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Friend can't take a hint!
My friends and I are going to St louis for the weekend. One of our friends invited himself to go. We're goin to the cardnial game and he doesnt have a ticket, but yet he still coming?? Our friend can't take a hint..... Background he has red hair and his name is Keith and wears everyone out! PLEASE HELP
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If you nor your friends want this guy around, then don't just drop hints. Tell him. Someone has to be the one to speak, so it can be you or one of your other friends. Someone has to step up and speak, not hint.
If you choose to step up and speak, be mature and don't be mean or malicious about the situation.
Don't be rude or mean, that's not ok. But you should simply say that you and your friends don't really bond or get along with him. Pull him to the side, don't tell him I'm front of the group or anyone else. It will most likely hurt him and embarrass him saying that you don't want him tagging along with you guys, so don't say it in a mean way. There is no need for attitude to come with it.
He wants to be around you and your friends, but you guys don't want to be around him. Is it so bad that you have to dismiss him from your presence? Maybe so.
Just tell him how you feel
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Why give him hints? Why can't you just straight up tell him that he can't come. You don't have to be mean about it or anything, just tell him that he just can't go.
What does his hair color have to do with any of this?
Just tell him, it's not that big of a deal..
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Just be nice about it, Tell him that you made plans with so and so and maybe you guys could plan something when he gets back. If you didn't want him to go then why tell him? What does his hair color even have anything to do with this? Sounds to me maybe you are being a bit of an asshole toward your friend? Be nice about it, He doesn't get it because nobody explained it too him in a NICE way.
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don't just stand by and witness this tell him, don't be afraid to say - hey i know your my friend and i would love for you to come but if you don't have a ticket how are you going to get in. if your going to afraid don't even ask for advice.
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