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yes you r absolutely right. he don't want to understand me and my feelings. yes i was in an abusive relationship.my past bf was an animal. he hurt me physically and mentally. so i break the relation.i told my present bf all this matter but he can't understand. he always find the fault in me. i know nobody is perfect, but i don't hurt him intentionally. i m very disappointed with him .I thought that i ll be able to make him happy ,but he don't give me the single chance to prove my love. i think he don't love me. he want a virgin girl which m not . so thats why he treats me like this. by the way,you r very nice.where r you from?? and what do you do??
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Right he did not even give an effort to understand. What I don't understand is, what did YOU do wrong. You were the one that got abused. Is there more to the story?...
But I'm very sorry to hear that; I don't wish harm on anyone. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into it but difference is that we completely stopped it. It was smart of you to break the relationship off with your ex. I just wish that you would have broken it off with him sooner, noone deserves to be abused because noone can have that power over another human being.
You are right, noone is perfect. The thing is, people should learn from their mistakes and apply what they know. People have to learn how to become a better person, instead of committing the same mistakes over and over again, specially not intentionally.
It's unfair that he won't give you a chance to at least help make things better. But it shouldn't be just you trying to make things better, it's supposed to be an effort from both sides.
Like I said though, you do not need THIS guy, and by the looks of it, you wouldn't truly be happy with him in all of your relationship.
And he says he WANTS a virgin, but you're not a virgin. So if that's what he WANTS and he's not treating you right because of it, then he's definately not the one for you. He needs to get his priorities straight. If he really did love you, he could look past it that you aren't a virgin anymore. From my point of view, I do not believe that he LOVES you. But if you leave him, things will work out better for you in the future.
And Thank You. I am a caring person, with not much experience, but I've seen things and experienced some things so I found this site to try and give others help.
I finished High School a couple months ago, and next year I will be attending college; and I was born in the u.s.a. (new york).
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