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Boyfriend having a boner
soo is it possible to give my bofriend a boner while he's hugging me from behind since my butt is touching his thing .. i dont know if he had a boner but i think kind of feltt it not sure because my butt was really close weel it was actually touching his penis already this was at school we had clothes on of course !!... but yeah is it possible or else how can i give him one while hes hugging me from behind..?
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Sex education in schools is SO lacking in the normal stuff like this, understanding the body chemistry and sexual response stuff not to mention, where do you go to learn about regular understanding of what the opposite sex means when in a relationship or even if someone has an interest or attraction to you. Most of us who already know this stuff are indeed going to wonder why it is of any importance to you, but hey...you gotta start learning and since this is an advice column it is not the best place for you to self education of the topic of sexuality and relationships but I have a site for you to check on that caters to teens and college age and handles topics of many different types. Right now i believe the video are about 165 in number. All 3-4 min long and packed with info that is right on, coming from me, a grandma aged individual who is very open minded and have studied lots of the topics she covers and experienced lots of them too.
Here it is and then read on for my explanation on guys having a hard on.
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Young males are able to have a boner/hard on so easily. It doesnt even take contact with a female such as in hugging you or your clothed bodys being close. Males are aroused easily just by what they see. What they see sends a message to their brains that starts sending the extra blood to the penis to make it hard. What will sexually arouse guys as they get a bit older and more particular in their likes will differ among them. One guy will be more aroused by a woman with huge boobs while another finds that overkill and only wants em big enough to big a handful. So don't ever think you have to look a certain way to be attractive to a guy. Maybe young boys going through puberty will have hard ons all the time, even when there's no female around, such as when they first wake up in the morning and there it is making a tent of the bed covers.
Some males will want to indulge in their sexual arousals and find girls to have sex with only to take care of their sexual needs and not care to please the girl, may not even have any feelings of love for her. Its easy for a guy to separate feelings for the sexual urge from love. They dont need to feel love to want sex. Girls want to be loved to have sex and are often tricked into it.
Unfortunately for guys, even the nice ones who may treat you like a princess and want to wait until you're older for sex, they can't hide their arousals, females can hide theirs easily. Theirs is out there to see and feel through clothes, whether they like it or not. So if you find a really nice guy, and he is not bringing any attention to the fact that he has an arousal, you don't need to bring it up either. He just enjoys being around you and spending time with you and will get those boners, even if all he wants is to watch a movie with you. A guy can learn to exercise self control and ignore his arousal. Eventually the blood subsides and it goes away but the smallest incident can bring it back. It can't go on for hours in that state cus its not normal to do so and can cause damage to the tissues. Thats why they warn older men using viagra if they have have erections lasting more than so many hours to go see a doctor.
I hope this helps dear. Please watch Laci's video's and look for other helpful info sites on the web. If you have trouble finding them and what stuff on a particular subject, I may have them saved in bookmarks already, so let me know. You can write to my column directly so that I can actually answer you back.
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I'm assuming you're in high school. Guys can simply get hard just by words, or even just randomly when they aren't horny or thinking of anything sexually.
Why would you want to give him one when you guys are at school? I definitely don't advise that. It's inconvenient for him and it's not like you're going to pleasure him or something so don't try to give him a boner when you guys are at school.
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Why is this important? Not be rude but seriously?
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