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confused about him.
okay so this guy that i really really really liked moved away (he liked me too) a couple months ago and we still talked since he had family up here he came around nov.the weekend of my birthday and promised wed hang out and we never did he said he "lost his phone on a train" and i kept calling his phone being worried and then on myspace hes like happy birthday never even said im sorry and it hurt.Then after that he never said sorry for like how he just treated me and for like some reason if we dont talk for like a month he gets a new gf even though i try to talk to him and while he was with this other girl he texted me and stuff saying that he missed me and that he coudlnt wait to see me again.(now the gf he has now he says that he "loves" her and that she means the world to him he said the exact same things to me)and then for xmas since we werent talking for about a month because i was just so angry he never said sorry for seeing me on my birthday i just coudlnt get over that because before he moved he was the sweetest guy (when we went out) and then so i tried talking to him all in jan like 3 times and he never answered me back,so i gave up trying to be friends with him so i deleted his numbers,his texts,and him for my myspace and everything to try to get over him and i kinda was until about a week ago.Its the first time i heard from him since about the end of dec.And he asked to be my friend on myspace so i accept him and said "so you want to talk to me again huh" and
he does haha ya..i never wanted to like not talk to you and hes like i saw you deleted me on myspace and i was like woah?" (and he starting talking to me the day of his one month with his gf)and so i said i tried talking to you like 3 times and you never answered me back and how it seems like you only talk to me when you feel like it and how i was done trying to talk to him so i deleted him and i thought he forgot about me,i thought MAYBE i would get a "im sorry" or an explaintion but he never answered me back.Im just really hurt that he keeps playing with my emotions like that,like if you said you never not wanted to talk to me then why are you not answering me you know or at least try to patch things up with me? should i just try to talk to him again or just talk to him pretend that everything is fine? or just not talk to him at all ? the thing is why would he not answer me if he wanted to talk to me again? does anyone get it? what should i do? Sorry its long lol but thank you i need advice on what to do im confused!
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well im kinda happy to see that more than just me has this same problem.. cause im kinda goin through the same thing.. but lk the person still lives here.. but yeah.. im just tryin to get over him nd move on.. but i no there will still always be apart of me that still loves nd cares about him alot.. lk i dont even no if we are friends anymore cuz he lk never talks to me...i mean he might say somethin to me every now nd then but thats it. but yeah i guess you can kkiinda do what im doin nd just get over him nd find someone else out there that will treat you better..
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the best answer is to get over him,but if u really think he is worth saving the relationship(what ever it may be)u have with him then give him a dose of his own medicine, when he calls just keep the convo short or don't answer him at all then on his myspace later write something like saw u called but i was busy.don't explain anything to him.
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sorry to tell you this but my avice is to get over him. he doesnt seem to be worth this pain. he's with someone else and doesnt seem like an honest person. you deserve better than that hun.
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