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yes you r absolutely right. he don't want to understand me and my feelings. yes i was in an abusive relationship.my past bf was an animal. he hurt me physically and mentally. so i break the relation.i told my present bf all this matter but he can't understand. he always find the fault in me. i know nobody is perfect, but i don't hurt him intentionally. i m very disappointed with him .I thought that i ll be able to make him happy ,but he don't give me the single chance to prove my love. i think he don't love me. he want a virgin girl which m not . so thats why he treats me like this. by the way,you r very nice.where r you from?? and what do you do?? (link)
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Right he did not even give an effort to understand. What I don't understand is, what did YOU do wrong. You were the one that got abused. Is there more to the story?...
But I'm very sorry to hear that; I don't wish harm on anyone. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into it but difference is that we completely stopped it. It was smart of you to break the relationship off with your ex. I just wish that you would have broken it off with him sooner, noone deserves to be abused because noone can have that power over another human being.
You are right, noone is perfect. The thing is, people should learn from their mistakes and apply what they know. People have to learn how to become a better person, instead of committing the same mistakes over and over again, specially not intentionally.
It's unfair that he won't give you a chance to at least help make things better. But it shouldn't be just you trying to make things better, it's supposed to be an effort from both sides.
Like I said though, you do not need THIS guy, and by the looks of it, you wouldn't truly be happy with him in all of your relationship.
And he says he WANTS a virgin, but you're not a virgin. So if that's what he WANTS and he's not treating you right because of it, then he's definately not the one for you. He needs to get his priorities straight. If he really did love you, he could look past it that you aren't a virgin anymore. From my point of view, I do not believe that he LOVES you. But if you leave him, things will work out better for you in the future.
And Thank You. I am a caring person, with not much experience, but I've seen things and experienced some things so I found this site to try and give others help.
I finished High School a couple months ago, and next year I will be attending college; and I was born in the u.s.a. (new york).
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I don't understand that why he demands such type of things! he is 34yrs old and a businessman and i m 21yrs old . he behave like a child . he don't understand my condition and my problem .his only question is why i lied to him.I told him that i was ashamed and afraid that he leave me alone. now i clear everything about my past,and cried before him.but he has no care for me. but he all the time teasing me. i don't used him i really love him. i never want a single chocolate from him!he also has a past. i never make it a big issue. he is talking about his past everyday but i never mind with it. i know i hurt him ,but i say sorry to him more than 100times.and tell him that i ll try my best to make him happy. but he says if i leave my study ri8 now,and marry him and be a good house wife,and i have to prove that i love him becoz he don't trust me,then he again trust me . he tell me that he ll not give any effort into our relationship.this is only my responsibility to make this relationship happy. (link)
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Whoa! This guy is taking things a little too far.
This guy is mistreating you. He is not treating you right and you don't deserve everything that he's dishing out, you don't deserve this at all. He is not understanding or trying to understand you, and he's being careless of your feelings at all. You should not accept that! NOONE should accept this type of behavior towards them.
He is being absurd and irrational by demanding you to do these things because he feels like you OWE him that. He is wrong for that and you need to understand that if any guy truly loved you, they would accept the mistakes that you committed in the past and accept you for who you are. If someone truly loved you they would want to see you happy and help you get through your problems, not create them. If someone truly loved you they would want to see you prosper and succeed in life. If someone truly loved you they would not try to hurt you intentionally.
He is being extremely immature and careless for teasing you. First off, he is way too old for that. Secondly, if he's teasing you, you should see right then and there what kind of guy he is. Not a good one. That's absurd! You do not deserve to be treated this way. Do not allow it to continue.
Also, why is he able to talk about your past but you're not? I'll answer this for you...
That is not FAIR. This only shows that he is self-centered and doesn't consider your feelings at all. You are being a push over when you allow him to do that and it doesn't seem like he cares if you're okay with it or not.
He doesn't sound like he's too hurt about him finding out about your past but it sounds like he is more upset that you kept something from him. His reaction and behavior to this whole deal is too much and frankly it is sickening.
