My name is Jaziel, I'm 15. i'm here just to basically help people. i've had alot of relationship so i have experience in that depatment.i am a very realistic person, usually i just say it like i see it. you can also contact me at icediamond91@yahoo.com
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so yeah there is this guy at my school. and i'm pretty sure he liked me a lot! he looked at me like he's in love. everytime his friends saw me they winked at eachother. and he smiled at me a lot 2. i admit i always ignored him cause thats just the way i am but I think THATS what made me interesting or whatever on the last day of school he smiled AGAIN.
but now since half term is over he kinda ignores me. his friends don't say anything anymore. they just walk pass me. well in the last couple of days i looked at him but i didn't smile or anything like that. i dunno whats up with him. and now i act like i don't care again cause i'm a bit ambarressed. but i really like him and i don't get him lately. it's so weird!
what is he thinking?
help?
thx (link)
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if this really bothers you so much then try talking to him. Then maybe you'll understand. If he doesn't want to talk then forget him cause its his lost.
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if you call someone out of your state (on a cell phone), how much more does that cost? and what if you text them? does that cost more? thanks. (link)
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It depends on your cell service.you can call them and find out.
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that age old question i know... but lately its been getting confusing. I get crushes on girls, i have all seventeen years of my life. In fact the current crush that i have, i taped her during the musical our school had and only her when i should've been taping everyone. When someone saw the tape and asked if i like loved her i blushed. but then comes the complicated part, sexual arousal.. i dont know if i have a fetish with laether jackets but i like em and it gets me confused cause i like them but theres a man there altho other guys dont do anything for me except sometimes i like the idea of gelled hair but i dunno if its cause im jealous cause i want those things but are too afraid to get em or what... and then theres this whole other complicated part where i recently lost all my friends and then this one guy became my friend and now i really want him to be my best friend and im constantly asking him if things are okay between us and i dont konw if its cause i lost my friends and now i dont wanna lost him or if its cause i like him or something.. we almost became clsoe friends and we hugged once and i liked when we hugged, i liked having a close friend again... i just don't know if i'm gay or not and i dont want to be gay, have any desire to and scringe at the thought of gay stuff. and i hate the thought of me being gay cause i wanna grow up and have a wife and have kids.. so i dont know if its cause ive never had a girlfriend and prom is coming up and i dont have a date and i dont know if thats the reason why im freaking out so much now... i just need some perspective please.. and i know being gay isnt bad or anything i just dont want to be it. (link)
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Doesn't sound like u'r gay but you might be alittle bi-curious(not gay just curious. This situation happens at least once to everyone. It natural. You'll get past it.
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My friend Monique has a lot of clothes (which are beatiful). She lives with her mom. And her mom does compliment her a lot (just not every day) on how beatiful Moniques clothes are. This morning Monique was wearing a lime green sweater and her mom told that she loved the sweater. Monique started to wonder why her mother didnt tell her that the sweater she wore yesterday was beautiful. So she asked her mother; why didnt you say my sweater yesterday was beautiful. Her mother said; Monique stop being insecure. It is like if you said to me gee mom you look good today, I wouldnt think you did not think I looked good yesterday; MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK MONIQUE IS OVERREACTING. (link)
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probably, maybe the sweater she wore yesterday wasn't as cute as she wore today. It not that big of a deal.she is overreacting!
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hey. i'm wondering about specific things boys do when they like a girl, more than as a friend. it's so hard to distinguish between a guy who talks to you for the sake of being nice, because he's bored, because he talks to everyone, or who talks to you because he really is genuinely interested in you.
so here's info about my situation. there's a boy. i'm in physics with him. first day of school i told him and his friend a funny story about me. second day of school, boy says "hey", i say "hey" back. 3rd day, he mentions the story i told him and teases me about it and tells all the guys around him what i did. from that point on, every single day he mentions my story and teases me. he writes dumb stuff on my papers before passing them down to me. he tries to get my attention a lot to tell me really stupid stuff. like, "hey. hey. hey. can you wiggle your fingers?" and most of the time i try to ignore him and watch the teacher. so then to the guy next to me he says,"hey. get her attention." and he does the whole act-like-i'm-handing-you-you're-paper-then-pull-it-away-so-you-reach-for-it thing. he was doing that last week and the teacher was like, "Michael, stop flirting with the pretty girl and get your work done." then he gave me goofy, smiley looks.
BUT here's the thing. he has a girlfriend. they've been together about a month. and he talks to me all the time in class, but never just alone. i was so excited because we both had to stay after school to finish a test, and the teacher left the room, so it was just me and him by ourselves. but he didn't say anything to me then. so i'm seriously confused. advice please?
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It sounds like this guy is flirting with you, but he still has a girlfriend.He probably is as confussed as you are because maybe he was scared to talk to you alone.
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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
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You should go to your best friend's party first and keep it quick then go to Lucy's party cause you said that you guys aren't even close so i don't think she will care if your alittle late to her party, and if she does she'll get over it.
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Ok this guy was new in school and we clicked from the start. he liked me. i liked him. so we flirted. i lead him on. but the second time we spoke i make it clear i dont date. after that we continued flirting talkin getin to know each other. towards recent we were both like OMG she knows me to well and i was like wow he responds to me like no other. On 14th feb he gave me a gift. and i returned it back to him. i felt like i had to stop leading him on cause i dont date *if i dont have a future with him why should i? and i know i dont. this wont last. he is a suni muslim and i a shia. so whats the point? i wont marry him so why should i date* so i returned the gift and now he is really upset and mad at me. i can udnerstand but i dont want to lose him. I still really like him. and i wish he owuld give me a chnace to explain. he isnt. and in front of ppl he acts like we are ok behind we arent. and i dont know what to do. i really like him but whats the point? im so confused. please help!
