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How Should I Approach Her?
I'm a 20 year old bisexual female and I work as a waitress. A girl just got hired recently and she is gorgeous! She seems really sweet and I can't stop thinking of her. However, I don't know if she's into girls and I'm not sure how to approach her. I don't go around talking about my sexuality but I definitely don't try to hide it either. It's harder than asking out a girl that I already know is bisexual or a lesbian. I'm afraid that if she's not into girls, it will make her uncomfortable. How do I let her know that I like her in that way?
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Not ever being in this position I'm not sure just how to go about this.
Logic tells me, I rely on logic quite a bit, that you might want to try being friends with her first. Get to know her, not try to get sexual with her until you know her better.
I would think as you get to know each other better you could start to drop subtle hints about you own sexuality. Something like the two of you are out and you see a good looking girl, you might say something to the effect of how good looking that girl is. You do that and maybe some other subtle things, often enough, she might ask you if you are a lesbian or bisexual. Then the door is open to for you to answer her see what she says in response.
That's the best I can think of right now. Hope it helps.
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