You shouldn't live your life apologizing to someone. You didn't do something terrible by telling him about your past! It's something that you could have mentioned in the beginning, but you still told him. It's not like you said that you cheated on a guy. (Did you?)
I believe that you said that the confession you told to your current boyfriend is that you were in an abusive relationship. If you weren't beating up your ex or hurting him physically or abusing him mentally, then there's nothing that you should be sorry about.
Even if you did do something bad in your past, That's in the PAST.
Listen, hear me out and take these words and really apply them to you. You deserve better than this guy. You deserve better than how he is treating you. You don't need this guy in your life. A guy who knows how to respect you, who cares for you, who wants to see you genuinely happy, who treats you right, who helps you, who truly loves you is the type of guy you need.
Dump this guy. You can find something better.
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I am in the 12th grade, worrying about the future of course. I've been looking into this and trying to see what I want. Recently the idea of taking a year off was brought to my attention. Everyone I have asked has thought it is a terrific idea and they had wished they'd done it. I'm afraid that after my four years my life will be in a place where I wouldn't want to leave where I am because I would be beginning working. I would love to, more than anything, go backpacking through Europe and maybe even take a literature class in Athens. My father on the other hand feels it is a horrible idea and we don't have the money (even though I plan on getting jobs where I can and figuring that out on my own. I also have a job now) I guess what I need is not so much an answer but an opinion from someone more experienced is incredibly needed. (link)
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I am actually in the same situation as you.
I graduated from high school a couple months ago. I always thought I would go to college right after I graduated, except a couple of months before I was about to graduate, a personal friend of mine brought to my attention that if I wasn't sure what I wanted to do, I could take a year off.
At first this option was thrown out the window because I didn't have intentions of discontinuing school, but as a couple months went by I actually did start to take that option into consideration.
I was suggested to go to school by my parents and family, but I tried to stall my way out of it. It was difficult for me to try to avoid it because my family was on my case and think it's a bad idea, but I did.
I said I wanted to take a year off and think about what I really want to do for my future. I said that I would go back to school in about a year, but many people other than any of my family members have told me that they did the same thing but they decided that they didn't want to go back at all and years later they regreted taking time off of school. They said that it is very essential to continue to go to school without taking "Time-off" because that way the structure of school and education is still fresh in your head and it's easier to get into the flow of things.
I believed them when they said it but at the end of they day I still chose to take time off. I have pressure put on me though to go back next semester although I said I would take a year off.
I plan/planned to get a full-time job and save cash while I'm not going to school. I just want to have some fun right now and do what I want to do, which is not going to school right now. Honestly I haven't been trying too hard to get a job ever since I graduated from high school. I'm just soaking in my freedom, the freedom of not having to go to go to school and wake up so early. But I now will be starting work in about less than a week because I am money motivated right now. I just want to work and enjoy the cash that I'll be working for. In the mean time, I should also think about what I want to do when I go back to school, which I plan on. I'm still very undescisive so I'm just not thinking about it too much right now.
I say do what you want to do for yourself. Don't let anyone pressure into doing anything that you are indesicive about or aren't sure if you're ready to do. If you want to take some time off, then do so. But just keep in mind, you have to make up your mind sooner than later and motivate yourself because if you do decide to take some time off of school, there is a possibility that you may end up not wanting to go back.
I think to myself what may be of me or what may happen from today, to next year.
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I met this girl about a month ago and we've been friends ever since. In the beginning of the week (It's now Friday), she started ignoring me so I didn't talk to her because I didn't want to start anything. Well, on Wednesday I texted her and she didn't reply so I didn't bother her anymore.
However, it's getting worse. She keeps making all my friends hate me too, and trying to steal my boyfriend... I tried talking to her today but she yelled at me. I don't think we'll have a strong friendship like we did, but I just don't want her to hate me anymore. What should I do? I don't know if she blocked my number or not, so... (link)
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You should try talking to her once more.
Be straight-forward and serious and ask her what the problem is and why has she been that way to you lately.
