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Hot and Cold guy
I met this guy about a month ago, we went out once, and I keep casually asking him if he wants to hang out again but he is often busy, so I figured I should let him initiate from now on. I can't figure him out, though. If I don't text him all day, he will say, "I don't like that we didn't talk much today!" but HE is the one that stops answering me! One night he told me that he feels like "I don't like him sometimes," since I've started to back off. I told him that I want to hang out with him, and he responded that he is nervous to hang out with me again, so I think he is just shy, but he also makes me feel like I'm bugging him, because he stops answering me. What should I do?
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I think you should have an actual plan of what to do. Instead of being like, "We should hang out soon." have an idea of something to do. You could ask him, "Do you want to hang out this Friday?" Have a set date. If he says he's busy, then pick another day. If he keeps making up excuses, you just got to let him go because he's not putting in the effort to get to know you.
If you guys find a free day, make sure you have an idea of what you want to do. He'll probably ask what you guys are going to do and if you say something like, "Idk, it's up to you" or something along those lines, it won't get anywhere. So just have a general idea of things you'd like to do.
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Dear writer,
The best answer I can think of is to tell him whats on your mind. I can tell you like him and it seems he likes you guys are just so confusing lol so I am thinking to just be honest with him and let him know what your thinking saves the hassle of worrying about it and if hes saying I feel like we didn't talk to much today tell him why. ~mesachick51~
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