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what am I doing wrong!?


Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 7:15 pm

i'm a 16 year old teenage girl. I have been in a lot of relationships but idk what happens. they either always cheat on me, dup me in a very bad way, always ask me for sex, or end up ignoring me. i'm very insecure about my self. people tell me all the time they wish that they looked like me. I have brown long hair with highlights bright green eyes C cup bra skinny and I have a black girls butt. I guess I'm a lil pretty but with guy's always doing this it hurts:""""( I have never lied to a guy cheated on him or ignored him. I've always been honest and even one time when I was grounded I would sneak my phone just to be able to talk to them. what am I doing wrong?????? please tell me so that I can stiop!

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I'm pregnant and my husband keeps tell me I'm fat


Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 3:50 pm



I'm 7 months pregnant and my husband keeps joking that I'm fat and I need to loose weight. I gained weight in my face. I was skinny before I was pregnant & I know I won't be skinny after I give birth. But he keeps calling me fat it really hurts my feelings because I feel like he thinks I am disgusting. What should I do?

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Just as confused as before


Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 11:02 am

So my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year it eould have been out 1 year and a half in 2 days. We broke up for about 2 months now and each months I've been trying to get him back. He says he still has feelings for me and missed me whiel we we not together. We even got to the point eventually that we did intimate things we did as a couple. It wa as if we never broke up. But lately its been going doenhill becase noe he thinks that it wont work if ee get back together. Im convincing him still. But the other day i asked him to go hang out eith me for my birthday and he told me he has no ride. But proceeded to ask me what did i want to accomplish by asking him to go wth me, why, saying that it wont work like that. But after an hour...

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what to do when you dont get a right partner


Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 7:29 am

i am an indian .i m 39+but look like 10 to 12 yers younger than my age.i am divorcee and have a son who is 10 years old .i want to get married with somebody whom i like appeanancewise..should be smart well placed and settled ...even with a kid also but he should be good looking..i have registered myself in few matrimonies also but not geeting a suitable match ...i am so frustated and worried with every passing day as i am geeting older with this day...seek help suggest me how to search or what to do..because those who like me they are 45 +..not maintained males..and whom i like they just because of my age nd a child dont consider me.please help

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Should i open up about my problems?


Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 3:33 am

I'm in love with a girl who just told me she had a crush on a guy. She found out some people at my school were bullying me, but it wasn't for being a lesbian, she doesn't know i am, but their bullying did lead to some serious problems... self harm and starvation. I used to eat one bowl of veggies a week, just plain boiled, and overdose on coffee at all other times. I go to a boarding school, so no one cares, but now that i am back, my friend here is noticing, but i'm afraid if i admit it to her, i might let the fact that i like her slip. I've told her everything else, and she was there for me when my family wasn't when one of my friends killed himself. Should i open up to her, because that would really help me? or should i leave it, because she might find out the i like her?

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He doesn't appreciate me


Posted Wednesday November 27 2013, 11:56 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. We're both in our 20s. When we met, we took things slowly but he was always more in favor of a committed relationship. It's not that I didn't like him, in fact, I liked him a lot, but I had just gotten out of a controlling relationship a few months prior and was enjoying my freedom.

Well after a several months of casual dating, we made it official and he has made this past year my happiest one yet. We have had maybe 2 arguments since we met; we agree on almost everything! Seriously, I have been in absolute bliss. We make each other laugh and I've found that what I have with him is what I've always wanted.

However, something lately has bothered me. I...

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why does this always happen to me.


Posted Wednesday November 27 2013, 9:58 pm

i'm a teenage girl. I've been in quiet a few relationships, they always end bad. guys always want me for sex when all the guys in my school knows I'm not sexually active. they always try or try to force me. it always ends like "u won't do anything with me so were done" or "do this or I'm done with u" or "if u do this with me i'll be with u forever". I have a booty and I have boobs they aren't big but they are noticeable. why do guys want that? i'm not going to give it to them so why do they try

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what's going on?!?!?!


Posted Wednesday November 27 2013, 9:53 pm

okay im 14 and I have a bf' he is my age. we dated for 4 days them broke up because he had something SERIOUS going on and he didn't want me involved. after it was solved we got back together and it will be 2 weeks in a couple of days. he cares about himself and hunting but he is the sweetest thing ever. I feel like I love him to death but over the phone he is ignoring my messages and calls. I never do that to him. why is he doing this to me??? thanks

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Craving love?


Posted Wednesday November 27 2013, 7:14 pm

Hi, im 15/f
I have never had a boyfriend, kissed anyone, or done anything. I'm a normal sophomore girl I just haven't wanted a boyfriend until now and it's getting crazy. I feel like it's my hormones because I get weird feelings.. But now most of the day I'm daydreaming of having a boyfriend and kissing, snuggling and all that. i also don't find blow jobs gross like I would give one to him after a while. But I do find sex terrifying and I wouldn't have that though. No guy has come into my life yet, and i just want him to already.

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i need help about my emotions


Posted Wednesday November 27 2013, 5:06 pm

Hello so I brok up with my bf because I thought I needed to focus on my education, I stopped liking him and now were friends but no he's dating my close friend and I dont why but I feel this were swollen feeling in my heart is this normal

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What should i do about my failing relationship?


Posted Tuesday November 26 2013, 10:23 pm

Ok so I have no idea where to start with this its a mess. I'm 15 sophmore in highschool, female, and as far as relationships go I am highly unstable. So I have a boyfriend and our relationship has been up and down mostly on my part since I'm bipolar and he hates it. One minute I'm yelling at him and cursing him out the next minute I wanna make out and another I want to cry alone in a corner. Ugh what's wrong with me. Today he "broke up" with me and I almost broke down crying but then he said he was only joking (it wasn't funny). He also didn't eat lunch with me and instead with one of his female friends alone. He didn't tell me but I knew and I kinda went into his Facebook messages to confirm it and apparently they didnt do anythi...