Once you find out, you decide for yourself what step you take from there.
There may be lots of reasons why she has been the person that she's become lately. Maybe she is two faced and not a genuine friend. In that case, you need to cut her off and leave that person alone because you do not need a person like that in your life.
Maybe you did something to her. Like, talk badly about her behind her back, etc. If you haven't done nothing wrong to her, then she's just being immature and absurd.
And another thing, if your friends are turning against you, you need to speak to them as well and address those things and ask why are they being influenced to act this way towards you on their behalf.
But firstly, approach this girl and tell/ask her why is it that she has become distant and rude. Don't be a subject to being mistreated and putting yourself in a situation where someone is going to be unfair and disgraceful to you.
Best regards!
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I love my boyfriend vry much,and wants to marry him. we r dating each othr for 2yrs. but i lied to him about my past that i don't had any relationshp in past. actually i had a relatn when i jst 13/14 years old. my x bf was very rude and tortured me a lot mentally and physically ..and aslo sexually. so i ended the relation.after few yrs i met in online with my present boyfriend.and started love him. when he proposed me i said yes to him. but i can't tell him about my past and i also tell him that i am a virgin.i was afraid to lose him bcz he is very orthodox.so i can't tell about my dark past.now he knows everything from a person.and asked me and i told him everything about my life. now he can't trust me,he call me a sl*t,, and he said that
i deceived him and used him.he now wants to break the relationship or IF I WANTED TO BE WITH HIM THEN I HAVE TO DO WHATEVER HE WILL SAY. AND ALSO LEAVE MY STUDY AND MARRY HIM AND BE A GOOD HOUSE WIFE.AND he tell me that this my exam. if i passed then he love me again .but i can't leave my study at this time. so he don't talk with me .I really love him a lot.i can't live without him.what can i do??? plz suggest me .. (link)
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Your boyfriend is being harsh, unreasonable, demanding, and controlling.
He is not someone that you should continue to be with. You are probably better off without him.
I understand that he feels like he can't trust you right now because he is probably shocked to hear that news since you kept it to yourself, and it was something that he wasn't aware of before getting into a relationship with you, but the name-calling is still disrespectful. I don't know every detail about your relationship but from what you wrote, I don't understand what would make your boyfriend think that your using him.
If he loved you, he wouldn't stop loving you just because he wants you to stop your studies and be a house wife. His expectations are unrealistic, demanding and controlling. It sounds like he is now manipulating you.
YOU ARE NOT WRONG for telling him about your past. It can be essential or important for you to tell this information to someone that you are in a relationship, but that's something that you want to say in the beginning. You shouldn't feel like you were wrong for telling him. I'm saying this incase you feel regret for telling him about it. Your boyfriend particularly had a problem with it, and the way that he's treating you now and talking to you shows you what kind of a guy he is and can be.
It is unnacceptable for someone to tell another person that they have to do anything and everything that they say. That is very manipulating and in a way, it can be abusive. You never know what this guy is capable of doing or tell you to do. It sounds like you would be treated like a slave by him.
Your relationship would never be fair with him.
Do what makes YOU happy and continue to do them if it's a POSITIVE thing. You should continue your studies. Don't let anyone discourage you or tell you that you should stop doing what your doing.
He is telling you that if you want to be with him you have to do whatever he say. He says that you'll have to leave/quit your studies, marry him and you'll have to be a good house wife. What in the world? A GOOD person/significant other would not talk to you as if you were a puppet or robot.
You don't owe him your life. I suggest you stop seeing this guy and move on. Believe me, there's millions of people out here in this world, you have to find someone that you are genuinely happy with. Someone who is in a 50/50 relationship meaning everything is fair and there's a compromise and you make each other happy to the best of your abilities.
Best Wishes & Regards!
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I need to know what jobs can i apply for if im 14??? (link)
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To get a job at 14 is tough. There is a little to NO chance for a fourteen year old to be placed in the work field. It depends what state you live in, but in most states the minimum age is 16, or maybe even 15.
