Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 7:21 am
Hi! OK. Its really simple, my boyfriend and I can text all day on the phone, but when we actually get on the phone, its hard to keep the conversation going. PLEASE HELP!! Give me some topics or something. I've never been at a lost for words but with him, I can never get my words right, PLEASE HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? runawayxlove answered Saturday February 17 2007, 3:59 pm: hey, well what do you guys talk about on text? try using some of those topics. you can also talk about what happened in school that day, no matter if you guys go to the same school or not, its nice to share thoughts about each others days. talk about a sport that both of you play (example:soccer) or just one that you guys both know quite a bit about. whatever you do, don`t talk about something that you have no idea about (example:baseball). if you talk about something that you have no idea about, you can`t get really into the conversation and actually understand what he is talking about. if it helps, try talking on AIM first. once you feel comfortable, call him. see if any of that helps. i wish you the best of luck :]. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
Lola answered Saturday February 17 2007, 9:43 am: Hey whats up,
Firstly, I think you should cut down on texting and talk about what you text on the phone. Thats a start. Then, I can't really tell you what to tell your boyfriend cause I don't know anything about you or him. But usually, you could tell him about your day or If something of particular interest happened, and try to know about him more, about his friends, family , life, and background. Then talk about yourself, and get him involved in your life. YOu could ask him about his future plans and talk about yours, or learn about his favorites from colours and fruits, and what type of music is he interested in.. etc.
Just talk about stuff in general, and honestly, if there is nothing to talk about ,then just don't call, because if you talk like everyday, ofcourse you would be at loss of words ,and then it would get too boring. So try not to call alot, and so that the day you call, you would find something to say. Take care. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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