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Should i open up about my problems?


Question Posted Thursday November 28 2013, 3:33 am

I'm in love with a girl who just told me she had a crush on a guy. She found out some people at my school were bullying me, but it wasn't for being a lesbian, she doesn't know i am, but their bullying did lead to some serious problems... self harm and starvation. I used to eat one bowl of veggies a week, just plain boiled, and overdose on coffee at all other times. I go to a boarding school, so no one cares, but now that i am back, my friend here is noticing, but i'm afraid if i admit it to her, i might let the fact that i like her slip. I've told her everything else, and she was there for me when my family wasn't when one of my friends killed himself. Should i open up to her, because that would really help me? or should i leave it, because she might find out the i like her?

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qa123 answered Saturday November 30 2013, 3:29 pm:
she told you she has crush on guy and she is into boys not girls so be friends can like each other but she wont love you like you love her accept it and find someone who is lesbian and love you and you love her and seek counselling as you have other issues should deal with good luck

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lightoftruth answered Saturday November 30 2013, 6:32 am:
I don't think you should be opening up to her, I think you should be opening up to an adult who can actually help you with your problems. The only thing she can do is be supportive but there are people out there who are trained to help you with these sort of problems.
So talk to an adult, talk to a counselor.

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Lukacrossziera answered Thursday November 28 2013, 9:14 pm:
I think you should open up to her...its not a crime to like someone.And if that can help you,you should open up.If you tell her about you,i think she will understand.And both you can become a best friend..brave yourself.

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