You may not be able to find a job anywhere at the moment because of your age. But if you're lucky you may be able to search for a mini job, like, cutting the grass for someone type of a job. You wouldn't be working for the government in a case like this. You'd be getting paid by someone just to do something for them. Babysitting is an example. Unfortunately your much too young to actually baby sit someones kid(s).
Look for something simpler.
Good luck on your search!
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My boyfriend recently changed his profile picture and it's him and his ex in his arms.. Should I be worried? I had my best friend ask him (I know I shouldn't have done that, but I was freaking out) and he said that it's his ex and she's dating his friend. She got really jealous a few days ago when she saw us together (This was when I didn't know who she was, but then when I saw her in the picture that's why I freaked out). I don't really want to talk or ask him about it because I don't want him to think I'm jealous and stuff... He hasn't changed his attitude around me and he still tells me he loves me, but should I be worried? (link)
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This whole scenario doesn't look right. Something isn't right about that.
You should be concerned that your boyfriend has displayed a profile picture of him and his ex up. Not only is it a picture of him and his ex, but it's a picture of him and his in his arms. That's definately not the right symbol for an 'ex' to be displayed or kept if he's in a relationship with someone else.
He told you who she is, but he certainly didn't tell you what was the reason for him putting up a picture of him and his ex. There is no reason for him to do that unless he's back with her, or he has feelings for her and wants to get back with her. Unfortunately, he may lie to you and he is probably keeping something(s) from you.
You should address this to him and demand the truth. He may or may not give it to you, but don't be no fool. Any person who puts themselves in this situation does not have good intentions and is not a person that you need to be with.
This MAY sound like it's not an important matter, but it is. It's the "little" details like this that matter the most.
He may be lying to you. Investigate more, but as you can see, this should have never happened. You now know that something just isn't right just by the looks of it, so don't be fooled so easily.
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Basically it's always just been my mum & I at home.
But for ten years she's been married to my stepdad. He's the only guy of hers I've ever liked. He was like a dad to me.
I'm 17, and going to university next year.
My mum & stepdad split up two months ago. I won't go into details, but it was messy, and I was there for all of it. It was horrible.
When they were together, my mum never really 'went out'. She met her best friend for coffee every now and then.
But since they broke out she goes out every weekend and a lot of weeknights. She goes to the pub or god knows where else (she often doesn't tell me) and doesn't come home until 4am sometimes, when I'm sat up waiting for her, upset.
If I ever confront her about going out so much all I get is 'grow up, you're 17!'. And other comments. She thinks I'm totally unreasonable. What she doesn't understand is that I'm not used to being sat at home waiting for her. Before, my mum was always around for me. Everything has changed very quickly. Not only that, but she has been meeting men and Lying to me about where she's going. It's hard for me because I loved my stepdad for 10 years.
She doesn't ever want to do anything with me, even when I offer. She'll lie and say she can't afford to go anywhere with me but then she will go out to the pub. There have been times when I've cried and begged her to stay with me and she just thinks I'm being silly. But I am an only child with no other family and she's all I have.
I understand that I'm 17 and maybe need to be more independent. But this has all happened very fast for me. And I still need a mum. (link)
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Hey, honestly it doesn't matter if you're 17 or 18. You absolutely care about your mom and it's not silly nor childish to show off that side that you've been showing your mom just because you are at the age of 17.
The way you're mom is acting is probably a reaction to the divorce that she has gone through. You have to understand that not all adults are always right, and not all adults handle the situation the right way or the way that they're supposed to. You're mom has pushed you off to the side, and as you can see, she has done this right after her divorce from a marriage of 10 years.
Your mom is saying that you're being unreasonable, but it's actually her that is being unreasonable. This is a bit of a tough situation because we got a young adult (you) who wants their mother around and wants things to be the way that they use to be, but on the other hand there is a mother who is going through probably one of the toughest things she's ever gone through.
Keep talking to your mom about how you really feel as much as you can. Try breaking through to her. Everything that's going on isn't your fault and I'm sure that you know that.
