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beautiful to ugly
okay this boy trevor , who i thought was my friend used to tell me how pretty i was and stuff and how i was fun to talk to and idk but we were just friends. like nothing more that that .. and well we were talking sunday night about this kid matthew and i was like yeah matthews hot but he wouldnt remember me anyways cause i met him for like five seconds and hes like yeah matthew said that you didnt look bad in your pics but your ugly in person? ... but i dont think matthew even remembers me or knows my name but whatever .. i told him to ask him where he saw me on monday and he said he would .. but he hasnt talked to me since and i kept asking him if he was mad at me but he wouldnt say anything or he'd delete my comment ... so today i texted him on my friends phone and was like are you mad at melissa and hes like no i just dont have my phone whenever she texts me and stuff ... well a little bit ago his friend from my school IMs me and goes do you like trevor and i was like as a friend why and hes like cause he told me to tell you that the next time i see you at school i have to say he thinks your ugly and he never wants you to text him again ... and i just don't know what to do anymore .. i feel like im the ugliest person alive and no one likes me ... i just idk what to do , someone helpp me please [:
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hey.. so um i really think that trevor likes you and thinks your pretty. he is only jelous because you thought the other guy (matt) was hott!...and he might have lied about matt saying you were ugly. matt prob. told him you were pretty and he got really jelous!.. he might want you for himself because he might really like you and he's shy to talk to you.. and he told his friend to tell you that you were ugly just so he could prob. get over you...he might be upset that you dont like him because he might have pretty strong feelings for you... and really doesnt want you to go out with any1. he might ignore you to try and get over you also.. so dont listen to wat he said about you being ugly because he just said that out of anger and jelousy.try to talk to him in person and ask him if he is mad at you...he might be scared and nervous to talk to you because of all those things he said to you and didnt really mean it. so give him a chance to show you that he didnt mean all those things he said about you and let him show you he can still be your friend. thats all i can say to help you ...srry if i made this soooo long but i really hope this helps you..
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hey not sure if this is much help. but it seems that trvor likes you. and he doesnt want to show it or hes scared of what will happen like if you go out you wont have this special bond. but i could be wrong. talk to that guy that told you that he was supposed to say your ugly. and if trevor ment it he would say it to your face. and it seems liek trevor may like you because first the dude asked if you like him.. then when you said no he said you were ugly. i wonder if the answer would have been different if you ahd said yes.
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oo tough situation. i think mabye trevor likes you and he was jealous when he found out you thought mattew was hot so he made up that as an excuss.mabye one day just confront him be like i thought you were my friend why would you say those mean things.hope i helped.
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That sucks, doll.
But don't worry about it, you are pretty.
Trevor just has jealousy issues because he likes you and he's trying to keep you away from Matthew. He's just showing it in a really immature way.
Maybe you should go talk to him and ask him what's up. Tell him that you don't like Matthew so he'll understand and tell him that you still want to be friends.
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well, I think that it is pretty obvious that your "friend" trevor is jealous of your interest in another guy. he seems to like you more then just friends.
could you ever like trevor for more then just friends? if you could then you should attempt to make amends with him and tell him how you feel... in a personal private conversation... not in a text or any other written form of communication that he can pass around to his buddies.
IF you don't like trevor for more than just a friend then you should cut your loses, and move on with your life... because it will never be the same way that it was... trevor has crossed that line with you and made it so that your friendship is compromised. it is up to him to make amends and try to spackle together your friendship with him, and he doesn't seem like the kind of mature guy that would be able to do that.
so, i am sorry but unless trevor makes the attempt to say he is sorry first, i don't see you haveing any kind of relationship, friend or otherwise with him.
and on another note, you can not, and must not think that you are an ugly person and that no one likes you. you have other friends besides trevor that will say different... and as for the ugly part... trevor was just manipulating you and trying to hurt you because you hurt his immature male ego when you said you liked another guy. you are more than likely a very pretty girl that had the unfortunate luck of having a mean, jealous, and selfish friend.
I hope that you are able to put this event out of your mind and focus on the good friendships that you do have.
good luck!
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