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Firstly if there is no future with this guy, can you guys at least be friends. Secondly maybe you should not flirt and get so personal with him because it's only natural that he will like you.You should really find a way to explain your opinion to him if he doesn't listen at least you tried and won't have any guilt.
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ok i have one of those badass...asshole kind of b.fs.....but i dont care what ne1 says me n him are awesome together...but lke he has a serious problem about expressing his feelings....lke he doesnt do alot of cute things lke he says i love you and sumtimes a cute comment here or there but other than that he does/says nothing cute.....n he gets all defensive when i try n tell him how i feel..wth do i do? (link)
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maybe he just isn't a touchy kind of guys and he express his feeling differently than you do, you should try to get him to sit and listen to how you feel.talk it out.
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so me and my girlfriend had sex last night in her car, but afterwords my boxers were all bloody so i throught them out the window. IF someone finds my boxers do you think they would do a DNA test or anything like that to try and find me? I'm really paranoid about this. thanks. (link)
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I don't think anyone would want to touch bloody boxer, so you don't anything to worry about.
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can you get aids from having sex on your period? (link)
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of course it doesn't matter of your period or not if you have unprotected sex you can get aids.
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okay so this guy that i really really really liked moved away (he liked me too) a couple months ago and we still talked since he had family up here he came around nov.the weekend of my birthday and promised wed hang out and we never did he said he "lost his phone on a train" and i kept calling his phone being worried and then on myspace hes like happy birthday never even said im sorry and it hurt.Then after that he never said sorry for like how he just treated me and for like some reason if we dont talk for like a month he gets a new gf even though i try to talk to him and while he was with this other girl he texted me and stuff saying that he missed me and that he coudlnt wait to see me again.(now the gf he has now he says that he "loves" her and that she means the world to him he said the exact same things to me)and then for xmas since we werent talking for about a month because i was just so angry he never said sorry for seeing me on my birthday i just coudlnt get over that because before he moved he was the sweetest guy (when we went out) and then so i tried talking to him all in jan like 3 times and he never answered me back,so i gave up trying to be friends with him so i deleted his numbers,his texts,and him for my myspace and everything to try to get over him and i kinda was until about a week ago.Its the first time i heard from him since about the end of dec.And he asked to be my friend on myspace so i accept him and said "so you want to talk to me again huh" and
he does haha ya..i never wanted to like not talk to you and hes like i saw you deleted me on myspace and i was like woah?" (and he starting talking to me the day of his one month with his gf)and so i said i tried talking to you like 3 times and you never answered me back and how it seems like you only talk to me when you feel like it and how i was done trying to talk to him so i deleted him and i thought he forgot about me,i thought MAYBE i would get a "im sorry" or an explaintion but he never answered me back.Im just really hurt that he keeps playing with my emotions like that,like if you said you never not wanted to talk to me then why are you not answering me you know or at least try to patch things up with me? should i just try to talk to him again or just talk to him pretend that everything is fine? or just not talk to him at all ? the thing is why would he not answer me if he wanted to talk to me again? does anyone get it? what should i do? Sorry its long lol but thank you i need advice on what to do im confused! (link)
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the best answer is to get over him,but if u really think he is worth saving the relationship(what ever it may be)u have with him then give him a dose of his own medicine, when he calls just keep the convo short or don't answer him at all then on his myspace later write something like saw u called but i was busy.don't explain anything to him.
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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby. (link)
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Say if you do get pregnant and have the baby, do you actually think that your boyfriend is gonna wanna be a father to the child and will he still want you cause the answer is pretty clear. Do you think at your age u can take care of both a child and yourself.A baby is expensive and require all of your time. Just consider that before you make your decision.
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what does lust mean and what are some examples (link)
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lust usually means a sexual desire of some type. For example you might want to be with someone because of sexual reasons or just the way they look regardless of their personality.
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ok, well i have a friend who ive been bringing to the mall for a while now, and recently she has been hooking up with some guy there, and her parents deffinitly wouldnt approve of this. well, this girl's father has seen pictures of this boy, my friend, and i, and have found conversations this guy and my friend have had online together and she is pretty much figured out. from when she first started meeting up with this guy i wasnt to sure of it, and i didnt want to have any part of it, but she would guilt me and con me into taking her to the mall. well last night, she guilted me into taking her once again, and her father called my mom wondering where she was, cause she didnt even ask to go to the mall, she just left, and her dad didnt even know we got dropped off at the mall unsupervised, and he also said that he found out that she has been hooking up with a boy there (from the online convos), so my mom is questioning me if i am there with boys and i told her no, because 1.im not meeting up with anyone, its just her and 2.i wanted to be a good friend and cover it up so my friend who is meeting up with them wouldnt get in trouble. but now my parents are loosing trust in me and saying that i cant go anywhere unsuperised and im starting to hate my friend for dragging me into her problems, and im not sure if i should rat her out. im leaning towards telling my parents what shes been doing because shes been a horrible friend to me saying that she misses me and shell hang out with me at the mall and she goes and meets up with this kid instead. so, should i rat her out or not, and if i do, what should i say to my parents. sorry for this being so long and confusing, but it seriously is a long, and confusing story, so i really need to be able to straigten everything out to tell my parents. (link)
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you could do the right thing and just confess everything to your parents or you could work on gaining their trust back, as for your friend if she really valued your friendship she wouldn't have drag u into this mess in the first place. i think you need to rethink your relationship with her.
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Is love a feeling or emotion? Why do people fool in love and why can't i find love? (link)
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To me love can be both a feeling and an emotion. I believe that when you can spot someone and just know that you love them or you just can be yourself around that special person, could mean that you're in love. Maybe you just haven't met the right person for you yet, i do believe that you will know when you do fall in love.
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