I bet this is very overwhelming for you and upsetting but keep your head up. These situations can be a little bit tricky but you have to handle it as best as you can. Meaning, don't ever yell at your mother, don't be rude nor disrespectful, don't insult your mother, or anything of that nature. You have to understand that your mother is going through something as well as you are. Things don't always work out like you want them or as fast you want them to, but I think your mother is doing things for herself right now and eventually she's going to learn (hopefully not the hard way) that what she's doing is hurting you and her.
I hope everything works out for you and your mother. Best regards.
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I am 15 and if i am myself im considered wierd and i cant get a popular cute boyfriend and now that im homeschooled its even harder help (link)
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What's your point for wanting a cute and/or popular boyfriend? First of all, you're only 15. You don't need to be trying to get into a relationship. Also, you don't need to be LOOKING. If and when you meet someone who likes you for you and you like him for him, then maybe that's when you think for yourself and ask yourself if you want to be with that person.
Don't set your standards high. The whole cute and popular thing is very SHALLOW and unrealistic. You're much to young to understand that though, obviously.
And so what if people think you are weird? You are who you are. Be whoever you want to be. Noone should ever try to change you. If people are critizing you and judging your character, screw them.
At your age, when kids do decide that they think they're grown enough to be in a relationship, they never last. Most relationships don't last no matter what the age though. Relationships come and go. Don't waste your time, concentrate on better things like your school work. You've got a whole life ahead of you, making something great of it. When you think you're ready, matured more and know what you really want in a guy, then the rest is up to you.
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My boyfriend hangs out with his friends everyday and he doesn't care if his friends go on his phone.. Well his friends always text me and it's annoying. I don't even know if I'm texting him most of the time. Should I talk to him about it? (link)
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For this guy to let his friends to go through his phone is definately careless and immature of both him and his friends. He should be cautious about who goes through his phone because in a situation like yours, it's innapropriate and annoying for his friends to be going through his messages and texting you pretending to be him.
You definately need to address this issue to him. He should have been aware of this already and taking actions by not letting it happen from the beginning. Tell him that it needs to stop plain and simple.
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Me and my neighbor started talking again like 3 weeks ago but we only talked like 3 times and then i went to his youth group and he totally ignored me. Should i message him on Facebook or should i just keep ignoring him like he is ignoring me? I was told to just send him "." and say it was on accident. Should i do that? o.O Also i like him and ive known him for about 8 years and we used to be best friends! (link)
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There may be one or many reasons to why he has ignored you, you just don't know why.
Sending a "." can be a pretty obvious way of telling him that you acctually did mean to send him that message because it's just random and uncalled for.
Be straight-forward about the situation. Since you want to know why he has been ignoring you, simply ask.
You never know what is the responce that you're going to get. He might not tell you the truth, he might keep ignoring you (who knows for how long), or he might just have the courage to tell you why.
From the sound of it, you guys are pretty young. Sometimes the most simple situations get turned into complications because one or more people aren't mature enough to communicate with eachother.
Try talking to him and telling him how you feel about him and about the whole situation. If you notice that he continues to awkward just know that you guys are still young. He might be shy, he might not like you like you like him, or who knows.
Ask and you might find out exactly what you're trying to know.
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im a 13/f that have a friend that thinking about killing himself. He seem like the most happy person. But i just found out that he have problems. We been friends for a long time. But he also liked me too. But i dont like him like that. So he said he had death in his family and also had a really bad relationship. So i dont know how to talk to him. So help me. (link)
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I'm sorry hear that about your friend. You should talk to someone that you have confidense in and that you feel that will try to help and get involved with the situation. You should talk to his parents, any of his family members, someone who works at your school like a teacher or councelor, or your parents. Talk to an adult.
Don't tell or alert or other kids about it. They may not be the kindest or the seriousness of the situation.
