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I don't understand
I don't understand that why he demands such type of things! he is 34yrs old and a businessman and i m 21yrs old . he behave like a child . he don't understand my condition and my problem .his only question is why i lied to him.I told him that i was ashamed and afraid that he leave me alone. now i clear everything about my past,and cried before him.but he has no care for me. but he all the time teasing me. i don't used him i really love him. i never want a single chocolate from him!he also has a past. i never make it a big issue. he is talking about his past everyday but i never mind with it. i know i hurt him ,but i say sorry to him more than 100times.and tell him that i ll try my best to make him happy. but he says if i leave my study ri8 now,and marry him and be a good house wife,and i have to prove that i love him becoz he don't trust me,then he again trust me . he tell me that he ll not give any effort into our relationship.this is only my responsibility to make this relationship happy.
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Whoa! This guy is taking things a little too far.
This guy is mistreating you. He is not treating you right and you don't deserve everything that he's dishing out, you don't deserve this at all. He is not understanding or trying to understand you, and he's being careless of your feelings at all. You should not accept that! NOONE should accept this type of behavior towards them.
He is being absurd and irrational by demanding you to do these things because he feels like you OWE him that. He is wrong for that and you need to understand that if any guy truly loved you, they would accept the mistakes that you committed in the past and accept you for who you are. If someone truly loved you they would want to see you happy and help you get through your problems, not create them. If someone truly loved you they would want to see you prosper and succeed in life. If someone truly loved you they would not try to hurt you intentionally.
He is being extremely immature and careless for teasing you. First off, he is way too old for that. Secondly, if he's teasing you, you should see right then and there what kind of guy he is. Not a good one. That's absurd! You do not deserve to be treated this way. Do not allow it to continue.
Also, why is he able to talk about your past but you're not? I'll answer this for you...
That is not FAIR. This only shows that he is self-centered and doesn't consider your feelings at all. You are being a push over when you allow him to do that and it doesn't seem like he cares if you're okay with it or not.
He doesn't sound like he's too hurt about him finding out about your past but it sounds like he is more upset that you kept something from him. His reaction and behavior to this whole deal is too much and frankly it is sickening.
You shouldn't live your life apologizing to someone. You didn't do something terrible by telling him about your past! It's something that you could have mentioned in the beginning, but you still told him. It's not like you said that you cheated on a guy. (Did you?)
I believe that you said that the confession you told to your current boyfriend is that you were in an abusive relationship. If you weren't beating up your ex or hurting him physically or abusing him mentally, then there's nothing that you should be sorry about.
Even if you did do something bad in your past, That's in the PAST.
Listen, hear me out and take these words and really apply them to you. You deserve better than this guy. You deserve better than how he is treating you. You don't need this guy in your life. A guy who knows how to respect you, who cares for you, who wants to see you genuinely happy, who treats you right, who helps you, who truly loves you is the type of guy you need.
Dump this guy. You can find something better.
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