS. telling him that too earlier in the friendship comes off as creepy and stalkerish and you wouldnt want that to be his first impression of you. once you guys know that you like each other one of you needs to take the plunge and ask the other one out. rejection is scary, but its worth the shot :].
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