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What does this mean ?
I like this guy and he likes me and we both know this but he wants to stay single because he just got dumped.He is an awesome guy and people always say who do you like better me or Steph(thats me) and he always says Steph,anyways he broke one of my jelly braclets the other day and it means make out and I was at his house and we sat on the couch and he put his arm around me and held my hand and we almost madeout and we will for SURE make out...It is confussing me because we aren't going out...If it helps we are both 13 and Hes a really nice guy and cute and funny.
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I think this situation is exactly what it sounds like.. he likes you but isn't ready for another relationship but is willing to be friends with benefits. His wanting to be single is a result of either being hurt by his old girlfriend, or not wanting to be tied down to one person. If it is him not wanting to be tied down then watch out. He might hook up with you and then move on leaving you heartbroken. So just be careful and don't put yourself in a situation where you may get hurt.
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Hey,
HE WANTS TO STAY SINGLE. Unfortunate, but true.
He doesn't want his heart broken again. I don't blame him.
However, maybe he wants you so that he can kiss you...AKA "Friends with Benefits." He doesn't want to commit to a serious relationship but can see you two to kiss.
PS.: When someone breaks your jelly bracelet, it means they want to have sex with you..not make out with you.
Good luck.
-Jam
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If he says he wants to stay single then that is the bottom line. Don't pressure him or push him because in the end you will both suffer for it he might even try to push that back up in your face rushng him is like begging so respect his wishes. If he doesn't want to be in a relationship then tell him that it is okay but that doesn't mean that you can't tell him how you feel about him explain it to him' let him know you like him and care about im and want to be with him but you have respect for him and his feelings. He will respect and admire this because that is the mature way to handle the situation. So don't put yourself in a position to get hurt maybe it is best that you don't make out because if he doesn't feel the same way that you feel making out will only complicate things because you are going to fall harder for him during that and you are gonna want more that he isn't going to want to give "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free" he is going to be thinking. So just saty his friend and remain in his corner and if things should change in the future then make out with him when he is willing to give you something and you can give him somehting in return.
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