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Y CANT I GET A CUTE BOYFRIEND OR EVEN A popular one
I am 15 and if i am myself im considered wierd and i cant get a popular cute boyfriend and now that im homeschooled its even harder help
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What's your point for wanting a cute and/or popular boyfriend? First of all, you're only 15. You don't need to be trying to get into a relationship. Also, you don't need to be LOOKING. If and when you meet someone who likes you for you and you like him for him, then maybe that's when you think for yourself and ask yourself if you want to be with that person.
Don't set your standards high. The whole cute and popular thing is very SHALLOW and unrealistic. You're much to young to understand that though, obviously.
And so what if people think you are weird? You are who you are. Be whoever you want to be. Noone should ever try to change you. If people are critizing you and judging your character, screw them.
At your age, when kids do decide that they think they're grown enough to be in a relationship, they never last. Most relationships don't last no matter what the age though. Relationships come and go. Don't waste your time, concentrate on better things like your school work. You've got a whole life ahead of you, making something great of it. When you think you're ready, matured more and know what you really want in a guy, then the rest is up to you.
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You're standards are messed up. Why does someone have to be "cute" or "popular"? I hate to kill your high horse here but none of this matters. If you like someone, It should be for who they are. Who gives a flying shit if someone isn't popular, Dating and being with someone about popularity. Unfortunately, If this is the way you think then maybe you aren't ready to be dating? Do you feel the need to date someone popular because you are afraid of what others will think of you? If so, Then again maybe you order wait until you realize what liking someone really means. To want a "popular and cute" boyfriend is a bit shallow and unrealistic. You need to adjust yourself and learn to find someone who excepts you for who you are and has things in common with you. Who cares what others think anyone, When it comes to dating it isn't about other people, It's about you and your spouse.
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"Cute" and "Popular" isn't what you should be looking for. Looks are seriously just a bonus with a guy and when you like one, you're obviously attracted to them. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
At 15, you're pretty much just supposed to be finding out what you like in guys and what you don't. If what you're looking for in a guy is cute and popular, you might end up with one who will treat you like crap.
Everybody is weird in their own way. The right guy for you will like you exactly the way you are.
My advice to you is to continue being yourself, be nice, friendly and make sure you feel pretty. You don't need to pile on make up or wear clothes that aren't comfortable to you, just saying.
Since you're homeschooled, it is harder to meet guys. But just do things you love doing. Join clubs or other activities and you might meet someone through there. Don't go looking for a guy though, or else you probably won't find one..at least not a very good one. Take your time, you are so young and have so much time to find someone.
Remember to look for more than just cute and popular in a guy.
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Love comes unexpected it all has to do with waiting and being yourself you don't want to end up falling In love with someone that thought you were someone you weren't.
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Im 16. And who cares if your considered weird? Be yourself, those people don't matter. And having a cute, popular boyfriend doesnt matter either. Just be yourself, talk to different guys and just take your time. And btw dont be desperate, thats not cute at all. Just calm down and maybe youll fall for a boy you never expected to fall for. He doesnt have to be cute and popular. And tbh reading this was really shocking. I'm basically your age and I cant understand why youre so desperate for a bf. But yeah well anyway good luck
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