Tell your friend that eventually one day, he will get through his rough times. Tell them that they are not alone and believe it or not there are tons of other people in the world that may feel just like he has. Life isn't easy for anyone so tell them never to ask why things happen to them, just tell them to fight through it but to let it bring them down like that. Tell them that the ones that stick it out and go through it, make it and one day things will be better.
Suicide is a sin, and that is the only thing that God does not forgive. Taking your own life away is not nor ever will be the answer.
If you are a true friend to this person you will try and be there for him or her as much as you can and to give them words of wisdom. Encourage them to stay positive, but never bring them down.
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So a bunch of the guys in my middle school (we're all in 8th grade) keep calliing me a slut for the clothes I wear. I've only even gone out with a guy in 6th grade, and I've never even held hands with any boy! But when I call them out on it and tell them to stop, they say I'm always acting b-tchy like this and I don't know how to handle a joke, and that O'm too ugly to be a whore anyway, or 'Thats why you don't have a boyfriend'. It just really pisses me off. additional info- 13, female: I have depression, and my three best friends are all in relationships (two are guys, they both call me a slut, too). and we went out one weekend all as friends (no boyfriends or girlfriends) and the other day I said, 'we should all do that again sometime!' And they laughed at me and said, 'yeah right! we don't want to hang out with you! we're replacing you with -one of the guy's girlfriends'. It just makes me very sad, and I want to kill myself a lot because of this. :( how do I tell them to stop? (link)
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Hey, first of all, friends do not treat or speak to or about another friend like that. A friend would not allow others to speak in such a way of you, nor do the trash talking themselves. Friends do not bring each other down nor belittle others, so these people are not real 'friends'.
Second of all, you obviously don't have 'slut' qualities. You sound like a conservative person to me.
Around your age, there's a lot of immaturity. The people that you have been hanging with are not an ideal group of people that anyone would want to call friends. They lack courtesy, and they don't treat you with any respect.
You should definately isolate yourself away from this group of people. You don't need to give them any explanation..
You can get to know other people and hopefully they will be kind, friendly and caring. Know who you're friends with.
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My friends and I are going to St louis for the weekend. One of our friends invited himself to go. We're goin to the cardnial game and he doesnt have a ticket, but yet he still coming?? Our friend can't take a hint..... Background he has red hair and his name is Keith and wears everyone out! PLEASE HELP (link)
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If you nor your friends want this guy around, then don't just drop hints. Tell him. Someone has to be the one to speak, so it can be you or one of your other friends. Someone has to step up and speak, not hint.
If you choose to step up and speak, be mature and don't be mean or malicious about the situation.
Don't be rude or mean, that's not ok. But you should simply say that you and your friends don't really bond or get along with him. Pull him to the side, don't tell him I'm front of the group or anyone else. It will most likely hurt him and embarrass him saying that you don't want him tagging along with you guys, so don't say it in a mean way. There is no need for attitude to come with it.
He wants to be around you and your friends, but you guys don't want to be around him. Is it so bad that you have to dismiss him from your presence? Maybe so.
Just tell him how you feel
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I have a friend and she's been like my best friend since kindergarten, I think (let call her T)! But this year we had like maybe a couple of little bickerings, I guess you can call it. And this summer our friend came back from Texas ( let's call her C). That just made T a little uneasy because when we were little T got jealous of me and C's friendship!
Finally I got T and C to get together and we had a sleepover for C's birthday. It was fun but T got offended when me and C laughed when T told us she was going to start a photography business (we are only 12 that's why I laughed).
A couple days later we talked about it and i tried to say sorry and explain why I laughed but my phone died and we didnt talk for about 3 days because we were busy. Finally we talked and we didn't pick up were we left off she acted like everything was fine! But after that it felt weird. Are text would always go like:
Me: hey
Her: hi.
Me: wats up
Her nm.
Me: oh Kwl LOL
Her: LOL.
It's just weird because after everything she would put "." and we don't normally do that when we text unless we are mad cause that's wat I do when I get mad and I text. I don't kno what to do because I just want me friend back :( (link)
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T probably believed that not only were you and C disrespectful by laughing at her hopes but she felt offended as well. T shouldn't feel jealous of the friendship between you and C though which probably has been feeling a little bit of.
