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retarded b.f
ok i have one of those badass...asshole kind of b.fs.....but i dont care what ne1 says me n him are awesome together...but lke he has a serious problem about expressing his feelings....lke he doesnt do alot of cute things lke he says i love you and sumtimes a cute comment here or there but other than that he does/says nothing cute.....n he gets all defensive when i try n tell him how i feel..wth do i do?
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well alot of guys are like that. mine was too. he might just not want people to know hes nice cause he has an image to uphold at school. id say give it some time drop hints, make them obvious (boys are kinda slow) whatever you do DONT play mind games. it will confuse him desparetly hell get pissed and leave.
and make him listen. YOU have a say in the matter as well as he does. if he cant see that he needs to pay attention and listen and at least ACT like a boyfriend should, then he doesnt deserve you.
and i totally understand that you dont want to listen to people telling you to break up with him or that he isnt good ennough blah blah blah.
i had the EXACT same problem, but if he cant listen or doesnt care.
he doesnt deserve you. its plain as that.
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hmm. That stinks that he won't listen to you. Maybe you said it wrong. And he didn't get it. Just tell him that you like the romantic, cute things he does, and you wish he would do them more often. Tell him he can feel comfortable around you and he can ALWAYS tell you how he's feeling. good luck!
~BRiANA
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maybe he just isn't a touchy kind of guys and he express his feeling differently than you do, you should try to get him to sit and listen to how you feel.talk it out.
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