Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:33 am
ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i have just learned that she is leaving my school, to go to another because she wants a change of things. i think i love her and i dont want her to leave, but i am too shy to step up and admit to her my feelings, not that it would change anything, but i just feel like she should know, before she goes that someone is thinking of her. i also feel that that might make things even more aukward between us, and i am really shy when it comes to this stuff.
runawayxlove answered Saturday February 17 2007, 11:04 am: hey, i`ve seen movies like this. where the guy is crazy about the girl, but thinks that she`s not interested when inside she really is. then they die and then learn how they both loved each other. you dont want that to happen -- now do you? you need to tell her how you feel in a cute sensitive way. whether its in person, on text, on email, on the phone, or on AIM, it just needs to be done. girls love hearing that someone cares about them, even if it`s from someone that they have no feelings for what-so-ever. i wish you the best of luck :]. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday February 17 2007, 2:00 am: tell her all of this, girls love to hear it. if a guy told me all of that, i would fall in love with him haha. but seriously, tell her all of it [and act sensitive, don't try to be cool] then at the end, ask her out. you should really say it in person, but if you don't want to, ATLEAST write it in a note. you have to tell her or you will regret it forever!
1.) do you have aim? we could talk better on there.. i'm sarah99596
2.) to your question-- what should you say-- say (something like this, not exactly) "i know that you are about to move, so i wanted to let you know that i really, really love you. you mean alot to me, and i don't want you to go. ever since we broke up, i want you more and more everyday. as you know, i'm pretty shy. so that's why i acted the way i did. but now, things can be different. will you go out with me?" [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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