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If i cry its all his fault


Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 10:31 am

alrite so i like this boy name jeremy and we was sitting on the bus and the bus driver told him 2 sit two seats up from me and i was like jerem come sit back here and when he was about 2 get up brooklyn sat next 2 him so he quit trying 2 leave so the boy next to me wanted his phone number so he told me 2 give jeremy my phone so he could put his number in so i gave it 2 him i was like timothy wants your nmber and he was like this is your phone i then my friend charisse was like no ravin wants your phone number and i was like timothy does 2 so she said stop lying so jeremy put his phone numberin there so i took it.

i called jeremy at 8:20 and i was going through a huge anxiety attack he answered the phone he was like hello who is this i said ravin then he said ooh was up then i was like noyhing what are you doing then he said im by my auntie im doing somthing call me back in 10 minutes so i called him back in an hour and he didnt answer the phone so i called my friend ferrin and told her to call and see if he answers from her number so she called and he answered and she was like sorry i got the wrong numer so then i waited 10 minutes and i called him back he did not answer the phone!

he told my friend charisse the only reason why he doesnt like me because i tell people i dont like him


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BitsandPieces answered Saturday February 17 2007, 12:56 pm:
So, what have you learned from this little experience? Do you enjoy being lied to? No. Neither does anyone else. Be upfront and clear next time, and you won't get in this mess. Guys do not like it when girls try to confuse them. Believe me, they are confused enough without our making it worse for them! Guys do like women who are brave and honest enough to approach them and straight up tell them what we want. What Jeremy told Charisse is most likely the truth, so start being real and he may start asking for your number. Don't call him again. Next time you like a guy, give him your phone number. Guys like a girl to make the first move, but not girls who totally bug them. When you see Jeremy next time say "Sorry about the miscommunication. I got a little silly. I do that around cute guys." Then smile and walk away. He will probably be flattered and like that you are calm and confident. Don't feel that way? Fake it! Just because you are nervous, does not mean you have to act like it that moment. Learn to control yourself and you will have a much happier outcome next time. This is a lot for you at such a young age, so read this a few times and let it sink in. It will save you years of frustration.

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lauralaura answered Saturday February 17 2007, 12:52 pm:
hey, i think this guy is probably confused because you're giving out mixed signals to him. you should just be honest with him. get him alone sometime and tell him straight exactly how you feel about him. if he likes you then you're sorted, and if he doesn't you can move on and you'll soon like someone who likes you back. be straight with him and he'll respect you.
good luck
laura xxxx

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