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gay or not gay (ignore the screen name of thatadvicelady, im
that age old question i know... but lately its been getting confusing. I get crushes on girls, i have all seventeen years of my life. In fact the current crush that i have, i taped her during the musical our school had and only her when i should've been taping everyone. When someone saw the tape and asked if i like loved her i blushed. but then comes the complicated part, sexual arousal.. i dont know if i have a fetish with laether jackets but i like em and it gets me confused cause i like them but theres a man there altho other guys dont do anything for me except sometimes i like the idea of gelled hair but i dunno if its cause im jealous cause i want those things but are too afraid to get em or what... and then theres this whole other complicated part where i recently lost all my friends and then this one guy became my friend and now i really want him to be my best friend and im constantly asking him if things are okay between us and i dont konw if its cause i lost my friends and now i dont wanna lost him or if its cause i like him or something.. we almost became clsoe friends and we hugged once and i liked when we hugged, i liked having a close friend again... i just don't know if i'm gay or not and i dont want to be gay, have any desire to and scringe at the thought of gay stuff. and i hate the thought of me being gay cause i wanna grow up and have a wife and have kids.. so i dont know if its cause ive never had a girlfriend and prom is coming up and i dont have a date and i dont know if thats the reason why im freaking out so much now... i just need some perspective please.. and i know being gay isnt bad or anything i just dont want to be it.
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truth is your probly just tierd of getting hurt by boys and looking for that confert in gurls so what ever just realy makes you happy but only because i dont know you i wont judge you ok if you got questions or just need a freind to talk to you can email me at home1111@netzero.com because i know how it fills to be confused
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Doesn't sound like u'r gay but you might be alittle bi-curious(not gay just curious. This situation happens at least once to everyone. It natural. You'll get past it.
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okay...1st your totally normal
everyone has a time when they think they aren't straight
i really dont believe your gay.
just take one step at a time and try not to rush into anything in the spirr of the momment.
chill with friends to help you let loose and talk to someone you trust with this problem.
i'm sure its nothing.
your just experementing
i've done it before
people just dont like to admit it.
if you dont have a date to the prom, go with a best friend and have fun. a prom is about dancing, having fun, and DANCING!
e-mail me if you need more help @ flagtwirling@yahoo.com
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