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friend&&her bf
well i have this friend, her name is kaitlyn. and shes been goin out with this kid for about 3 months now. hes pretty cool. me and him are friends but he always is so controlling over kaitlyn. me and her are best friends and we have this really good friend ray that we have been friends with wayy longer then when her and her bf have known each other. she used to have a little crush on ray but she got over it fast cause they were just friends.and it was seriously nothing cause ray never knew and he didnt think of her like that. well her bf gets really mad when he calls her or she calls him. he wont talk to her and he always makes bad comments towards ray. and i think its really stupid cause were all really good friends. he wont go anywhere ray is. and its not just ray.. its EVERY guy that kaitlyn hangs out with. and thats most of our friends. just friends. if me and her go somewhere and are hangin out with one of them then he gets mad and thinks shes cheating on him or something and he keeps hanging up on her which causes her to keep calling him and apoligizing (even though she didnt do anything wrong) and she stays on the phone all night and ignores all of us. and he always seems to throw this one ex up in her face saying that hes goin to hang out with her if kaitlyn is hangin out with guys.
kaitlyn says she loves him and he loves her i guess but i think its stupid how he does that.
what do you think?
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She might love him thats true, but for him to love her ; thats the question.
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Love is about trust, and kaitlyns bf isnt very trusting. I'm sure she has tired to explain that Ray is just a friend and nothing more. The best thing you can do is sit kaitlyn down and explain to her how this all looks to you. Her view on this is totally different from yours. You don't have to be mean just tell her your worried that she isnt being treated right. She might get upset & take offense to it, but shes your best friend, and in a way shes being hurt. There is no reason why she shouldnt be able to hang out with guy friends including Ray, and there is no reason she should have to say sorry when there is nothing to say it about.
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Her boyfriend is wrong on so many levels. Guys like that need to be smacked. [dont do it figure of speach :)] but he shouldnt treat her like that. He shouldnt shove ex`s in her face and make her feel bad.
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Just talk to your friend, be nice and understanding, she may really like this guy alot & she may possibly love him. Just help her see how hes treating her, he might be able to change.
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i don't think he love her cause love is trusting someone enough to give them your heart and trusting them not to hurt it or brake it.it seems like he didn't give her his heart and i think you should convince kaitlyn that this guy isn't good for her or since he's your friend talk to him.you should tell kaitlyn that a guy can last for a while but friends will last forever even after heartbreaks.
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hey, thats not right and not healthy for kaitlyn. she needs to either a) have him change or b) break up with him. i know its worng to have people change but in this case its so nessasary.
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