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Does he like me?
So there is this boy at school who I would say is fairly shy around girls and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not (I like him a lot..). Basically I always catch him subtly looking in my direction and staring at me when he thinks I can't see. He also kind of comes over to stand with me when we're waiting to go into a lesson. About 2 months agp he asked me to go to the prom with him (I said yes) but apparently it took him about three weeks to pluck up the courage to ask. His friends tease him about me and him an awful lot and say that we're a good couple and make heart shapes at us.. Whenever this happens he gets annoyed with them and calls them things which are not very nice. I don't know if he likes me because he's never asked for my number, we don't hang out outside of school (although his friends have invited me to go to the cinema with them) and recently he's stopped replying to facebook messages I send him :( I'm confused as I think I'm sending pretty clear signs that I like him and I'm not sure what to do now?
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Maybe he calls them names because they're making him nervous around you. I've seen that happen a lot.
Obviously, he had some sort of feelings for you, since he DID asked you out to the prom, but for him to not reply back to your messages? Hm? You should talk with him face to face. That way, he can't ignore it. You need answers, so ask him for the truth.
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Well it could be a 50/50 chance when he looks at you a lot and stands with you. But since he asked you to prom, then there is a much, much bigger chance that he likes you too.
I think since he's really shy, you're going to get mixed signals. So you might as well take initiative. Give him your number, I think his friends will bug him about texting you anyways if you do. Or you can ask him for his number.
So I think that's your first step. Or you can make plans with some of your friends and invite him along like his friends did.
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Considering his reaction towards his friends, there is a chance he is either embarassed by their teasing, or he is afraid of a girl putting too much emphasis on the fact that he is spending time with her and consider him a romantic- boyfriend and that puts too much quality tutorials, but it’s good to know if we’re on a right path! Stay tuned for more winter-related projects!
unwanted type of pressure on him to be and act the way his friends or how he guesses a girl might want him to act.
He is interested in you if he's constantly looking at you, comes to stand near you and of course has asked you to prom. He just doesnt know how to handle the extra attention all kids give to each other if it looks like you are hanging out with and dating someone.
Some of the best relationships start with a guy and gal becoming best friends like you and your girlfriends. Maybe you could let him know you'd like to be just friends with him for now, no romantic dating, maybe at a later time. And ask him what he thinks of that. He can still take you to prom though if he wishes.
My guess is he doesn't want his friends to see him together with you which is why he wont invite you to somewhere they are going to be. If he's willing to be a friend, then ask if he'd like to come to your house, just him and you to watch a movie, listen to music or hang out and talk like you would with girlfriends. Perhaps in time once he is used to hanging with you as a friend, he may be more comfortable being seen in public with you.
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