Question Posted Wednesday September 25 2013, 11:40 pm
My boyfriend and I had sex a while ago and we didn't use a condom but he didn't cum in me and his dick was only in me for about 5 seconds. I think he popped my cherry cause I bled a little bit. I'm 2 days late on my period and I'm starting to really worry. Am I pregnant??:(
The rhythm method of birth control calls for a woman to refrain from having sex during the middle two weeks of her cycle. This is because during that time is when a woman ovulates and can become pregnant. Just where in that time period a woman ovulates and releases an egg is different for each woman. This is true for about 80% of woman. The other 20% can ovulate at any time, even during their period.
So unless you know when you ovulate, there is really no safe time to have unprotected sex, even if it is your first time. Given everything that is going on in the world of sex today you should insist that your partner always use a condom even if you are on birth control. Condoms protect against many of the STDS out there and the HIV/AIDS virus. No condom no sex that should be your motto if you are going to be sexually active.
Most likely stress over whether or not you are pregnant is causing your period to be late. There are other things that can cause a period to be late such as a change in diet, exercise routine, antibiotic medication as well as change in sleep patterns.
The best thing to do is to go the drug store an buy a home test kit and follow the package directions. I know you don't want mom finding the test kit. I don't normally advise hiding things from mom but in this case. Buy the kit and put it in your purse. If you don't have to test first thing in the morning then test at school.
If you do have to test in the morning do so, then repackage the kit and put it back in your purse and dispose of it at school. Should you get a positive result wait a few days and test again. These kits produce more false positive then negatives. If you get a second positive then you need to see a doctor for a medical test and you have some hard choices to make. We can discus those at another time if need be but the odds are in your favor that stress is the problem particularly if you have no other symptoms of pregnancy. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Razhie answered Thursday September 26 2013, 8:51 am: It's unlikely, quite unlikely, but possible.
It's a bit more like that stress and worry is delaying your period. You've got a few more days before you should have any real fear. The best thing you can do right now is relax - as hard as that sounds.
lightoftruth answered Thursday September 26 2013, 5:43 am: Yeah, there is always a chance to get pregnant when you don't have protected sex.
Precum does have sperm in it, which can get you pregnant.
Although stress and many other factors can add to why your period is late. So if you keep stressing, you won't know. You might want to get a pregnancy test and follow those directions. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
evil-devil12 answered Thursday September 26 2013, 5:03 am: Yes there is a chance that you're pregnant. Why do girls keep having unprotected sex? Use a condom and this doesn't happen! You can get the morning after pill a day after you had sex but I'm guessing it's too late for that now.
So yes, you might be pregnant. The chances aren't that high but there is a possibility. It doesn't matter if a guy cums in you or not. There is always precum and that can get you pregnant. [ evil-devil12's advice column | Ask evil-devil12 A Question ]
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