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We broke up, but now I want him back.
Posted Thursday September 19 2013, 4:33 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend of two years a month ago. I was feeling distant, alone, and grown up when I started college. It felt great at first. I went on dates, dressed up, got guys' numbers, and had fun. This didn't last long. I began to miss my ex. I dream of him every night, miss his touch, crave his company. I miss him more and more everyday.
I find many things holding me back. For one, we fought a lot. It was mostly my fault, seeing as I struggle to control my emotions and often both physically and emotionally abused him. I know this isn't an excuse, but I grew up watching these behaviors in my household. I was constantly doubting of our future together. I couldn't seem to stay committed, either. But now that I realiz...
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Relationship woes!! Help me!
Posted Wednesday September 18 2013, 10:43 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. lately I've been feeling like he's holding me back.
I've always wanted to travel and do things with my life. I never wanted to be the settle down get married and have kids type. Right now I work 50 hours a week, I'm barely scraping by. I'm 21 and I haven't done anything with my life at all.
My boyfriend has just graduated college. He lives with me and doesn't have a job, and I'm supporting him, paying all the rent and bills and food and all that. So I can't afford to go out with friends and stuff. Which, for him is totally ok, becuase he's the type that likes to stay in and watch movies.
I just feel that if I stay with him, I'm stuck with this b...
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Always called a slut :(
Posted Wednesday September 18 2013, 1:31 am
So a bunch of the guys in my middle school (we're all in 8th grade) keep calliing me a slut for the clothes I wear. I've only even gone out with a guy in 6th grade, and I've never even held hands with any boy! But when I call them out on it and tell them to stop, they say I'm always acting b-tchy like this and I don't know how to handle a joke, and that O'm too ugly to be a whore anyway, or 'Thats why you don't have a boyfriend'. It just really pisses me off. additional info- 13, female: I have depression, and my three best friends are all in relationships (two are guys, they both call me a slut, too). and we went out one weekend all as friends (no boyfriends or girlfriends) and the other day I said, 'we should all do that again sometime!' ...
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happy together, fighting apart
Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 9:19 pm
My boyfriend, well ex-boyfriend, and I just broke up a few days ago after a little over a month of constant fighting and "one last chances". Whenever we see each other, we're happier than ever and it feels like we just started dating all over again (we've been together for over a year), but when we're apart and we dont see each other because of our busy schedules, we argue about stupid stuff that ultimately results in saying hurtful things that we dont mean, breaking up, and then realizing we love each other and getting back. What does this mean? Is it worth still trying or should we just give up? we're 19 and we love each other SO much, but the stupid fights are too much to handle sometimes...HELP!
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afraid to lose love to someone else.
Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 8:16 pm
Sometimes I wanna break up with my fiancé sooo bad, He does and says mean things sometimes. he goes on his drinking binge he is trying to recover and has relapsed. Sometimes I get this thought process in my head that I don't wanna break up with him because I am afraid that he will fall in love with someone else. I don't get it I guess... advice desperately needed please. My mind is running in circles
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i did just use the pil for a week an i did leaf it and had sex what do
Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 5:15 am
whil i get pregnunt i did use the pil for a week an not any more
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Did i do the right thing?
Posted Monday September 16 2013, 7:21 am
Me and this guy i became friends with starting talking for 3 months straight, non stop..he always showed me he liked me, or made it seem like we were together because of so many things he used to do. When i realized that he wasnt bringing anything up, i decided to. and i confronted him and told him that i want to know what we are exactly, he told me i was special to him and he likes me but that he doesnt want a relationship right now because he isnt ready to change. So i thanked him for his honesty and we went on talking. I realized that he was still treating me the same, constanly being cute, calling, texting and i thought it wasnt fair to me.. so i started being cold with him until he brought it up and asked "why are u being so forma...
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Does he like me?
Posted Monday September 16 2013, 1:32 am
I really liked this guy, so I figured I had nothing to lose by telling him the truth. Here's what happened:
"I like you, and think you're cute. What do you think of me?" I whispered.
"You're awesome," he said.
"Do you like me?" I asked.
"Yeah, I like you."
But then I was confused because my friend told me that he might've only meant he liked me as a friend. So I asked again did he like-like me and he said, "I don't know". And only a few minutes after, I caught him rolling his eyes at me. The next day, I ignored him and he kept staring at me always wanted to be near me. Plus, I heard one of his guy friends sa...
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Y CANT I GET A CUTE BOYFRIEND OR EVEN A popular one
Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 9:34 pm
I am 15 and if i am myself im considered wierd and i cant get a popular cute boyfriend and now that im homeschooled its even harder help
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Not sure what to do
Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 6:52 pm
So theres a girl that i met a few weeks ago and shes really cute, we've hung out a few times and she likes me. But recently i found out one of my REALLY good friends might be in a relationship soon and i got really jealous and i think is till have feelings for her because i liked her last year and i still think i have liked her all along but im not sure what to do because i dont want to ruin my friendship with her, and crush the other girl, but i really want to let her know how i feel about her. What in the crap do i do?? Im a freshman guy btw.
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How do i fix something with someone i really care about.
Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 6:31 pm
I have messed up badly, where i work i recently met a guy i have grown very fond of, we spoke everyday and saw each other occasionally and i cannot stop thinking of this person.
So here is the problem, i have been in a relationship for 6yrs and two beautiful babies, however we have been drifting for a while and in my eyes we are together for the children. I was on the verge of leaving my partner but after a serious row my partner went through my phone seen these messages and slapped me calling me a slag, a slut and sent this person i care for awful messages so that he would never and i quote "want to go near me again". This person made me feel special and wanted and made me smile and i haven't felt like that for a w...
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How Should I Approach Her?
Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 4:30 pm
I'm a 20 year old bisexual female and I work as a waitress. A girl just got hired recently and she is gorgeous! She seems really sweet and I can't stop thinking of her. However, I don't know if she's into girls and I'm not sure how to approach her. I don't go around talking about my sexuality but I definitely don't try to hide it either. It's harder than asking out a girl that I already know is bisexual or a lesbian. I'm afraid that if she's not into girls, it will make her uncomfortable. How do I let her know that I like her in that way?
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Unwanted attention
Posted Saturday September 14 2013, 7:14 pm
a guy in my class has a huge crush on me and he has told me that, i don't want to be mean but i also don't want to go out with him! help!!
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Relationship problems
Posted Saturday September 14 2013, 6:05 pm
19/f
Me and my boyfriend were having some problems, we broke up last month and have gotten back together and talked through all of the problems.
It was mostly about him not being able to care for me when I was going through a hard time and said he didn't want to try.
I'm very on edge about drugs and alcohol. Before we dated (We've been together for 2 years) he did smoke weed. But he had stopped and after that we eventually got together and he wasn't doing it. Not that I have a problem with other people doing it but I just personally don't want it around me and I don't date people who do. He is a great guy, with the exception of how he treated me this past couple months. He smoked again after we were dating, he t...
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Need hard truth
Posted Friday September 13 2013, 4:16 pm
I have been dating this guy for 3 years we have a son and we live in separate states. He's someone from high school that always liked me, I wasn't interested then but we saw each other 20 yrs later and here we are. We were both married and separated at the time we met although for financial reasons my husband was still in the same house in separate rooms. My question is that everytime this man gets mad he shuts down and stops talking to me completely his mood swings are so bad most times I don't know what sets him off the last time it was because he felt I wasn't helping him with his homework. He closed the computer and walked away and shut down
My other issue is he has a female friend I never met and the relationship is so sec...
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mother moved in, now he's upset.
Posted Friday September 13 2013, 12:01 pm
Recently my mother and little sister has moved in with me and my boyfriend due to finicial struggle. My boyfriend and I talked about and both agreed that it would be okay for my mother and my sister to move in, until they get back on their feet. They have only been here 3 days and its not going great. My boyfriend is constantly complainning about how they are too loud. I tell them to be quiet and they listen but if they talk above a whisper he starts banging the walls and grunting at them. I just don't know what to do. I will not have my sister and mother on the streets but I feel like my boyfriends anger is rising too much lately.
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Will I go to jail for having sex with my gf?
Posted Friday September 13 2013, 1:54 am
Firstly I'm male age 20, my gf is 17. We have been together for 2 years now, back in high school when I was 18 and she was 15. We live in California, and have never had sex.
She has wanted to make love for a while now, but I have always been worried about getting in trouble. I was reading the laws on statutory rape and they say that if Im more than 3 years older than her I could go to jail if someone found out. And it doesnt help that her adoptive parents (who are emotionally and physically abusive towards her) dont like me.
I am technically a little more than 3 years older than her, but currently since Im 20 it seems like just 3 years and no one cares.
So I guess I want to know if the police wo...
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Dreams
Posted Wednesday September 11 2013, 4:35 pm
I'm always having dreams that i'm checking my boyfriends phone & just snooping around. Why does this happen? Or what could it mean?
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A flirty crush??
Posted Wednesday September 11 2013, 1:48 am
ok so i became friends with this guy a few weeks ago before school started. I sort of admitted to myself Thursday/Friday that i liked him. I think he was flirting with me today, I'm not sure.
So i was on my way to 3rd period (music) when i felt someone shove my backpack not in a rude way but like a "I want your attention!" sort of way. i turned around and saw him, he smiled/waved and took a different route to the same class. and he poked me a few times.
But today at lunch i was walking with him to lunch and we sat down with out friends. I left for a little bit with a girl friend to talk and came back and he was gone. I asked his friend where he went and he said he thought my crush went to go find ...
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i like this guy but ugh
Posted Tuesday September 10 2013, 10:03 pm
So I met a guy and we've been talking a lot recently and he seems almost perfect to me with so many qualities that I haven't seen in other guys. the thing is, he just got out of a relationship and of course, now's not the time to push anything for him. And I'm not 100% sure I want to be in a relationship now either. But what scares me is that, he's asked me, jokingly to help him find himself a new girl and I've told him, let me know who and I'll make the arrangements (in a playful way). Of course I don't ever want him to tell me he likes someone. But I suspect that maybe he might. Or maybe I'm overthinking. He's 23 and I'm 21. (nothing wrong with age, there) But the girl I think he might like, she's 19 and really pretty and is a lot like me...
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