She probably is putting up an act, as if she forgot about the whole situation, but it's probably bothering her still and she's acting like that towards you. It's not right for her to act this way, but maybe it will help if you give her the full apology that you didn't get to give her that day.
You guys are very young, yes. But it's never too early to have dreams or hopes.
You should explain to her why you laughed. Tell her that you laughed because at yor age, you wouldn't expect another kid to dream of having a business. Tell her that she can make that happen and that you'll support her.
She's probably feeling offended and/or disrespected, so tell her that you weren't making fun of her and that you didn't know how serious she was about it, and then apologize.
If she still decides to act funny.. Well just know that you did the mature thing by apologizing and explaining the situation to her.
Hopefully she will come around, but after you have apologized than you should feel good for trying to make things better between you and her.
Best wishes!
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How much is a plane to ticket from where I live in Georgia to Texas ? (link)
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Prices depend on the date your trying to leave. Like, if you are wanting to buy a ticket for cheaper, then you would have to buy a ticket to catch a plane in about two weeks or longer. The prices are more expensive when for example, let's say you were to buy a ticket today to catch a plane today. Its higher if you buy a ticket for a plane you'd try to catch within about a week or so. And you would probably be buying a one way trip ticket so it shouldn't be too expensive. I'm not sure, but I Think it also depends what airline/airport you use... not sure on that one. You can go on line and choose, then put in the date that you are trying to leave and it will tell you how much the cost would be. Remember that if you were to buy a plane ticket anytime soon, but a ticket that's about two weeks or longer from the day that you purchase the ticket so that will be cheaper. But if you're trying to leave as soon as possible then the cost will be higher.
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My life is completely over. I feel I don't want to live anymore ((IN TEARS)) I'm ready to leave this world an be with my grandfather where there's no worries no pain and no problems..I always asked my mom why did she have me I should of never been born. I find myself going through deep depressions to the point I started to take all the pills I have, swallowing bleach, and eating rat poison, I don't want to live anymore my mind is set. My depressions are beginning to worsen I often cry myself to sleep and hope that I don't wake (link)
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I'm very sorry to hear this BUT you should never want to commit suicide no matter how bad the situation(s) may seem or is.
Look, suicide is NOT the answer, EVER. Suicide is actually a Sin. Suicide is frowned upon by God, so there's o telling where you'd go (heaven or hell).
Don't hurt yourself. D: Talk to people about it, talk to your mom about how you feel and that your on edge right ow and need some kind of comfort or help.
You may not deserve anything that you are going.through, but in fact you are not alone. There are hundreds of other people that feel the same way you do.
Stick it out and don't let yourself talk like that. One dou ill conquer all that you're going through.
Take CARE & be safe.
You are not alone. God is watching over you whether you believe so or not. Don't take your life away. Your life Has meaning.
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well let's see here it goes i am 21 years old female my sister is 30 years old and she moved in on Thursday mom made a special trip to Florida to get her after she beat up my mom and beat me up and she only wants to live with us when she has know where else to and when she doesn't have a girl friend that she can move in with yes I said girlfriend she is gay . she has a 10 year old son and a 12 year old daughter that my mom have custody of because she had her kids walking in a drug infested neighborhood at night with no shoes no jacket and we were not allowed to see them . she has showed her 12 year old daughter sex toys in the past while she has stayed with us. I think that she is on drugs she doesn't care about anybody but herself . my other sister who lives in Texas can't stand her either. I am scared of because she hits me cusses me and i have told mom before that i am scared of her and I don't have the money to get my own place so I can't move out . her girlfriends always come first before her sister her mom and her kids . she gave me a bloody nose one day and hurt me so bad I had to go to the emergency room that was about 2 years ago when that happened and she is already bossing me around she hasn't changed at all . what should I do . (link)
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First off, I'm very sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how tough that Is for you and the rest of your family.