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Am I not enough?


Posted Tuesday November 26 2013, 5:33 am

My boyfriend and I are a relatively happy couple, we have been together 2 years and live together with a child from his previous relationship. When we first started dating he always acted to raunchy and had cravings towards me. I remember when I could make him drip beads of sweat. I know that after a while the lust level does go down. But I feel as if we still have a lot of sex. He never really talks about it with me or tells me he is craving it anymore. This morning he told me he feels his sex drive isn't really there anymore and it made me feel like I am not enough or attractive enough to keep him excited. We do a lot of fun kinky things to mix it up and keep it interesting but I feel sometimes that he might now be satisfied with just me....

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My love life is a mess and I'm completely confused with it. Help?


Posted Monday November 25 2013, 12:06 am

13/f (Ik Im young, but I have been through a lot for a 13 year old. This is just a part)
So over the summer me and my crush had a summer romance, we dated for about 2 and a half months then since we didn't go to the same school he broke up with me just saying we should take a break and that it might be the biggest mistake he has ever made. So then about 2 weeks later one of my guy friends asked me out and I said yes but I couldn't help feeling like he deserved better because I was still heartbroken over my ex. So I told my bf about this and he understood where I was coming from so we broke up. And about a month after that I was doing pretty good. But one day I was helping my friend after a breakup and I was trying to help him get ove...

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Why does everyone assume I have a boyfriend?


Posted Sunday November 24 2013, 9:57 pm

Everyone always assumes that I'm married or have a boyfriend. When I tell them I'm single they are so surprised like 'why are you single' and I just say i dont know. To be honest im 26 years old and Ive never had a real serious relationship. When ever i am interested in a guy I either get rejected or something else happens where it doesnt work out. So it always surprises me when people assume im taken because of all of the bad luck ive experienced. And if all these people assume this does this means that they are guys that like me but wont approach me because they think I'm unavailable? What do you think?

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Getting a guys number


Posted Saturday November 23 2013, 10:16 pm

I've liked this guy for a few months and I've finally gotten up the courage to get his number. When I asked him for it (on Wednesday) he blushed and while telling me he forgot it for a second then remembered. I texted him on Thursday (today is Saturday) and I still haven't gotten a response. He talked to me in the hallways on Friday and walked me to my next class which is weird since we haven't talked much since school started. So anyways, since he hasn't responded, I don't know what to do because it doesn't seem like he's ignoring me purposely and I don't think he'd purposely give me a fake number. He either: 1. Got his phone taken away (I asked him for his number while he was on his way to detention so that's a possibility) 2. Accidentall...

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Hot and Cold guy


Posted Saturday November 23 2013, 6:57 pm

I met this guy about a month ago, we went out once, and I keep casually asking him if he wants to hang out again but he is often busy, so I figured I should let him initiate from now on. I can't figure him out, though. If I don't text him all day, he will say, "I don't like that we didn't talk much today!" but HE is the one that stops answering me! One night he told me that he feels like "I don't like him sometimes," since I've started to back off. I told him that I want to hang out with him, and he responded that he is nervous to hang out with me again, so I think he is just shy, but he also makes me feel like I'm bugging him, because he stops answering me. What should I do?

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Does he like me?


Posted Saturday November 23 2013, 10:50 am

So there is this boy at school who I would say is fairly shy around girls and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not (I like him a lot..). Basically I always catch him subtly looking in my direction and staring at me when he thinks I can't see. He also kind of comes over to stand with me when we're waiting to go into a lesson. About 2 months agp he asked me to go to the prom with him (I said yes) but apparently it took him about three weeks to pluck up the courage to ask. His friends tease him about me and him an awful lot and say that we're a good couple and make heart shapes at us.. Whenever this happens he gets annoyed with them and calls them things which are not very nice. I don't know if he likes me because he's never asked for my nu...

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Help!! Test questions


Posted Saturday November 23 2013, 1:42 am

Alright first off I apologize in advance and please reply nicely.
I'm very nervous. I've been taking sooo many preg tests and I'm beyond paranoid. I've been getting cramps and some soreness in one breasts.
Had sex and he wore a condom. Didn't break!
I took two equate tests and both negative!
I also took a bunch of cheap ones and a bunch of them were negative. I also stored one in the car and since it was cold later on I looked at it then had another line. Test not to read after ten minutes.
I took another this morning and it was negative.
I also took a different one and read it within the 2 minutes it said then I think I saw another line.. Not sure
I'm so confused I thought you shouldn't rea...

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Is it weird that I love it when my bf gets a boner when I hug him


Posted Friday November 22 2013, 8:05 pm

Ok hey guys
I was wondering if it was a bit weird that I like it when my bf gets a boner
I mean when he hugs me from behind I can feel it and it feels so good
I'm 14 and my bf is 15
Please no comments about age

Should I say anything to him about it and if you have any suggestions what could I say

Thank you for answering🎀🎀🎀

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weve liked each other sense elementary school, it cant end now!


Posted Thursday November 21 2013, 10:15 pm

17/ female. Hey there so Im going to try not to make this long, so here goes. Me and this guy have liked each other sense 5th grade we just didn't really get to talk that much in middle school, because we went to different schools, but we would still keep in touch and when we did text off and on 6-8 grade it would still be flirting and us still liking each other. Well the summer of 8th grade going into freshman year came and that means both middle schools combine so I would be with him. Anyway that summer I met the guy who would be my first true love and I would have all of my firsts with. Turns out he lead me through an abusive relationship my whole freshman year and got me mixed up in some big situations and cheated on me the whole year b...

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