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Last night my best guy friend stopped by around 11 ish or so. Well, I ended up kissing him, dispite the fact he has a girlfriend. I've liked him for so long, and I just had to take a chance because I didn't want to keep wondering what would happen if I hadn't done it.
Well, now I'm not sure what to do. He seemed to like it, I mean he kept asking to stay for a couple more hours, and he invited me to hang out later today. But I'm kind of curious as to what I might expect. He told me he liked it, even though I totally caught him off gaurd.
But where should I go from here?
Should I wait and see what happens?
Or should I try to make another move?
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I don't think it'd be wise to make another move. He has a girlfriend & if he truly liked you, he'd dump her & go for you. If he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend now, how do you know he wouldn't do that to you if you decided to date him? Have respect for yourself & go out with someone who wants you & only you. Continuing to see this guy behind his girlfriend's back is going to end in a fight & disappointment on your end.
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I dont think you should make another move because he has a g/f and thats gonna really become a fight... and if he relly liked you he would brek up with her so wait and see, but remember if you were in his g/f place and she was you and u found out wouldn't you want to like hurt him and the other girl... just think about it. I hope i helpedā„
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Dont make another move.
You need to ask him what he is feeling, and that kiss meant more to you than just a one off.You need to have a good conversation and ask him
-what he felt
-does he like you
- what you gonna do about your girlfriend.
Apologize for doing this, when you knew he has a girlfriend and take it from there.Also keep distant if he feels confused too.
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i think you shouldn`t completely make another move, but make sure he still thinks your interested or else he`ll get confused. see if he makes a move, and if he doesn`t by the end of the night, then try to make another move or something.
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Good advice already from BEY especially, so I will just add this...
You acted from your feelings which were powerful enough to get you into this situation, but now it is time for your head to catch up. No more playing around, or you are just the other woman and will end up feeling worse. Tell him that it was not smart for you to do what you did with him being attached and that from now on, unless he leaves his girlfriend for you, it will just have to be left alone. If he really wants you, he would dump his girlfriend for you. Otherwise, you are just going to be used. Give both of you the chance to do the right thing. The girlfriend deserves to know where she stands, but ONLY from him. Don't tell her or anyone that might tell her out of spite. Dangerous Curves Ahead. Slow Down. Proceed With Caution.
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This is pretty risky business. I understand why you did what you did but don't do it again until he ends things with the other girl. It isn't fair to you or his gf if he is with both of you. You don't want the situation to become you being the girl he cheats with. I've seen my friend be in your situation where a guy kept saying he was going to end things with his gf and then never did. Don't let him use you. You should hang out with him and talk about what happened. Ask him what it meant to him and whether or not he still wants to be with his girlfriend. If he does then make a clean break and tell him that you should probably just be friends until he is ready to end things with the other girl. Then, when he is single put the moves on and see where things go.
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Hey,
Uh-oh.
I would hang out with him today...
And I'd wait and see what happens.
I think he likes you but he also likes his girlfriend.
...But be careful, you don't want to start any trouble ;)
Good luck, let me know what happened, please! : )
-Jam
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You could make another move but i mean it should depend on what you want if you are fine sharing than of course make another move but if you want him to yourself than tell him you made a mistske and that the only way that will happen again is if he is yours because men are a trip. He will definently take all that he can get as long as he can get it. He doesn't care how many lies he has to tell to string both of you along and be satisfied by both of you he will play games. If you give him an altumatem or just plain explain it to him what i said in a nice matter than you'll know how he feels about you does he care enough abnout you to be with you and only you. But, if you could take him honestly it wouldn't be worth it becasue I've doen it and if he'll do it to her for you he'll do it to you for someone else. Karma doesn't play and in the game of love you weep what you sow and I know becasued I have weeped it before. Please believe me it is best just to leave him alone until he is fair game to keep your feelings in tact and everybody elses.
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