This is a sort of delicate & touch situation, and it must be tough on your mom since she is the mother of your sister as well and like any other parent, the love for your children is endless. Your mom was willing to take her back in.
As for you, you should frankly voice your feelings to your mom and to your sister who lives in Texas. Ask her if you can move in with her until you can get on your two feet and build a life of your own so that you can move in into your own place.
If for some reason your sister isn't down with that idea, then tell your mother that if your sister lays one finger on you, that you have all the right to call the cops on her. If your sister is dis respecting your mother, the kids, you or the house then tell your mother that although that is her daughter, she NEEDS to do something about her daughters behavior.Someone needs to give your sister some sort of reality check for starters and show her that she cannot just do what she pleases.
You are a grown woman so don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If there is the need to call the cops then do so.
I'm sorry that I don't know how else to effectively go about your situation since it can be very hard to deal with other people, specially ones who act up in such a wild and malicious behavior.
Also, try looking for a room ate or two and if you have a job then you can move into you guys' own place.
Best wishes. Take care
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So I have been talking to this guy for a year off and on. At first when we started talking all we did was make out but as the relationship went on we did more. He ended up giving me head. Recently we were at a park, but we just stayed in his car. We started making out then he started to finger me. My pants ended up off and he ended up giving me head. We hung out a few more times after that but then the last time we hung out he didn't wanna hook up because all we do is kiss. I tried to give him a hand job and all he said was don't unbutton my pants unless you're giving me head. I decided to stop talking to him after that because I realized that maybe this wasn't a real relationship and he was just using me. But we would talk on the phone all of the time and text. But Was he just using me? And is what I did slutty? (link)
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This guy was Definately not looking for a relationship. It may not have been obvious to you because you probably liked this guy, but it's pretty obvious when a guy is using a female or not.
What you did wasn't 'slutty', but you should have realized that there didn't seem to be much more to this 'relationship' than just sexual things.
This guy seemed to just be looking for sexual pleasure, sadly.
-Be safe, and take care!
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21 year old female.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Lately I have noticed that I have put on some weight. I am 5 feet tall and currently weight 136 pounds. I wouldn't say that I am exactly fat but I am not used to being this weight. Either way, I am torn about whether or not I want to lose weight. On one hand, I have preferred in the past to be fit and thin, but recently I have been questioning whether it really is that important to be skinny, and I have been trying to accept myself as I am.
My boyfriend is very sweet and supportive. I have been asking him lately if he thinks I need to lose weight and he would say "no I love you exactly as you are" but I asked him again the other day and he told me that he does wish I would lose some weight and that he is less attracted to me since I have put it on, but he didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to be a jerk. I don't feel like it's fair for me to be mad at him since I asked, but I am hurt that he feels this way.
Do you think it's okay for your romantic partner to say this? Other thoughts/comments? Thanks
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Your partner was very frank. He answered truthfully so the good thing is that there are no secrets between how he feels. And of course you would feel hurt by hearing that just like anyone else would be.
But, if he doesn't accept you for who YOU are at the end of the day, then maybe he doesn't deserve you.
Just about everyone is attracted to the person who they chose to be with and a lot of people actually do want to be with a person who has both looks and personality, but if he stops liking you for it and doesn't want to be with you because of it, then that tells you a lot. It shows that looks is very important to that person, but for all the people who have good sence out there, we know that personality and being a good person should overcome that.
I dont know if you guys are in love with each other or so, but either way, he should look past your looks/weight if you are indeed a nice girlfriend and a good person to him.
Let's be honest though, some of us are hypocrites. If it was the other way around would you feel less interested in him if he were to gain weight and look less attractive? Maybe, maybe not. We shouldn't let looks get in the way.
Most importantly, if you are COMFORTABLE in your own skin, be who you are!
Another Very important is your HEALTH. Being healthy is way more important than being skinny. Not all skinny girls are healthy; that is a fact.
If you're comfortable being you then be yourself. But do what you feel is right for you. If you want to lose weight, that's good too. Staying fit is nice.
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