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Best guy friend?


Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 12:20 am

I have a great relationship with my best guy friend. (I am 14/f, he is 15/m) We tell each other everything, hes always there for me and I'm there for him. He's been trying to help me out with this guy I like and it's made me adore him even more, as a friend. But lately I've felt like maybe I like him as more than a friend? I think it may just be lust because I still like this other guy a lot. And I don't want to like my best guy friend. I would never want to lose him as a friend, and I know the best way to lose a friend is to date them. I'm not sure how to go about this.

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Additional info, added Saturday February 17 2007, 12:23 am:
Also, it just feels like I want to be physically near him all the time - which is why I think it could be lust. When he like hugs me or something I feel really safe, I don't know. Maybe I'm just desperate. Haha.

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vailgirl80 answered Saturday February 17 2007, 2:55 pm:
it probably is lust.cause i know exactly what your going through and it really depends on how you guys are cause some of the best relationships the couples started out as best friends.but you guys seem close like brother and sister so i say go for the other guy.

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Igotamonopoly answered Saturday February 17 2007, 9:29 am:
I was in a similar situation a little while ago. My best guy friend gives the best hugs in the whole world. The other day, I was crying and he just held me for like 5 minutes and everything got better. :]

I usually like more than one person at a time. You're not desperate. :]

I say that you let what happens happen.

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