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Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 1:28 am

I don't have a boyfriend. I think it's because I have a hard time being myself and staying relaxed around guys.
What should I do to be myself and keep confident?
13.


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dia answered Saturday February 17 2007, 2:04 pm:
listen sweetie..youre 13..ENJOY THE SINGLE LIFE!!

having a BF may seem like a great thing at the moment, but you may be surprised :(

you have a hard time being yourelf? the best thing to do is WORK on who you really are, stick to being you, and youll soon find someone.

its normal to be slightly jittery aroud the opposite sex, its worse at this age too, so you needent worry.
make a few guy friends (who you arent neccessarily attracted to as theyll be easier speak to) for the time being, and in the future talking to boys in general will not be hard. i can promise you that :)

boys like it when they see the real you so once youve nailed that, youre sure to have some luck :)

hope ths helped, and wish you luck :)

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looneytune1561 answered Saturday February 17 2007, 9:15 am:
just relax when your around a guy you like. act like you only like them as a friend but kinda give him hints that you do like him. whenever you around a guy you like keep telling yourself that you look hot and give your self all these compliments. youll feel more confident. hope i helped

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orphans answered Saturday February 17 2007, 6:27 am:
U dont have to do naything besides acting good looking. Leave the rest up to them. Being shy and not talkative makes them do all the talking and try harder for you. As time goes by, you ll feel more comfortable but you dont really have to.

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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Saturday February 17 2007, 2:19 am:
just relax. don`t think of them as like, dating material. just thing of them as any other girl, except treat them like a guy. just be friendly&stuff. oh, &btw, you`re ONLY 13. don`t worry about boys yet. live your life&have fun. you have the rest of your life to worry about boys&stuff. when you get older, you`ll know what i mean.

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